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Abiah, 38

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About Me

A little about me - I tend to have an extremely irreverent sense of humor. I can generally find the humor in most situations, have no problem laughing at myself and I enjoy making others laugh. I miss Southern hospitality and manners but you can't beat the weather in So Cal. I clean up pretty well but prefer jeans. I'm more of a beer than wine girl and sometimes even run to the store with no make-up and my hair in a pony tail. That being said, I promise I won't humiliate you at a formal function. I'm generally up for anything - evening out or quiet night in. I love to cook and entertain. I enjoy running and take Tae Kwon Do -I recently qualified for my brown belt. LOVE music and can listen to anything but really enjoy country. I'm the mother of two and love being a mom so that will always be a top priority. I share custody with their dad so scheduling is what it is. :) I'm keeping an open mind in terms of what I'm looking for but if I were to try and put it into a brief description, it would just be acceptance - Someone who cares about me for who I am, despite my flaws, while inspiring me to be a better person; though hysterically funny, brilliantly intelligent and reasonably attractive wouldn't hurt either. My faith is important to me and I'd like to meet someone with a similar outlook and commitment. But based on the short time I've been on this site, I have to say that I'm not particularly drawn to the shirtless, in-the-bathroom pics. I would hate to think you want to be with someone who's only into your abs. Hopefully, by the time I see you shirtless, I'm so taken by your wit, intelligence and innate kindness that I'm not so worried about your six-pack. PS you must have at least one friend who will *** of you which would eliminate the need for the ever popular mirror-in-a-public-restroom shot. Worst case scenario, you don't want to admit to your friends that you need a pic for a dating site, pretend to be a tourist and get a random stranger to *** when you're out and about. One last tip - saying you're looking for a relationship in your profile but including multiple pictures with bikini-clad chicks draped over you while partying sends a slightly different message. I guess that's enough for now but if you think we might have something in common, then I hope to hear from you soon. Of course, I'm making the assumption that you actually read all this....there's no shame in admitting that most of us don't make it past the pictures. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Doreatha

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Who am I? I’m the girl that enjoys the depths of life. I get busy as hell, no lie. So, like all of you time feels limited. I want to enjoy the company of someone that I can’t get enough of. Do I have drama? No. I have adapted to many things life has rolled past and I have learned to let them keep rolling by. I just don’t have the time to go out and meet great people. Do I enjoy Internet intros…. never. I love meeting people in person and connecting or not. I read lists of what nots and I respect that but then I think what are mine. Well, I need someone that is full of life, slightly reflective (I do think a lot), ambitious, family/friend orientated and self-confident. I love going out, grilling at home or going out dancing. Can I find the right picture to show case myself…nope. I always forget the camera! Will you think I look like my pictures, yes. I feel like why waste peoples time with false advertisements. I have been told I look better in person but who am I to say. Okay, I think I do. So after reading all of this good luck to you and good luck to me as well, that’s what we are all doing! ;)

  • Ernestine

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm looking for someone who knows how to laugh and have a good time. I'm tired of the games. Now I love to go and watch a good game! I like a man that take care of himself. I call my body type "average" due to the fact I'm no size freaking 2! I do workout however! LolI do have 2 beautiful girls. One is in college and the other is a senior this year in high school. I am however looking for someone that wants a relationship not a fling..Keep moving if that's not what you're looking for. :) Dinner and a ball game..:)

  • Charlsie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    So here it goes! I finally decided to put myself out there by taking a leap of faith in this internet dating thing. I have passion for travel and seeking out new adventures. You can either find me enjoying a night at home watching movies or hanging out with friends. My family and friends are very important to me, there is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about.I am looking for a good guy who is honest and trustworthy and knows how to treat a girl. A spontaneous guy who knows how to enjoy life and all that it offers. Have you made it all the way to the end of my profile? Then what are you waiting for? Drop me a line and let's plan our next adventure. My ideal first date would doing something that would give us an opportunity to have a conversation so that we can get to know each other better. Maybe we could go for a walk on the beach or finding a quiet place to have a drink.

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