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Hello, I'm Janet... the most recent pics are the 2 puzzle frame pics and the one of me in the glasses and this main photo.I work downtown at a company that provides healthcare coding and assistance for individuals travelling in Germany. Alas, I speak German.At 3 years old, my parents were arguing about being 'anti-something' and I sauntered into the room and asked, "mommy, what does anti mean?" She responds, "It's when you are against something?"..I promptly backed up to the wall and ask, "Antiagainst the wall?!"- they couldn't stop laughing.;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring."I value my independence and "me" time, so if we are in a relationship and I ask you for space, it's not cause I don't like being with you - its because I am just asking for a time buffer, which is healthy in any relationship. I also don't like being smothered, asked what I am doing every ***hr, where I am, etc. Unless we are engaged or married...this is not a good habit to adopt. Also, if you abuse animals, keep them outside chained up, or abuse them physically -don't even consider messaging me-people who abuse animals will abuse people too. Disgusting and cruel.If you can't hold an intelligent conversation with me about politics, weather, music, the arts, geography, current events - the date will most likely fall flat. Geminis are conversationalists - it's our primary trait and we are VERY brainy.I will here and now admit that I am a kick ass dancer..trained...could smoke anyone off a dance floor. I am a DJ and a huge New Order,Joy Division, M***look up the song, Midnight City - *** You Be There"; Lately for some reason, I have been listening to a lot of British trip-hop..and Robyn- although she is not popular here, I have used her stuff frequently during DJ gigs. It works in larger venues really well. I also make a mean batch of fajitas and sehr gut pepper steak!I'm a House (the show) junkie, I watch the show to review my medical terminology (I'm not kidding). I used to eat lunch with Sylveste r Stallone's AUNT...Not a joke!Read my assessment for a Ibetter idea of how I tick... *** am looking for a guy who is very involved and enjoys hanging out with family. An individual who loves and cares for his mom and respects and admires his father. A guy who loves his sibs and enjoys hanging out with extended family. I come from a very large family - I'm very used to it.I'm a quick study, analytical, smart and quick with words. I speak German (minored in it). I like to keep you guessing- I am highly skeptical of the interwebs and people's ability to (sigh) "find your soul-mate" through a monitor. Peel away the layers, is my philosophy. If you let out too much, there is nothing left to do. *** like to dance, sing, travel, learn new languages, camp, swim, photography, movies..yadayada.I cannot go fishing, as I am SEVERELY allergic to fish, so can't do Thai, Japanese, Chinese or Sushi.- perhaps.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kimberley

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi,I guess Im back once again..Thought i found the one, .Not a mistake but a life lesson. .I know to never judge a book by its cover but i might have to set my standards much higher this time..No more settling for this girl..I deserve the best and i will find it!! Life is so short I want to live it to the fullest!! I dont wanna look back at my life one day and not have achieved everything that the world has to offer. I have stopped chasing the wrong things so the right things can catch up!I am a very STRONG INDEPENDENT Woman, Sexy, Intelligent, Faithful,loyal,honest caring,fun person.I take very good care of myself and I expect the same from a partner. I love to workout , I'm a girlie girl but, love to camp, fish, hunt, ride motorcycles I love the outdoors! I also LOVE to shop..Im a extreme coupon girl! :)I feel how you keep your home and car says a lot about a person.. I keep my world Drama Free.. I quit smoking so i would prefer to date a non-smoker .I want to be upfront I do have 3 kids ***and i am divorced. My kids are my world and they do come first. I'm very family oriented. I'm also done having children.So if u r looking to start a family i am not the woman for u. I am very busy, but will make time for that special person. I keep it real I am so over meeting ppl who are nothing they said they are....Plz don't waste my time!! I promise all my photos are recent and everything on here is true so give me the same respect plz.. Life is too short for games! If u play video games that's fine as long as that's not all u ever want to do! Get off The couch ppl!!! Plz No cigarette smokers!! If u have OCD plz keep it moving life is way to short to stress the small stuff! I wanna find someone who i can cook with not for and go the the range with,and eventually do family oriented things together,,Not watch me do them, but do them with me.. I do live by the law of attraction!!Plz stop sending me one word messages come on guys be creative!! Also Please be at least 5'9" And between the ages of ***I want a responsible mature MAN!! :) Thanks I didn't think i would need to add this but only interested in a man that has a strong faith!! I'm not looking for perfect just perfect for me!NO ONE IS "TOO BUSY" IN THIS WORLD, ITS ALL ABOUT PRIORITIES!!!What's done in the dark ALWAYS comes to light!!fAV~ QUOTE! woman CAME OUT OF A MANS RIBNOT FROM HIS FEET TO BE WALKED ON.Not from his head to be superior,but from his side to stand with man,Under the arm to be protected,and next to the heart to be loved..***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. Of course somewhere public for a first date! Somewhere kinda quiet so we can carry on a convo.. Maybe meet for tea or a drink and go from there if we have that spark!. Not dinner and a movie!! I'm very spontaneous and Love to be surprised!

