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Ashely, 39

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About Me

To some this may sound harsh or unfriendly, but for real! This site is full of men (and women) who are not serious about meeting anyone. I'm not looking for a one night stand. I'm not looking to be someone's mom. I'm looking for an equal, a friend and a partner. Someone with a sharp wit and a passion for living life to its fullest. Someone who can be silly at the right times. Someone who is passionate about our environment, and about knowing where our food comes from. Someone who is healthy both mentally and physically. Someone who is independent but also enjoys time together. A traveling partner and fellow adventurer.I'm about to be 40 and I feel that my best years are still ahead! I have many varied hobbies and enjoy being active. I love live music of all kinds. Love going to museums and galleries. Love going for long walks and just looking at houses and buildings...wondering what the stories are behind them. I recently cut out all processed food from my diet. It was tough at first but is getting easier. I love to do anything outdoors.I'm in a really good place in my life, and I think I'd be a great partner for the right guy. I'm not into games or endless ***, Send me a message and let's meet for coffee and see if we connect! I think a great first date would be going out to a bookstore for some coffee and to get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Florence

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Bonjour je suis une perdonne dynamique qui aime les animaux et je veux rencontrer qqn qui a le même amour des animaux que moi. J aime les soirée au resto ou bien à la maison bouteille de vin Spa ou film. Peut être aller au resto ou prendre un café serait parfait pour une première rencontre

  • Jeanette

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    If you do not have a clear picture of your entire face up close please do not contact me or upload one. It's ***, I mean really! Also I don't log out of my app so I am not always on. If you get offended cause you don't get a reply then I am not the woman for you. I am busy and that sometimes requires patience. Anyway...I like to think I am a funny person but I have been told that I am corny and a wise ass at times. Hope you don't offend easily. Right now I am looking to date but nothing serious. That doesn't mean casual that means I want to fish around. If I find a keeper than my fishing trip will be over. I am in the no bullsh*t phase of my life. I appreciate honesty. I hate liars and people who waste my time. This point in my life I am looking to be pampered. That doesn't just mean financially and don't worry cause I like to pamper and please too with the right person. Just out of a relationship so I need to be treated like a princess. I am looking for a distraction. I don't rush into anything and I like to get to know someone a little before meeting. My free time is a bit limited. So if you are not up for that I am not for you. I like to think that I am worth it. ***IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR TAKEN DO NOT CONTACT ME*** I do not have time for men that don't have time for me. I HATE cheaters anyway!My birth certificate says I am 38 but I am really 25 at heart and play. No that doesn't mean I want a 25 yr old, that means I want someone in my age group that is like me. I don't wear pj pants and Uggs in public, in fact I don't even own a pair of Uggs. I am a hard working, self-independent woman. I am looking for the same. Men please have your crap together. If you are a single male that owns a cat or minivan that you didn't inherit, I am not interested, sorry (inside joke). I like a man who is handy also. I like a regular guy so ab shots are not that important to me. I like different and I can't say I have a type. My type is a little of everything because I like variety. I appreciate humor but like serious conversations. I like a man who is educated with a dash of street. Personality is key. Men...duck face and pics with you flipping the bird....not cute! I love to go out to eat great and different foods. Love long drives and traveling. I consider myself a little bit of a social butterfly. That is not what I am looking for. I love to flirt and I like a man who is not shy. So if you favorite me and never message me = shy or creepy or creepily shy lol.Men have some personality. Bring your A game or don't show up to the stadium :) If you don't read my profile there will be no date.

  • Glenice

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I don't know what to put in this thing. First things first, I am a BBW! You have to have a photo..... I have one so let's make it even. You have to have transportation, it does not have to be fancy just be able to get you where you need to go. I really think the guy should send the first message, i know womens lib and equil rights and all that but come on, girls like when a boy makes the first move. It does take a lot of courage to send that first message but if all you say is "whats up" or " hey sexy" im not going to respond. not trying to be rude but is that how you would want a man to approach your mom or sister? Anyway I guess I am on here to meet someone, I guess that's obvious. I don't really get the chance to meet a lot of new people. I don't like the bar thing but when I do go its a small bar with good friends....who are married to people who's friends are married... I work for a wonderful organization called Wings of Hope. I work with people who have been abused so any men I meet at work are out of the question. This is what I want!Find a guy who calls you beautiful *** hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her, she's the one." I hate first dates, they are soooooo uncomfortable. I think hell is a never ending line of first dates. But I will say this, I love getting flowers. It always helps any situation!

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