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Fern
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
"" I don’t like most guys, but I am not interested in most guys. Perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals who I do connect with more special. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a proud mother of two amazing young girls. Ironically, these girls keep me grounded and adventurous. I love the ocean; hate the beach. Give me a balcony overlooking it any day. I enjoy reading, but for right now I read books that don't require too much thought or feeling. I do enough of that during the day. I have a career which provides long-term stability. I'm not looking for someone to support me or my children. I can offer a lifetime of devotion, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. Let's be honest, we are all on here for the same reason and we are seeking the kind of chemistry that happens when you spend quality time face to face. If we're not a match then we respectfully move on. It's ok to say, "I'm not interested." My biggest pet peeve is a man who can't tell it like it is. You should message me if: you think that your already-pretty-good-life is better when shared with someone, andyou're ready to find that someone now-ish.you're as likely (and happy) to spend Sunday lazing in bed as you are enjoying the outdoors. you have brains, humor, and challenging repartee. you want to teach me how to sail. you are spunky and self-confident (not narcissistic).you have resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). you have been through some sh*t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).you can spell, and are generally happy.The rest is negotiable. Don't bother messaging me if:you are looking for a quick hook-up; you are going to text message for days about nonsense.you are serial-first dater and looking for nothing more. This should be titled "Initial Meeting" not first date. Let's save that for when we really connect. In the mean time, we can meet for drinks and take it from there.
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Keira
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I'm a 36 year old single mother of a wonderful, soon-to-be, 3 year old. He is the number one person in my life. If I'm not working then he's with me. Needless to say I don't really have much of a social life these days. I really love music. Before my son came along I used to go to countless shows every year. Now it's more like 4 a year. The last 2 shows I saw were Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds and the Yeah Yeah Yeahs. I really pick and choose the shows I want to see. If I ever get a chance to see Tom Waits live I can die happy.I came to NY to work on my photography. I was on my way to building up my portfolio and then my son happened. It's been on hold ever since. I will get the ball rolling again soon. I'm looking forward to this summer. I'm planning on buying a bike so my son and I can ride in the park together. We're also going to plan a few beach outings as well as hitting up the neighborhood pool. I finally got back down to my pre-baby weight and I plan on keeping it off and getting in even better shape this summer. It's NYC so there's countless ideas for dates.DinnerMoviesWalking around the cityGoing to a show DrinksAmusement parksWe'll cross that road when we get to it.
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Floretta
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I've had long-term relationships, one-night stands and also casual lovers. I want more than that now. I will find the man who compliments my personality. One who has integrity, honor, intelligence, and a strong set of morals that I will one day be with. Knowing that kind of man can only occur if it begins with a friendship that holds no expectations of another for the future. So for now I seek a friendship and simply that. If it becomes more than it becomes more. If it does not then I have potentially made a good friend in the process. I've rushed into things before; I'm older and wiser now.