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Tonia, 38
United States, Georgia, Jasper

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About Me

I'm smart, attractive, goofy, social, caring, responsible, fun, loyal, and independent. I have two amazing children, my son is 16 and my daugther is 13. My children are my greatest accomplishments. I generally date men who have children themselves because they can relate to the need to juggle from time to time. Also, my son is a cancer survivor and that comes with some pretty serious issues, even though he's currently in remission and doing well. I'm currently taking online classes to finish my bachelor's degree and will graduate in December. I just received my acceptance letter from law school and will begin classes in January ***. It's a big commitment and yes it takes up a good deal of my time. Life is all about balance however and I do make room for my social life, including dating. I only ask that you be patient with me and I will do so in return. I'm a great catch for the right guy.As for hobbies, I play darts in a league. I'm not great but I am good and more importantly I have fun with it. I go country line dancing with friends. Actually, I love to dance no matter what type of music it is. Generally, I listen to Top 40 stuff but have very ecclectic taste. I work out on a regular basis and have a goal of getting fit this year. I love exercise but finding the time is always a challenge. I've been building up a home gym in my basement which seems to be quite perfect as I workout ***times per week now that I'm not having to drive to the gym. Amazing when you take away such a small excuse what you can accomplish! I'm not interested in a fling or perpetual head games. Also if you send me an *** don't respond, it means I'm not interested. It doesn't mean you're not a great guy. It just means you're not the right guy for me. I really prefer to call it a "meet and greet". It takes the pressure off if you don't refer to it as a date. If there's chemistry and you want to meet again, then it's a date. At that point, any where you can talk and smile and laugh works for me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi I am a single mom of 3 wonderful kids, a son 19, out of the house making a good life for himself and 2 girls who are 15 and 10! I'm a honest, faithful, caring, charming, funny, drama free, independent, strong woman, looking for a special man to spent time with and has similar expectations as me. I'm mostly a homebody but I enjoy going out with friends every once and a while, love bbq'in too! I'm not on here to play games or looking for a hook up, if this is your intentions, PLEASE DO NOT BOTHER WASTING MY TIME OR YOURS!! I am the real deal! My preference for an ideal man is under 45, please be at least 6 foot tall, within my own race and over 34 in age. I hope this doesn't offend anyone, I just know what I want. I have a big heart and am somewhat sensitive, so please don't make inappropriate comments to me, by all means, be respectful!! :-) any other questions, feel free to ask! Oh and I hope you read all of my profile before you message me: I'm 5'9 so I'm pretty tall and I'm not a petite woman, not fat but not a twig! Hope to hear from a gentleman! If you put on your profile- looking to date but nothing serious, DONT BOTHER ME PLEASE!! Dinner or drinks? Maybe romantically?

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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