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Phillipa, 40

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About Me

I love all the city has to offer- restaurants, music, theater, proximity to friends, etc- but was ready for more space, green stuff outside my windows, crickets at night and a bit of a slower pace. I still go into the city a bunch- this way I have the best of both worlds. I also made a big career change- focusing more on feeling good every day about what I'm doing and who I'm doing it for and with. It has made a huge difference in my outlook, disposition and the amount of time I find myself smiling. All great changes. Working on the next steps toward having it all- or as much of it as possible. One of the best I've had was just going for a cup of coffee (well, he had coffee, I had hot chocolate- little kid in me came out) and we just sat outside and talked for a bit. Didn't put too much pressure on the "where" and the "what" and the conversation just came with it.;hip" spot or an old standby (keep in mind, all here are "new" places for me still), it's about the conversation- and leaving with wanting more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hephzi-Bah

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Everyone hates describing themself including me, but I'll try and be as accurate and descriptive as possible. My profile says I am 40, I am not, I am 31 but I prefer the company of mature gentlemen and got tired of 22 year old boys spamming me. About Me: I love living in the south, the food , the weather and especially the people.ü I would love to eventually own a home somewhere in Europe and retire there when I'm older. I'm less of a vacationer and more of a tourer. Less of watcher and more of a doer. weekends laying around the house watching tv are definitely NOT my idea of a good time. I love to learn and the art, architecture and history of the renaissance and earlier periods are what really speak to me. I love being outdoors , some of my favorite activities are fishing, hiking , boating, and especially horseback riding. I love paintball, it reminds me of playing hide and seek as a kid and provides a fun, active outlet for my inner Lara Croft. I LOOOVE to dance anytime i have a willing partner. I like to entertain and I enjoy cookouts in the backyard on warm summer nights or Sunday after church brunch with freinds. I take good care of myself . I watch what I eat, I work out ***days a week and I keep a polished appearance. You should be the same. PLEASE NOTE: I am not a dainty little spinner, I am 5'9 (barefoot) and when I wear heels (which is most of the time) I am 6'0 tall. I would say I am curvy and voluptuous , but it seems fat girls have hijacked those adjectives to sugar coat their being overweight and out of shape. While I am not skinny and willowy, I am certainly not fat or overweight by any stretch. My biggest turn offs are : Facial hair, (I prefer clean shaven men) Long Hair, piercings/ body modifications of any sort, tattoos that show and loose, baggy, or oversized/ill fitting clothes (no pants on the ground please!) I am only attracted to clean cut, educated men who enjoy being active physically, mentally and socially. I prefer a sophisticated gentleman who knows how to cut loose in his downtime and have a fun with freinds and family. For me, living life to the fullest means experiencing as much as possible, trying as many new things as possible, relishing good food,wine, art, and ambience in as many places as possible and meeting and learning from as many people as possible. That's simply not possible if you're reclusive or averse to new social scenes. To put it simply I'm looking for a refined adventurer who enjoys the finer things as well as the more rugged side of life, A man who can enjoy himself in jeans and tshirt on the river bank with a fishing pole or a well tailored suit in the finest of any metropolitan social establishment. Someone up for a cold beer at a neighborhood sports bar while cheering for their team on a cool fall evening or bottle service at Nikki Beach on a hot summer night. (extra points if you know where and what Nikki Beach is) Couch potatoes, shut ins, street thugs , hillbillies and close minded anti-socials need not waste their time or mine.Update: I HATE, HATE , HATE having to post this, my profile is so long winded already, and I would think it was a no brainier but of course there's always some mentally deficient pervert to prove you wrong. Please don't message me with remarks about sex, your sexual side, sexual practices, questions about my sexual practices and preferences or absolutely anything of a sexually personal nature. If we do meet, and hit it off and things go down that road, you'll find out when I want you to, not a second sooner. I will not respond to such intrusive comments and questions unless it is to mock the ridiculous desperation of douchbag perverts who are so pathetic as to try and get their jollies from strangers online (I am laughing and pointing at you behind the screen, seriously!) Put away your lotion and hanky, there's plenty of websites for you out there, this site, and ESPECIALLY this profile, isn't one of them. Dinner or drinks while we talk and get to know one another, if we feel a connection we can keep the evening going and head somewhere fun, unstuffy and engaging like Jillian's , or strike zone. I dont think movies are a good idea for a first date since youre sitting there staring at a screen and not actually engaging one another. A good second or third date might be doing something active together like a hike in a state forest with a picnic at the end, or if you're like me and have a bit of a competitive side , we can always hit the paintball field and battle it out for bragging rights!

