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About Me

"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allisonhutto

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-24

    What to say?? I am a very honest and open person. I love to have fun but I'm not a party girl. I love to hunt and things like that. Not afraid to get dirty, but I can get dolled up for a night out. I would really like to find someone who is wanting something serious. I don't want to play games. Well if you'd like to chat don't be scared to message me.

  • Martina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    New to dating. I was married and together with my ex for 17 years. I'm just checking things out here. Dating as an adult appears to be much different than when I was 18. About me, I have two boys, 4 and 10. I was a stay at home mom for 9 Years. No offense to working moms, but I wouldn't have traded it for anything. I feel grateful to have raised my boys in their critical years. I'm a huge football fan, and love to host football parties and tailgate.! I enjoy all sports, but I love football. I have been working with and training dogs since I was a child. It's a natural ability I seem to posess and comes easy to me. Nothing allows you to see your true self then being reflected in a dogs eye. They see the real you, no doubt. I'm looking for a person that's good for the sake of being good. Somebody who is playful, sarcastic, passionate, successful in their personal, social and professional life. I like to workout, particularly weight training, so I would like to share that passion with somebody. I'm an open book. I don't get hung up on unimportant things. I like to live my life free of drama. I don't try to change people. Treat me as you will, but I get the say on if you get to have a part of my life. I'm not afraid to use that ability, either. Given the environment of the manner in which we are meeting a first date should be more a meet and greet; coffee or a drink. If we hit it off then anything is possible.

  • Lovie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Talk about myself...the hard part. I am a very active girl that likes to have fun. My job requires me to be in front of a computer all day, so when the work day ends I like to get out and do something. I workout 3 or 4 days a week, I like playing sports, going out on the boat, attending sporting events and just hanging out with my friends. I enjoy weekends up north or other long weekend trips. I definately have my down time too when I like movies or reading a good book. I am close with my family and friends, they are very important and a big part of my life. My taste in music is mostly rock and pop, but occasionally i listen to some country. Someday I would love to live on a lake and be able travel more.

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