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Fern, 39

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About Me

"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kaylee

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-30

    Hi! My name is Kaylee. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Jesup, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Stacee

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I like to cook and play tennis - not at the same time of course. To me there's nothing better than cooking a great meal, it really relaxes me. Sometimes I end up chopping and slicing for hours, the same happens on the tennis court...he he he.Those are two of my passions, but no worries I have many others, see below. In general I'm outgoing, have a black belt in sarcasm (which has gotten me into trouble in the past, OY) and I keep myself on my toes. ;)But seriously I'm pretty easy going and like to joke around, but I'm also very affectionate, caring and loving. The usual drinks/ dinner to see if there's chemistry, then we could proceed with something spontaneous. I love dates where we just go with the flow and end up doing something we both enjoy. How about sightseeing in the rain? Or slow dancing at a rock concert? Bowling during senior's night? The options are endless...

  • Maidie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    A little about me: Independent, drama free, divorced with no children, and ready to find someone to enjoy my life with.I have a good career, good friends, my own house, and come from a loving family with just the right amount of dysfunction to make them funny and relatable. I work out ***times per week to stay in shape and love to be outdoors since I spend so much of my work life in an office. Around the house I like gardening, hire someone else to cut the lawn, and do my best to keep up with the joys of homeownership such as leaky faucets, loose hinges, and debunking spooky noises.While skydiving is not on my bucket list, I have gone zip lining and would love to try stand-up paddle boarding and maybe even windsurfing this summer. I'm also perfectly content with a glass of wine, a cozy fire, and a "friendly" (read: competitive, possibly violent) game of Pictionary, Scrabble, or Taboo. I have plenty of vacation days and would love to use them to explore somewhere new.I am definitely more of a morning person and would much rather hit the road at 6am on a Saturday for a day trip with my guy than stay out & party till 3am.I'd like to find someone who is funny, outgoing, intelligent, stable, and compassionate. A guy who will stop to help a stranger, is kind to animals, and who recognizes that the smallest of gestures can make a huge difference in someone else's day. What you do for a living or how much you earn is less important to me than how well you manage yourself and the kind of person you are. I want to be as mentally attracted to someone as I am physically. Experience with opening jars, killing bugs (or at least catching & releasing - I'd rather not kill them either) and lifting heavy things is also a plus :-)So if you're still reading this and would like to see if we have more in common, feel free to say hi. Otherwise, good luck in your search!

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