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About Me

"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 19-39

    Hi! My name is Bb. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Jesup, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Tiera

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am an outgoing loving person. Anything else ask me! You have to smile and have a humorous personality! Laughing keeps you young! Meet for drinks and go from there.

  • Arlinda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    This is always the hard part.I am a simple, kind, down to earth, diverse, drama free, modest woman. I'm family and career orientated. I have never been married. I love football, playing pool, darts, dining out, movies, concerts, boating, traveling, and being with family and friends. I work in the IT field and have a stable career, home and vehicle. I am looking forward to doing more international traveling. I have found a love for the Caribbean. I would like to find someone that shares the same desire to travel. I try to get to the gym ***times a week. I will admit I can be lazy with this as I don't like working out alone. I like to be challenged and I have been known to be competitive at times. Within reason of course (I know my limits)How other would describe me: funny, out going, laid back, I appear flaky until I get to know you. I'm mysterious, and I like my time alone. I am very honest and forward but not rude about it. I am blend into any situation and get alone with almost anyone I come in contact with. I have a way of putting people to ease with my company, I don't like to be pressured or forced into anything. I like to let nature takes it's course. What I am looking for is someone without a felony, or done jail time. Who is a gentleman, goal orientated, open minded, who knows what a relationship is suppose to be about. I am not seeking my equal but some to balance out the relationship and add happiness. If you are jealous, and insecure we will have problems. I am secure with myself and want that in my partner as well. If you want to know more ask.

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