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Stephany, 40

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About Me

I am a person who likes to be active. Tubing trips, camping, canoeing, concerts, road trips, and several other things. I am pretty diverse. I can go from a biker festival on a Friday night in a T shirt and jeans to a charity fundraiser in a dress and heels on Saturday to floating down the river on Sunday afternoon. And dont forget cheerleader mom in the bleachers at one of my kids' ball games. After all of the crazy fun in a day I like to unwind in the quiet with a good book, or even a movie once in a while.My best defense in stress is going for a long run or hitting the gym. I am happiest when making other people happy. I have become the go to person and that is great, but would like to know if there is someone out there who I can go to. Not when needed, because I realize I dont need anyone, but I know now that I want that someone special there. I always have fun with whatever I am doing. I can find the good in every day. I believe that life is too short not to have fun going through it. I live every day as if I am not sure how many more Ill have left.I have been divorced for 5 years and I am very happy with my life as it is now. Because I am happy with my life I know I am ready for someone who is just as happy with theirs.I have been described by others as genuine, unique, and simply not able to compare me to anyone. Ive taken these statements as good things. ;) People say those things about me because I am honest to a fault, but at the same time live by the phrase "If you cant say something nice then dont say anything at all". I wont lie, but dont like to hurt people's feelings either. I am always there when needed and support my friends and family with everything I have. I love my family and believe that friends are the family that you choose. I can only hope that I can meet someone with similar views on life who is also willing to include me in the things he is interested in and want to join in on the fun roller coaster of life that I live.Bad things happen to good people all the time. I know that , for me, there is always something to learn and take from those bad things. If we didnt have bad days then we wouldnt know how to appreciate the good ones. With that being said, if you need you bash your ex please dont do it on my time. I wouldnt do that on yours. Favorite quote "I'm selfish, impatient, and a littleinsecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handleme at me worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.-marilyn monroeI have had a couple of people ask me if I was on here before and if I changed my pictures. Yes, I have been on here before. I met a very nice man but it just wasn't meant to be. That ended months ago. I did also change my pictures. I put current ones up because I figure that's what I would want to see in the profiles I view. Current and accurate. No funny business here.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    New to dating. I was married and together with my ex for 17 years. I'm just checking things out here. Dating as an adult appears to be much different than when I was 18. About me, I have two boys, 4 and 10. I was a stay at home mom for 9 Years. No offense to working moms, but I wouldn't have traded it for anything. I feel grateful to have raised my boys in their critical years. I'm a huge football fan, and love to host football parties and tailgate.! I enjoy all sports, but I love football. I have been working with and training dogs since I was a child. It's a natural ability I seem to posess and comes easy to me. Nothing allows you to see your true self then being reflected in a dogs eye. They see the real you, no doubt. I'm looking for a person that's good for the sake of being good. Somebody who is playful, sarcastic, passionate, successful in their personal, social and professional life. I like to workout, particularly weight training, so I would like to share that passion with somebody. I'm an open book. I don't get hung up on unimportant things. I like to live my life free of drama. I don't try to change people. Treat me as you will, but I get the say on if you get to have a part of my life. I'm not afraid to use that ability, either. Given the environment of the manner in which we are meeting a first date should be more a meet and greet; coffee or a drink. If we hit it off then anything is possible.

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