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Kaelea, 39

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Updated on ***, to coincide with the changing of the seasons? ;-)I love, LOVE to dance - music moves me - body and soul - almost all types of music. I may be a mom to two young kids (3 and 6), but I would still love to go to a full-blown rave in the near future - :-) Along those lines, I love to work out - cardio, weightlifting, pilates, and yoga. I'm an all-around health-conscious person, diet included. I also enjoy gardening and decorating/interior design. The travel bug has taken hold of me as well; the more I travel, the more I want to! I'm up for trying almost anything new.I've learned the hard way to try my damnedest not to live my life for other people. That's not to say that I'm not eager to help loved ones and be there for them, especially when they need me, but I've spent too much of my life doing what I thought I was supposed to do/what I thought would make others happy, and I wound up being unhappy/unfulfilled, myself. That being said, one of my passions in life IS human connection -- always striving to never leave people worse than I found them. I wrote this awhile ago, and it still holds true for me: "I sincerely hope that the people whose paths have crossed mine in this life have been affected more positively than negatively by their interactions with me." I've learned to really try avoid judging others - you never know what you're going to do until in a given situation, yourself. I can be emotional at times, but that's because I'm a PASSIONATE person almost all the time; so there's plenty of good emotion to go with the other stuff. I, however, do not play games, and you can always count on me to say what's on my mind, even if it takes me a while to sort through my feelings.Because I work out and take care of myself, I find that I am attracted to men who do the same; I also *prefer* guys who are 6 feet or taller. It's not an absolute rule or anything, but, come on, I'm 5'10"! It honestly has very little to do with how attractive I find the guy and much more to do with how I feel when I'm with him; That may sound crazy, but it's me. Experience has taught me that if you're the kind of guy who doesn't do what he says he will, who doesn't follow through, we will most assuredly not last, no matter how great the connection. So if you're that guy who finds himself repeatedly apologizing for not doing this or that, find someone else and save us both the heartache up front. On the topic of "my type," meetville needs a middle-ground intent between "Want to date but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship"! Either way, I *could* find someone awesome, someone perfect, so I still put the full ME out there. I don't even begin to pretend to have life's plan for me figured out anymore! ;-)I'm an open book for the most part; it makes me who I am, and I find I enjoy this human experience much more that way, even if there's more vulnerability involved. I'm "living a life evolutionary."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kimberlie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I like to dress up and go out. I am a girly girl! I also like to be outdoors. I am looking for someone that has goals and is on their way to achieving them. You must know the in-and-outs of dating..meaning, going to your mamas house (where you live) after your softball game of the team from the local bar) is not my cup of tea... and I like tea LOL. I enjoy snow tubing and fun things like that (would like to try paintball also). I am responsible, with a good head on my shoulders. My friends would describe me as outgoing, sarcastic sense of humor with a great heart.I find that the older I get the more I like to play. My first date would probably consist of doing something fun during the day (maybe requiring a pair of sneakers) and then throwing on my heels and some lipstick to go to some quaint place for dinner and coffee.

  • Kinsey

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi I am looking for the one, if you are looking for a bootycall I am not your girl, I am looking for the right guy. I love to have fun but i also love family time...I am a christian mother of 3 , and I am a hairstylist so i have a crazy schedule!I love to laugh and love to be with people who do!!!!!I love my church and am very active!,I am not a skinnygirl ,I've been single awhile and am great. If I find him great, If not I will be too, I do want complete honesty.I am not much of a phone person I would rather meet see if theres chemistry and move on from there!!If you have anger issues with women please move on I do not want to pay for what someone else done to you, I have moved on and love myself looking for the same in someone else! give the guy the oppurtunity to do that!

  • Merv

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    Woman. 72 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 58-77

    Hi! My name is Merv. I am divorced other african woman with kids from Hiram, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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