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Fern, 39

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About Me

"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Doloris

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    i'm looking for someone to share the wonder and excitement of life with...someone who has a wicked sense of humor,enormous heart...someone that loves animals...sensual..spiritual..genuine...compassionate and ooooohsooooo passionate about what they believe in.....hate fakes n dishonest people..(love tattoos I think they are Sexy;))...being kind and compassionate 2 others is a must......love life theres sooo much out there to enjoy n having the right person 2 do it with is the highest of highs.....i love 2 cuddle n kiss n hugs a must i love to try new things..how else would u know what u like...variety is the spice of life.....just do it...how cliche.!!...i try 2 b original...love all kinds of music but not country 2 sad 4 me....I am not much into TV but enjoy movies..good ones......luv the yankees..n going 2 the games a plus..jets jets jets..go gang green..!!I enjoy sporting Events& need to nurse a sore throat the next day...I love theme parks & rides...good fun.. good food.. good company makes a start of a good night..!!.I enjoy being outside I love the ocean I love watersports, esp jetskiis...I love motorcycles, enjoy riding through the mountains & along the shore..campfires in the fall:)) I am a nature FREaK & love to find & explore things,go hiking etc.. I have a lil cabin in the woods its awesome for weekend getaways...love wildlife and am not scared of Anything, maybe humans..that"s about it..please no sissy guys if a mouse or spider make u jump, look somewhere else.!!..I pick up bugs frogs mice..NO FEAR...:)) I love to dance, but not crazy about 2day's club scene, I enjoying quiet nights with a good movie.. I also enjoy appetizers and****ails:)) I have a wide variety of likes....I come from a Great Italian family & My mom always made sure we were busy & having fun and giving us enrichment throughout our life and gave abundance of love... So BE KIND, especially to Animals & the elderly they are my weakness;*((...Have FUN, Take Chances & AlwaysAlways be yourself, never let anybody change you""(unless you're real shitty, than by all means...)must have good manners, momma raised me right:) lol....I know there's way more but that is it for Now....peace;)) SPONTANEITY IS "KEY"....lets go with the flow and see where the day(or night) takes us....having such a wide range of interests it hard to pin one down but i'm certain we can find something to do as LONG AS ITS 'NOT' COUNTRYLINE DANCING!!.. i always always make the best out of any situation so we can do just about anything n you will have a good time.....promise;)

  • Skuyler

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Im just tired of games i want a man to be around and has to be good to his kids i like sports and being outside i enjoy hanging out with friends family is a big deal cause i dont have one the best therapy in life is a long ride on a harley with a group of friends or just us alone! My passions are my daughter and singing! I'm not a gold digger lookin for someone to pay my bills! I enjoy just about anything every day os what you make it! I ask for complete honesty! And that you have a job! I work hard! And play harder! But there is a time and place for every thing! Take it as it comes! A drink or two is good ! Helps to calm the nerves! I'm new to dating so I'm pretty open. To anything!

  • Sharise

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hey! I am not good at describing myself. You always see yourself different than the way others see you. So you can be the judge. I like to have fun, go out, laugh, relax, chill, take a walk, eat...I am up for anything. Love my life here. Looking for someone who is cool, doesnt have all kinds of drama, isnt a bum and isnt looking to hook up with a hundred girls on here. I am also not a stick figure. I got some meat on my bones and I am happy being me. I am not looking for my next husband on here, I think that is unrealistic. Just looking to meet some cool people. I dont know what else to say. And is this a PS? Maybe it is. If your profile picture is one of you and your kid/kids. I already dont have respect for you. You may be a great dad and all but your kids pictures dont belong on a dating website. Just my feelings.So with all that being said and if you are still reading maybe you should message me to say hi because we might get along =) Something crazy, something lowkey, I dont care...lets just not spend weeks texting and messaging and going back and forth...get it over with to see if there is anything there...

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