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Arlinda, 38

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About Me

This is always the hard part.I am a simple, kind, down to earth, diverse, drama free, modest woman. I'm family and career orientated. I have never been married. I love football, playing pool, darts, dining out, movies, concerts, boating, traveling, and being with family and friends. I work in the IT field and have a stable career, home and vehicle. I am looking forward to doing more international traveling. I have found a love for the Caribbean. I would like to find someone that shares the same desire to travel. I try to get to the gym ***times a week. I will admit I can be lazy with this as I don't like working out alone. I like to be challenged and I have been known to be competitive at times. Within reason of course (I know my limits)How other would describe me: funny, out going, laid back, I appear flaky until I get to know you. I'm mysterious, and I like my time alone. I am very honest and forward but not rude about it. I am blend into any situation and get alone with almost anyone I come in contact with. I have a way of putting people to ease with my company, I don't like to be pressured or forced into anything. I like to let nature takes it's course. What I am looking for is someone without a felony, or done jail time. Who is a gentleman, goal orientated, open minded, who knows what a relationship is suppose to be about. I am not seeking my equal but some to balance out the relationship and add happiness. If you are jealous, and insecure we will have problems. I am secure with myself and want that in my partner as well. If you want to know more ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adrie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I wish whoever is reading this joy that is truly in us all. The hope to be able to share your story with that one person who will listen and accept you for who you truly are not what you have. I have faith that it is in us all to be truly happy in this confusing world. Till then I will cherish those around me with the depth that a heart can truly hold! "It's easy to love somebody when everything is wonderful. The proof of someone's love is that they still love you when everything is awful.".......

  • Mya

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ... They have not spoken to each other in years. Their quarrel began over a woman they both love. Both were equally strong as well as equally handsome. Once and for all, they were determined to finish this dispute over who is the better man. The first brother’s argument was, “I know how old she is, I know how much she weighs, how tall she is, her hair color and eye color.” In which the second brother replies, “Oh, yeah, well I know her favorite restaurant, her favorite poetry line, her favorite work of art, her favorite book to read and what movie brings her to tears even though she has watched it 15 times.”… The first brother, determined to be right, countered with, “I know how educated she is, what her IQ score is and where she was born”. .. The second chimes back, somewhat raddled by now, “I know that she bites her nails when she is nervous, I know that she is truly balanced between strong but sensitive. I know she wrinkles her nose when she concentrates hard on something and that she falls asleep listening to music every night”. Fuming at this point, and determined, once again, to get the upper hand on the other brother, the first one replies, “yeah but with me, she gets very little sleep; for I know her needs and how to please her over and over and over again”. Second counters, “I know how perfectly my hand fits into the small of her back, I know her smell, I know the sweet taste of her lips”… By this time the whole bar has stopped to listen. Who will be the favorable brother? “I may not have all the money in the world,” said the second one, “But I will always be able to provide for her” as to which the first one says, “Oh yeah, well, I do have all the money in the world and she will never have to worry about being provided for as well as have all the things her heart desires”. …“well, let’s let her decide” while pointing to a woman standing alone at the other end of the bar.; she had been listening.“I have loved both of you, but one and only one decision has to be made…. and the brother whom I love the most is………”Which brother did the woman decide and why? Now, about me.....I'm an avid reader, lover of animals and think children are the most precious things in the world. The beach is my sanctuary and amusement parks are where I entertain my "inner child". Music is absolutely etched within my soul; If there is music, I'm there. I love classic cars, funny movies, stand-up comedy but, sorry guys, I'm not much of a sports fan (except live baseball, LOVE live baseball).I love to spend time with my partner but still know how to be comfortable alone. I have a big heart but I am not naive' enough to be a push over. I'm confident and speak my mind but I can do so with grace. I am just as comfortable in an old pair of jeans and flip flops as I am in an evening gown; I can fit into any environment....If I were to describe my "perfect" guy in 3 words, it would be.... intelligent, balanced, romantic....Best of luck, everyone! I hope we all find what we are looking for on here. :)"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." — Bob Marley If we can make each other laugh or keep smiling, then where we go or what we do doesn't really matter much, now does it?

  • Vinnie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I hate that you have to put something here, it's like an interview. Ok so here it goes. I hate stupidity, and rude people. I love natural health and Love what I do for a living. I am currently writing a cookbook and creating a new diet. I love to travel and experience new cultures and try new food . If you wanna know more just ask. Depends on the person.

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