  • Collyn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Looking for a guy that is confident and knows what he wants. Must be employed and not take life to seriously. Must also know how to use spell check....Not really sure if I have any preferences but I do know that there has to be some attraction for this to work.....Confidence is very sexy and is needed.. if we meet and it is not there (for one or the other) I am OK with that...I find that I prefer clean cut guys, not to say I can't do scruffy but there has to be some attraction. I'm sorry but this means beards..I can't do them.. sorry! I am very easy going and pretty much un-offendable. I love to joke around and I do not take life to seriously. I love action and comedy movies and I love to be outside in the sun! I am mentally and financially secure and looking for the same. I love board games and card games. I don't watch much TV but I do LOVE The Walking Dead. I would love to spend time with someone when I do not have my kids. I was married for 12 years and separated for 5.I don't think I would mind dating someone with kids but I would think we would not meet each others kids for a while. I have heard horror stories of ex- wives so if you know yours is crazy please pass me up. :-) If still interested please send me a message. I try to answer all message but sometimes if I really feel we will not be a match I may not due to time. I am sorry in advance! Good luck in your search! I have found that a quick meet and greet works the best. Maybe grab a quick drink and after 15 minutes if there is nothing there we go our separate ways..no hard feelings. I am up for just meeting new friends too so if there are no sparks I'm good.

  • Maidie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    A little about me: Independent, drama free, divorced with no children, and ready to find someone to enjoy my life with.I have a good career, good friends, my own house, and come from a loving family with just the right amount of dysfunction to make them funny and relatable. I work out ***times per week to stay in shape and love to be outdoors since I spend so much of my work life in an office. Around the house I like gardening, hire someone else to cut the lawn, and do my best to keep up with the joys of homeownership such as leaky faucets, loose hinges, and debunking spooky noises.While skydiving is not on my bucket list, I have gone zip lining and would love to try stand-up paddle boarding and maybe even windsurfing this summer. I'm also perfectly content with a glass of wine, a cozy fire, and a "friendly" (read: competitive, possibly violent) game of Pictionary, Scrabble, or Taboo. I have plenty of vacation days and would love to use them to explore somewhere new.I am definitely more of a morning person and would much rather hit the road at 6am on a Saturday for a day trip with my guy than stay out & party till 3am.I'd like to find someone who is funny, outgoing, intelligent, stable, and compassionate. A guy who will stop to help a stranger, is kind to animals, and who recognizes that the smallest of gestures can make a huge difference in someone else's day. What you do for a living or how much you earn is less important to me than how well you manage yourself and the kind of person you are. I want to be as mentally attracted to someone as I am physically. Experience with opening jars, killing bugs (or at least catching & releasing - I'd rather not kill them either) and lifting heavy things is also a plus :-)So if you're still reading this and would like to see if we have more in common, feel free to say hi. Otherwise, good luck in your search!

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