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"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-37

    My name is Falcon. I'm a 27 year old single mother of 2. I have my own place though no transportation of my own. I like to read, draw, swim, write poetry, watch movies, and spend time with my kids. I don't have the money to subscribe to this site so if you like what you see hit me up on ***, my name on there is Falcon Shepherd. Or you can text me at ***. Just send a pic with your name, age and where you live.

  • Adrie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I wish whoever is reading this joy that is truly in us all. The hope to be able to share your story with that one person who will listen and accept you for who you truly are not what you have. I have faith that it is in us all to be truly happy in this confusing world. Till then I will cherish those around me with the depth that a heart can truly hold! "It's easy to love somebody when everything is wonderful. The proof of someone's love is that they still love you when everything is awful.".......

  • Mariam

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    **Please, keep looking if you just want a "hook-up!" I'm not that kind of girl!**I'm a good-hearted woman! I try to make everyday the best I can, regardless of what "storms" I am faced with! Life is a live & learn process and I've learned a lot! On the other hand, many guys have taken advantage of my good heart and hurt my heart.I love to cook & bake, sometimes just to try new things. I am willing to try new things because life is too short not to have fun & make the most out of each day.Since I've been on my own as a single mom, I have developed ways of doing things that work for me. I understand some may seem a lil inflexible, but I am trying my best with a lil gentle nudging. I'm willing to change, just need to the right person to walk beside me.I have my life together; I've been in my career over 10 years, pay ALL my own bills, & am a mom to the most amazing kids! If you have a problem with any of the above, please DON'T message me.I am looking for someone to share my life with. Someone to walk beside me, be proud to call me his girl, and who thinks about me even when we are apart, no matter how many women he sees or talks to. Please, don't be afraid of commitment; life is more fun when you have someone to be goofy with!! I don't need someone to support financially, but to support in this adventure we call "life." Anything fun and enjoyable for both of us! I love to laugh and be goofy, when time allows.

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