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Elli, 38

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About Me

I am a mother of two girls very beautiful girls. Sadly enough I haven't been the mom I set out to be originally...or the wife for that matter...if I could go back ...oh if only....I am an addict...it is not the first time i have found myself starting to try to put my life ( what's left of the beautiful loving home I had before that day I didn't say no.... I am lost and just sear hung for the beginning... I am in need of a good solid brick wall tough enough to handle me but soft enough to make it feel like if been rocked to sleep... I am the worst about shopping ...I love it..absolutely love it...I carry a lot of guilt with me from mistakes that id ete if given the option. As much as I hate that part of me ...its also the part I like the most...I don't like the outcome. Or consequences. I am able to be a great mother when I am focused I am loving and caring but the fast life has suited me better than the daily routine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mui

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I enjoy fishing, camping, hanging out with my kids every Sunday watching da bears games, road trips, horses, boots, bling jeans, movies, sitting on the beach listening to the waves crash. Or just talking. its the simple things that impress me the most. A huge turn on for me is a man who loves and takes time with his kids. I don't have 4 wheelers but I love it.I am an extremely positive person! If God brings you to it, he WILL bring you through it. I think the basis for a good relationship is a friendship. I'm a very slow mover. Meaning I'm not gonna hop in the sack with you I actually respect myself and think sharing your body is as close as two people can get. I'm mature, I have class, I'm independent and not looking for a man to take care of me. I can do that myself. I don't need a man to save me, one already did 2,***years ago. I'm a typical southern girl I say grace yes ma'am and yes sir. Manners are very important to me. This doesn't mean I'm perfect. I do have tattoos and 3 piercings. Nose, belly button, and a dermal by my eye, I'll only have them (in my face) for 2 years nursing won't allow it.! I love coffee on a cool morning on the porch, and believe it or not I actually enjoy cleaning, but I don't like cooking. Don't get me wrong I can cook I just don't like it., my family even though we're crazy lol. Life! It's a gift enjoy If you read this whole thing lol send me a line ya never know I might be "her" :) I am far from perfect but someone out there is perfect for me.... I hope I don't wanna be 80 and alone!!! LolI'm sorry I'm not interested in African American men. I don't date out of my race. Surprise me! Something easy going coffee and a walk? Sky diving? (Kidding) I just wanna make sure it's comfortable for both parties. I'm also old fashioned so you get points for opening doors, pulling out chairs, flowers, you know the things people used to do? Not a lot of that left anymore.

  • Hephzi-Bah

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Everyone hates describing themself including me, but I'll try and be as accurate and descriptive as possible. My profile says I am 40, I am not, I am 31 but I prefer the company of mature gentlemen and got tired of 22 year old boys spamming me. About Me: I love living in the south, the food , the weather and especially the people.ü I would love to eventually own a home somewhere in Europe and retire there when I'm older. I'm less of a vacationer and more of a tourer. Less of watcher and more of a doer. weekends laying around the house watching tv are definitely NOT my idea of a good time. I love to learn and the art, architecture and history of the renaissance and earlier periods are what really speak to me. I love being outdoors , some of my favorite activities are fishing, hiking , boating, and especially horseback riding. I love paintball, it reminds me of playing hide and seek as a kid and provides a fun, active outlet for my inner Lara Croft. I LOOOVE to dance anytime i have a willing partner. I like to entertain and I enjoy cookouts in the backyard on warm summer nights or Sunday after church brunch with freinds. I take good care of myself . I watch what I eat, I work out ***days a week and I keep a polished appearance. You should be the same. PLEASE NOTE: I am not a dainty little spinner, I am 5'9 (barefoot) and when I wear heels (which is most of the time) I am 6'0 tall. I would say I am curvy and voluptuous , but it seems fat girls have hijacked those adjectives to sugar coat their being overweight and out of shape. While I am not skinny and willowy, I am certainly not fat or overweight by any stretch. My biggest turn offs are : Facial hair, (I prefer clean shaven men) Long Hair, piercings/ body modifications of any sort, tattoos that show and loose, baggy, or oversized/ill fitting clothes (no pants on the ground please!) I am only attracted to clean cut, educated men who enjoy being active physically, mentally and socially. I prefer a sophisticated gentleman who knows how to cut loose in his downtime and have a fun with freinds and family. For me, living life to the fullest means experiencing as much as possible, trying as many new things as possible, relishing good food,wine, art, and ambience in as many places as possible and meeting and learning from as many people as possible. That's simply not possible if you're reclusive or averse to new social scenes. To put it simply I'm looking for a refined adventurer who enjoys the finer things as well as the more rugged side of life, A man who can enjoy himself in jeans and tshirt on the river bank with a fishing pole or a well tailored suit in the finest of any metropolitan social establishment. Someone up for a cold beer at a neighborhood sports bar while cheering for their team on a cool fall evening or bottle service at Nikki Beach on a hot summer night. (extra points if you know where and what Nikki Beach is) Couch potatoes, shut ins, street thugs , hillbillies and close minded anti-socials need not waste their time or mine.Update: I HATE, HATE , HATE having to post this, my profile is so long winded already, and I would think it was a no brainier but of course there's always some mentally deficient pervert to prove you wrong. Please don't message me with remarks about sex, your sexual side, sexual practices, questions about my sexual practices and preferences or absolutely anything of a sexually personal nature. If we do meet, and hit it off and things go down that road, you'll find out when I want you to, not a second sooner. I will not respond to such intrusive comments and questions unless it is to mock the ridiculous desperation of douchbag perverts who are so pathetic as to try and get their jollies from strangers online (I am laughing and pointing at you behind the screen, seriously!) Put away your lotion and hanky, there's plenty of websites for you out there, this site, and ESPECIALLY this profile, isn't one of them. Dinner or drinks while we talk and get to know one another, if we feel a connection we can keep the evening going and head somewhere fun, unstuffy and engaging like Jillian's , or strike zone. I dont think movies are a good idea for a first date since youre sitting there staring at a screen and not actually engaging one another. A good second or third date might be doing something active together like a hike in a state forest with a picnic at the end, or if you're like me and have a bit of a competitive side , we can always hit the paintball field and battle it out for bragging rights!

  • Kenia

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm a british born local nurse, mom of three, love to two step and tall men in baseball caps. I'm blunt, (im told to a fault) sorry but always gonna tell you what I think. Im independent and dont "need" anyone but looking to have fun with someone. Oh and yes I like sex!!... THERE!!!...I've said it..."NOW DON'T ASK ME" ....If you start talking sexually or making rude, crude comments, asking inappropriate questions or innuendos about sex...just know in advance, I will not respond and you will be blocked. Its not like I'm a prude or anything like that but Jesus Christ...if ya just wanna hookup, then move on to the next profile.I'm not on here just to get my rocks off with some good time Charlie. I'm looking for a real man and a real "grown up relationship. So if you are fun, sweet, honest, tall at least 5'***bc I love to wear heels) and not just out looking for a quick 'n' easy nite...write me!! (If I don't write you back or just delete your message, please don't think I'm mean....I'm just saving us both time) prefer someone between 38 and 42?? Oh and one last thing. If you DONT want to be involved with a lady that has kiddos, don't write me. My kids are my world!I like going out to the bar and having fun with my friends but I am by no means a bar fly. I have been going to the same bar for years and my reputation is still intact.So anyway please dont look at my pics and rule me out :)) I'd much prefer a backyard grillout with my man our friends.OH ONE LAST THING.... NO THANK YOU. Pretty much ok with anything. Except jumping outta planes.....Im afraid of extreme heights

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