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Fern, 39

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About Me

"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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