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Collyn, 39

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Looking for a guy that is confident and knows what he wants. Must be employed and not take life to seriously. Must also know how to use spell check....Not really sure if I have any preferences but I do know that there has to be some attraction for this to work.....Confidence is very sexy and is needed.. if we meet and it is not there (for one or the other) I am OK with that...I find that I prefer clean cut guys, not to say I can't do scruffy but there has to be some attraction. I'm sorry but this means beards..I can't do them.. sorry! I am very easy going and pretty much un-offendable. I love to joke around and I do not take life to seriously. I love action and comedy movies and I love to be outside in the sun! I am mentally and financially secure and looking for the same. I love board games and card games. I don't watch much TV but I do LOVE The Walking Dead. I would love to spend time with someone when I do not have my kids. I was married for 12 years and separated for 5.I don't think I would mind dating someone with kids but I would think we would not meet each others kids for a while. I have heard horror stories of ex- wives so if you know yours is crazy please pass me up. :-) If still interested please send me a message. I try to answer all message but sometimes if I really feel we will not be a match I may not due to time. I am sorry in advance! Good luck in your search! I have found that a quick meet and greet works the best. Maybe grab a quick drink and after 15 minutes if there is nothing there we go our separate ways..no hard feelings. I am up for just meeting new friends too so if there are no sparks I'm good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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