  • Malisa

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    From the minute I open my eyes I begin to give of myself. This is a little something I am doing for me. And maybe, just maybe, it will be worth my time. I'm very sarcastic, love to tease and get a laugh out of someone. Laughter has helped me through a lot. I'm strong and loyal with a quick temper and I speak my mind. But my soft side, the romantic side, is aching to have that tenderness back. TRUST is a must!!! You lose that and it's all over. Biggest turn off, anyone who fills a stereotype, or bigots. I play soccer, pay my own mortgage, support my kids in their sports, clubs, and excelling in their education, as I accept nothing less. I like most music but nothing hardcore. I have an amazing family, a warm cozy home, and a huge heart. I'm ready to share. I'd like to meet for a drink. Somewhere warm and public.

  • Christeen

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi :) I am looking for a confident , sweet, intelligent, funny guy who actually wants to meet and see where it goes. I do like to exchange a few messages before meeting just to break the ice.(you must have TIME to be in a relationship and be able to carry on a conversation)I am funny , smart, educated, good sense of style, musical, adventurous , MORMON, spontaneous . I love being outside , enjoying nature , skiing, swimming, hiking etc. I would like to travel , especially Europe. I DO NOT need a man, it's more for good conversation and to enhance my life. I will not settle for a lot at this point in my life and neither should you. However I don't over look people either, everyone has worth I believe in being kind to those around us you never know when the right person might come along. Attraction can grow over time when you get to know someone, don't write off the girl who was almost perfect just because of the way she looks. Turn offs:Liars, cheaters mustache (without the goatee), no humour , rude, six profiles on meetville ( I'm not an idiot ), pictures without your shirt ( I don't even know you but I know if you have an outtie yuck ) cowboys who live in the city ( honey if you don't have a horse you should not wear wranglers or boots ) shallow, men who are still boys ( I am already raising three boys ) bad comb overs ( your hair is gone it's not coming back - shave your head!) Jealous, reeks of alcohol but is not an alcoholic ( hmmm it is before noon ) Guy's who claim to want a serious relationship, and then do not seem to know how to go about it. Drugs, criminal records. Aggression out of the bedroom , does not know how to be social. Playboy wannabe's , the desire to always be right, unreasonable, closed minded. On a side note, I prefer your children be over the age of ten as mine are almost grown ( I would make an exception for the right person) , also if you have not sorted out the 'baby mama drama' I am not interested. BTW if you looked like Brad Pitt you'd be with Angelina Jolie, don't come on a date thinking you are a ten when you are twenty to thirty pounds over weight, bad hair and clothes and dis me when I've been honest from the start. REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS GUYS :) Turn On's :Confidence, nerds, knows what they want,nice shoes, bald, tall, brown eyes, smell great !!! Great family, kids, owning a pet, nice smile, direction, spontaneous, hard working, nice hands. Wit, intelligence, knows his own worth, HONEST, great smile, can handle me lol I do enjoy a cultured educated man, that has some travelling experience, knows a good book ( not just watched the movie ) I am not just interested in that though I will get dirty (quading , try hunting, etc. ) for the right person, compromise is big on my list.Please feel free to send me a message if I don't respond I am not interested. Also, if your entire focus is to be with a beautiful woman to hang off your arm don't bother messaging me. I believe in attraction but not into being a toy nor do I want to be with man that shallow that is NOT attractive. :) BTW I am not a ***girl and not interested in having that around me or my children, so skip to the next profile :) I didn't even know what that meant hahaSleeping around is GROSS I am not interested in a guy that jumps from bed to bed to increase his self esteem, know your worth not if you have an STD :) Hmm a few messages are fine but let's talk on the phone get to know each other and meet ! I would like to meet in an environment where we can talk and get to know one another. Perhaps coffee or a lunch date, a park, nothing noisy or distracting.NOTE : I am not interested in having a pen pal, *** endless talking on the phone, I want a relationship, if you do not want to get out and meet people why are you here?Also, I am a size 14 that means I have curves, boobs etc. I do not have a models body. Yes, I have things to work on nobody is perfect, are you?

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