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Shanda, 38

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About Me

I love double entendre, goat cheese, wine, soup and crackers, animals, sunny days with a breeze, dark days with a storm, wit, humor with intelligence, strength with compassion, loyalty and honesty. I have a lot of great friends who make me laugh until I snort, have my back at all times, and love me despite my flaws (like the snorting when I laugh). I am looking for a man that can be one of those great friends and more. As for me, I am stable, humorous, a bit quirky at times, compassionate, empathetic, sympathetic, a good listener, laid back (really!), and enjoy people who add to my life (don’t suck my soul). I enjoy relaxing with some friends and drink, nothing too fancy. I have never been into the clubs…not an age thing, just a me thing. I try to stay healthy, and don’t spend much time on the couch; my mind tends to race otherwise. My musical tastes are across the board, but chances are it is melodic and soothing to me or has a good beat I can dance to ;). I am not clingy and really not looking for a clinger, however, I want to know you are interested in getting to know me and I will reciprocate appropriately. If I get the sense that we are not on the same page, I am fine with ending it. Generally like to keep it short and low-key...coffee or a drink. These encounters are usually enough time to see if a conversation can be held and if there is any chemistry. Hopefully, if things go well the dates will increase in length!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marla

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Ok, I guess I will try this one more time...and this time I want to find someone who knows what they want and don't just want to play games. So, please be the one that makes me delete this acct. permanently.I have 3 kids, my oldest will go off to college in the fall so that leave me with 2 living at home. No need to worry, if your that special someone there will always be time for you. So if kids are an issue, then click away now because my kids are the most important thing in my life.My friends would say that I am very outgoing,very reliable, always there when you need a ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on. I am always up for an adventure and willing to try anything once. I always seem to be the party planner among friends and family and I've been told I am pretty good at it. Don't get me wrong I love to dress up and go out for a night on the town but I am happy staying home in yoga pants and hair in ponytail playing board games or watching a movie with the kids or with my special someone. Also, if you don't like girls who have tattoos, look elsewhere because I do.I love watching sports, but nothing beats being at the game.! No biggie if you don't like those teams, a little trash talking can be hot between us. Nothing beats jeans, hoodie, football, my partner in crime and tailgating. I like all types of music but country is my favorite. Live bands and festivals are always a blast. I have been going to the gym a few times a week or getting out with my kids playing. Staying active is the most important thing. A partner for the whole journey. A friend who challenges, inspires and understands me. Someone to share the craziness and passions of life. Who knows what they want, and is willingly to try what they don't. Someone to be the last thing I see at night, and the 1st thing in morning.I am looking for someone who will send good morning texts, makes me laugh, misses me when we are apart, and have that chemistry that when we look at each other across the room, I get butterflies in my stomach. If you are looking for someone who will complete you and be your best friend, take a chance and message me. We can plan this together...

  • Edward

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Enjoy spending time with my family and friends!! Laughter is a must and no drama!!!! Touring the world is probably my biggest goal!! Music, love it all from metal to country!! Mostly just want to be happy I am hoping to find someone with a great sense of humor and has a smart and whitty personality!! P.S. If you are looking for a one nite stand just keep on truckin!! coffee or a drink!! Trip to Jamacia! lol or I will just settle for a shot of tequila and a wedge of lime!!!!

  • Becci

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I\'m romantic; love walks on the beach, love attending concerts, symphony, movies, drives up the coast. My partner should be confident, but never arrogant or pompous, must be is honest, considerate, generous.

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