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Updated on ***, to coincide with the changing of the seasons? ;-)I love, LOVE to dance - music moves me - body and soul - almost all types of music. I may be a mom to two young kids (3 and 6), but I would still love to go to a full-blown rave in the near future - :-) Along those lines, I love to work out - cardio, weightlifting, pilates, and yoga. I'm an all-around health-conscious person, diet included. I also enjoy gardening and decorating/interior design. The travel bug has taken hold of me as well; the more I travel, the more I want to! I'm up for trying almost anything new.I've learned the hard way to try my damnedest not to live my life for other people. That's not to say that I'm not eager to help loved ones and be there for them, especially when they need me, but I've spent too much of my life doing what I thought I was supposed to do/what I thought would make others happy, and I wound up being unhappy/unfulfilled, myself. That being said, one of my passions in life IS human connection -- always striving to never leave people worse than I found them. I wrote this awhile ago, and it still holds true for me: "I sincerely hope that the people whose paths have crossed mine in this life have been affected more positively than negatively by their interactions with me." I've learned to really try avoid judging others - you never know what you're going to do until in a given situation, yourself. I can be emotional at times, but that's because I'm a PASSIONATE person almost all the time; so there's plenty of good emotion to go with the other stuff. I, however, do not play games, and you can always count on me to say what's on my mind, even if it takes me a while to sort through my feelings.Because I work out and take care of myself, I find that I am attracted to men who do the same; I also *prefer* guys who are 6 feet or taller. It's not an absolute rule or anything, but, come on, I'm 5'10"! It honestly has very little to do with how attractive I find the guy and much more to do with how I feel when I'm with him; That may sound crazy, but it's me. Experience has taught me that if you're the kind of guy who doesn't do what he says he will, who doesn't follow through, we will most assuredly not last, no matter how great the connection. So if you're that guy who finds himself repeatedly apologizing for not doing this or that, find someone else and save us both the heartache up front. On the topic of "my type," meetville needs a middle-ground intent between "Want to date but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship"! Either way, I *could* find someone awesome, someone perfect, so I still put the full ME out there. I don't even begin to pretend to have life's plan for me figured out anymore! ;-)I'm an open book for the most part; it makes me who I am, and I find I enjoy this human experience much more that way, even if there's more vulnerability involved. I'm "living a life evolutionary."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Ok, I think it's time to put it all out there so there's no wasting time on either part. I'm an amazing person. I'm loyal to those who deserve it. I'm brutally honest so don't ask a question if you don't want to hear the truth. I'm affectionate for the right man. Obviously attraction is very important which I find is the most difficult part about dating. I'm not stuck up or conceited because I have dated an ugly guy for his personality and he still turned out to be a "D"I don't have any children and at my age I don't plan to. I do love kids and it's much easier to deal with if you have a somewhat good relationship with their mother(s). Speaking of children, I'm not looking for a boy who's obsessed with older women. I'm not looking to adopt.If your profile says that you "want to date but nothing serious" then I won't bother. I prefer to spend my time getting to know someone who is open to a relationship. Lord knows I'm not getting any younger.Although I'm not prejudice, I don't have any attraction to black men. I'm also not into guys that look extremely old. Yes, I'm 40 but I don't feel it and don't look it. Tom Selleck staches aren't hott.Last but not least, if you're looking for a super cool woman who can make you laugh like no other, a beast in the kitchen, a best friend who will listen to all your man drama and will laugh at a fart then I'm right here. * Let's be realistic. If you live more than 30 minutes away then it won't work. Tried the ldr before and it's not for me. ***** IT SAD THAT I HAVE TO WRITE THIS BUT I'M JUST SO TIRED OF THE RUDE MESSAGES!I'M NOT ATTRACTED TO BLACK MEN JUST LIKE SOME MEN ARE'NT ATTRACTED TO FAT WOMEN. STOP WITH THE RACIST BS!I'M NOT STUCK UP OR A BEOTCH BECAUSE I DIDN'T REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGE. I JUST WASN'T INTERESTED. A public place. Doesn't have to be dinner, I don't need a free meal :)

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I don't know what to put here, so I'll just say I'm a pretty easy-going girl who wants to get out and enjoy life to it's fullest. Looking for someone to do that with and see where it leads. Family and friends mean the world to me and there's no greater joy than spending time with them. Anything else you want to know, I'll be glad to tell you! in my main pic, I'm the one on the left.

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    i like to hike the outdoors, i enjoy cooking and family . i am looking for someone real . okay i come and go during day i could be here for 5 minutes and than gone . ya want to get to know me send a message . i do get busy don't always reply so send another message and i'll respond usually back read at night time. Honesty is a fault of mine . i dislike players and superficial people . If ya want a barbie take 5 dollars and buy one at walmart . Lets see what can i put here to drive people nuts. I'm a Angel No halo you say . Thats because it was chipped til it shattered for every time my heart ached . My wings are broken and missing feathers , due to all the struggles i have endured . But yet if I'm needed i'll be by your side helping you to your feet i am open to try new things

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