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Shanda, 38

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About Me

I love double entendre, goat cheese, wine, soup and crackers, animals, sunny days with a breeze, dark days with a storm, wit, humor with intelligence, strength with compassion, loyalty and honesty. I have a lot of great friends who make me laugh until I snort, have my back at all times, and love me despite my flaws (like the snorting when I laugh). I am looking for a man that can be one of those great friends and more. As for me, I am stable, humorous, a bit quirky at times, compassionate, empathetic, sympathetic, a good listener, laid back (really!), and enjoy people who add to my life (don’t suck my soul). I enjoy relaxing with some friends and drink, nothing too fancy. I have never been into the clubs…not an age thing, just a me thing. I try to stay healthy, and don’t spend much time on the couch; my mind tends to race otherwise. My musical tastes are across the board, but chances are it is melodic and soothing to me or has a good beat I can dance to ;). I am not clingy and really not looking for a clinger, however, I want to know you are interested in getting to know me and I will reciprocate appropriately. If I get the sense that we are not on the same page, I am fine with ending it. Generally like to keep it short and low-key...coffee or a drink. These encounters are usually enough time to see if a conversation can be held and if there is any chemistry. Hopefully, if things go well the dates will increase in length!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Loren

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a person who always has a smile on and is very fun to be around my goal is for you to smile just as much. I am very outgoing and willing to try anything for the first time. I am 36 years old and I work full time as a merchandising manager for the worlds sexiest store. I graduated college with my BA in education and in my spare time i love to spend the day with family and friends. I am looking for a guy who is ready to settle down and have fun you have to be family oriented if you want to get to know me .I have been single for a long time and I feel I am ready to share my life with that special someone already . I need someone who is genuine you dont need you to tell me u love me day 6 just to keep me around I dont care if it takes years to hear those words as long as it comes from your heart I am not looking to rush anything but *** rather just take one day at a time with you. My match has to be tall and handsome and ready to fall in love. I need a strong ,aggressive but yet sensitive man who is motivated with life goals. He has to be somewhat romantic and also ready to get romanced as well. I have a big heart and if you want to be loved then your in the right spot. if you think you are my other half then *** we can take the next step to finding love. If your picture is taken from 10 years ago thats not going to work update it and then get back to me . Live every moment ...Laugh everyday ... Love beyond words ... :***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** i am not looking to just hang out or have fun i am looking for long term if thats you then you can *** respond to anyone just looking to hang out its not my style

  • Noni

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Been on and off here a few times & much like the The Tale of Two Cities - "It was the worst of times, it was the best of times." So let's see where this time around takes me. Single mom of 2 wonderful kids, I work full time, and I'm the ultimate sports mom! I'm very assertive, animated, and an honest person.Let me also give ya a few of my "negative, not so perfect" qualities, just to save some time so no one's caught off guard. What?, you say! Negative qualities, no she couldn't possibly not be absolutely perfect! Alas, I do have some flaws ***; sentimental), I'm not a fan of flashy stuff (jeans, t-shirt, hoodie, tennis shoes and I'm all good), I can't stand slow drivers, just a lil bit impatient, and keeping along the "impatient" thing - please don't keep telling the same thing over and over and over again! So great, if ya can handle or at least tolerate my lil imperfections, then bring it on!*I might not be someone's first choice, but I'm a GREAT choice.I may not be rich, but I am valuable.I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm pretty damn good at being myself.I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today.I may not be perfect, but I don't need to be.Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away.**Oh and guys don't be a D0u€h3, girls really don't like guys who are a D0u€h3! (I spelled it that way cause I don't think meetville will deem the "proper" spelling appropriate - hmmmm). If the first one goes good, then a second one just might be in your future.

  • Candie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a Medical Assistant who works for a group of fantastic physicians. I enjoy my career mostly because I love my patients and they bring a smile to my face everyday. I also just started a EMT Basic course to add some emergency medicine to my knowledge base. I do not have children of my own but I do have ***legged babies that I love very much! On my down time I enjoy anything outside, reading a good book, or spending time with family and friends. I enjoy just about all genres of music, just depends on the mood i'm in. I am looking for someone to compliment my life and share life's fun experiences with. Someone who is honest, fun loving, loyal, kind, driven, and has passion for life. A guy who has his own life but wants someone to share it with. I'm not looking for perfection just someone who is perfect for me. I believe everyone knows when they have found someone they want to spend their time with and get to know better. A friendship beginning does lay a good foundation in which to build upon. ***I like sex but it's not going to happen when we first meet. I'd rather wait and make it mean something, so if that's what you're looking for do us both a favor and move forward***If you would like to know more just ask me. My ideal first date really depends upon the person I am with and the chemistry we have. A good conversation goes a long way :)

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