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Belphoebe, 38

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About Me

Well for the update... One teenager left at home. And she is at work a lot. So, I am finding myself with a lot more free time on my hands. I was told by someone that I went out with that I was smaller than they thought I would be. Ha! I asked if my pics made me look big. He said no just with no body shots that usually means something. Ummm no, but good to know. Good ole size 8. Still looking for that one guy to have fun with that I can share everything with.. I am really looking for someone that doesn't live too far away. Ok clarification.. Do you want kids... Love kids. Just personally not spitting out any more!ahh, the meet me section... Well I am a single mom that has raised three kids. Only one left at home now. Now starting to wonder what's next for me??I am a pretty free spirit. I like to look for the positives in life. Love to laugh and have fun. As far as my hobbies and interests... Well like everyone, I just like to enjoy myself. I can have a good time anywhere. I enjoy doing the normal things, movies, dinner, drinks, hanging with friends, watching my cowboys play ball while drinking a cold beer. I've decided that it doesn't matter where I am, matters more that I am enjoing the person I am with. What I am looking for in a man.... Well just that. He needs to be a man. One that knows when to be strong, when to be gentle, when to laugh and pick, when to be quite and listen. Someone that makes me feel girly and special. But let's my inner toughness peak through too. I know who I am, what I want, and where I am willing to compromise. I am looking for the same.. Something relaxed in a place with great people watching. Maybe grab a drink or two while we get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tish

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I find it so hard to describe myself but I will try to give you some insight. I am 38 and am looking to find that special someone to settle down with. I woke up one day and realized that all of my friends are married and here I am, the last one standing. (Not that I am in a rush to get there, I just want to find the right person first!) As much as I love a good night out at the bars, I hate the pressure of feeling like I have to meet someone when I am there. My family is very important to me and I am looking for someone who can understand why they come first and how special they are to me. I spend my time outside of work with friends whenever possible. I work out, like to play tennis, recently am trying golf, shop (what woman doesn't?!), and go to movies. I am looking for someone who is respectful, honest and who understands what it takes to make a relationship work. I will not date a smoker and not looking for FWB. Please be considerate of my time and yours and don't lie about who you are or what you are about, it all comes out in the end. A casual quick drink or coffee to see if there is a connection.

  • Lenore

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a very straight forward person. No skeletons to hide in this closet. If you're not coming at me with the truth, whatever it may be, don't come at all. I hate drama. My friends are my family and I will always have their back. I am up for anything once, if I like it, maybe twice. I listen to anything but rap, country and ear bleeding Gitmo Bay torture metal music. I read anything I can get my hands on. Mainly history. My child has made me a better woman and human being. I do a lot of stuff outside of work within the veteran community and barely have a personal life. So don't get your feelings hurt if I can't drop everything to run to you, that is my passion. I am pretty independent. I have my own house, car and job. So, no need to worry, I don't want yours.If you are not going to message me so we can talk and see where or where it doesn't go... Move on. Also, don't message me for a booty call... I am way too old to be playing frat boy games with someone. Date? What the heck is a date?

  • Laurinda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    As of ***: Gentleman, advice to you all...if you meet someone & you tell that lady that you want to see them again....please mean what you say! Don't just *** for the next few days & then just hope that they get the hint that you actually DIDn'T want to see them again. I don't know why HONESTY is such a problem these days! Kinda thinking that single life might be where it's at because life as a couple just seems impossible these days. THAT SAID, IF YOU ALL YOU WANT IS TO BE A LIAR, LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!!!!!!!!! Caucasian, single mom, 38....looking for a gentleman to spend quality time with. I am hoping to find a man that is HONEST, respectful, responsible, mature, and someone that can be a positive male around my child. My child is the light of my life and I want to be able to ensure that someone who wants to spend time with me can be trusted around my child. & BTW, I might as well mention this right from the get go, I AM A BIBLE BELIEVING CHRISTIAN WOMAN! That said, it is going to be very important that any man I might consider spending time with be some that SHARES MY BELIEF IN THE BIBLE & THE VALUES & PRINCIPLES THAT COME WITH THIS!!!!!I am a non smoker, non drinker. I have never done drugs of any kind. I hope to find a man that also fits that category. I do not want someone that will smoke around me or in my home or car. I want a man that has his own and is not looking for handouts from me.I also love animals. I do not have any at this time, but expect that in the future I will probably add a cat and or dog to my home, therefore, I would be looking for a man that can also have a love for animals as well.I enjoy spending quiet time at home but would love to have someone that would like to spend time out as well....restaurants, movies, parks, bowling, theater, music....Honesty and respect are a must. I believe in telling the truth no matter who it hurts. I also hope to find someone that will also have a christian belief. My relationship with God is very important to me and anyone that I spend time with I would hope could share that belief as well. And it really would be great to have a man in my life that I can walk into church with who in turn enjoys spending time with me in our place of worship & prayer. This really is a missing piece in my life.I am 5' 4" and do fall into that plus size category...no skin and bones here. I have long, curly brown hair and brown eyes to match. I feel like I have pretty straight teeth and a nice smile. I feel I live a simple lifestyle...I am not high maintenance. I enjoy the simple things and what is important in life.If you think that you could match any of this...then I am looking to hear from you. I also feel like I should share what I find to be attractive/interesting in a man that I might spend time with.....I am generally interested in men that are hard working...how do I define this? Well, I value a man that works with his hands....construction, auto repair, home repair, warehouse, etc. I feel like men that use their hands to build, repair, create, design, they tend to be dependable & some one that you count on & lean on. My dad was someone that was always working in a garden, building something in a garage or basement & those were always traits that I admired. So, most likely if you are someone that tends to have these types of traits, then you are someone that I would most likely develop a fondness for....So again, if you think that you could match any of this, then I am looking to hear from you.Be blessed! On a first date, I prefer just not to go to a movie. I would rather meet some where that enables us to chat and look one another in the eye...chemistry often starts in the eyes. So, that could be out for a scoop of ice cream on a hot summer day, or maybe sitting down to large cup of hot chocolate with whip cream on a cold winters day, and maybe on an inbetween day, a walk through a botanical garden would be great too.

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