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Hephzi-bah, 40
United States, Georgia, Jasper

Offline, last seen Fri, 20 Mar 2026 22:15:01

About Me

Everyone hates describing themself including me, but I'll try and be as accurate and descriptive as possible. My profile says I am 40, I am not, I am 31 but I prefer the company of mature gentlemen and got tired of 22 year old boys spamming me. About Me: I love living in the south, the food , the weather and especially the people.ü I would love to eventually own a home somewhere in Europe and retire there when I'm older. I'm less of a vacationer and more of a tourer. Less of watcher and more of a doer. weekends laying around the house watching tv are definitely NOT my idea of a good time. I love to learn and the art, architecture and history of the renaissance and earlier periods are what really speak to me. I love being outdoors , some of my favorite activities are fishing, hiking , boating, and especially horseback riding. I love paintball, it reminds me of playing hide and seek as a kid and provides a fun, active outlet for my inner Lara Croft. I LOOOVE to dance anytime i have a willing partner. I like to entertain and I enjoy cookouts in the backyard on warm summer nights or Sunday after church brunch with freinds. I take good care of myself . I watch what I eat, I work out ***days a week and I keep a polished appearance. You should be the same. PLEASE NOTE: I am not a dainty little spinner, I am 5'9 (barefoot) and when I wear heels (which is most of the time) I am 6'0 tall. I would say I am curvy and voluptuous , but it seems fat girls have hijacked those adjectives to sugar coat their being overweight and out of shape. While I am not skinny and willowy, I am certainly not fat or overweight by any stretch. My biggest turn offs are : Facial hair, (I prefer clean shaven men) Long Hair, piercings/ body modifications of any sort, tattoos that show and loose, baggy, or oversized/ill fitting clothes (no pants on the ground please!) I am only attracted to clean cut, educated men who enjoy being active physically, mentally and socially. I prefer a sophisticated gentleman who knows how to cut loose in his downtime and have a fun with freinds and family. For me, living life to the fullest means experiencing as much as possible, trying as many new things as possible, relishing good food,wine, art, and ambience in as many places as possible and meeting and learning from as many people as possible. That's simply not possible if you're reclusive or averse to new social scenes. To put it simply I'm looking for a refined adventurer who enjoys the finer things as well as the more rugged side of life, A man who can enjoy himself in jeans and tshirt on the river bank with a fishing pole or a well tailored suit in the finest of any metropolitan social establishment. Someone up for a cold beer at a neighborhood sports bar while cheering for their team on a cool fall evening or bottle service at Nikki Beach on a hot summer night. (extra points if you know where and what Nikki Beach is) Couch potatoes, shut ins, street thugs , hillbillies and close minded anti-socials need not waste their time or mine.Update: I HATE, HATE , HATE having to post this, my profile is so long winded already, and I would think it was a no brainier but of course there's always some mentally deficient pervert to prove you wrong. Please don't message me with remarks about sex, your sexual side, sexual practices, questions about my sexual practices and preferences or absolutely anything of a sexually personal nature. If we do meet, and hit it off and things go down that road, you'll find out when I want you to, not a second sooner. I will not respond to such intrusive comments and questions unless it is to mock the ridiculous desperation of douchbag perverts who are so pathetic as to try and get their jollies from strangers online (I am laughing and pointing at you behind the screen, seriously!) Put away your lotion and hanky, there's plenty of websites for you out there, this site, and ESPECIALLY this profile, isn't one of them. Dinner or drinks while we talk and get to know one another, if we feel a connection we can keep the evening going and head somewhere fun, unstuffy and engaging like Jillian's , or strike zone. I dont think movies are a good idea for a first date since youre sitting there staring at a screen and not actually engaging one another. A good second or third date might be doing something active together like a hike in a state forest with a picnic at the end, or if you're like me and have a bit of a competitive side , we can always hit the paintball field and battle it out for bragging rights!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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