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Jay, 39

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About Me

HI! I thought I would try this again, well the first time I didn't really have time to give it a chance so here goes....I hope to find someone who wants to have fun but is serious, make sense?? I'm a single mama of a teen and an adult child. My kids are a big part of my life so if you can't handle that do not apply :) I'm up for anything usually, I like to do outdoorsy stuff, for my quiet time I like to go for walks or read a good book. I like to watch movies curled up on the couch but not all the time there are much better things to do with life than watch movies or tv. One of my fav things to do when I get the chance is to sit on a patio and a have a few drinks. I love sun not so much the winter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lana

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Prius owners need not apply ;; big trucks. Looking for someone fun and country to hangout.

  • Keira

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Ask me about my relationship situation and what I am looking for. It is unique and you will want to be aware of it going in. I am pretty open minded as long as you are honest with me. There is very little that shocks me. :)I have a lot of different interests that look exceedingly boring on paper, but added up are greater than the sum of their parts. Many are girly and will make you nod and go "Uh huh..." and that is ok. I don't expect you to get as excited as I do about yarn. I do love sports and am a die hard Steelers fan. A bit weird, yes. In short, don't expect me to get all excited about the Chuck Whatever dude that writes all the guy books, and I won't expect you to get worked up about my scrapbook paper obsession. We will find common ground, I promise. I have no tolerance for shallow dudes. If you would not introduce me as your date, you do not get to sleep with me. Contrary to popular belief, fat chicks don't have that much trouble finding dates. I am a generously proportioned lady so if that doesn't float your boat, that's cool.Zomg! I didnt think i had any naivety left but I do! I am now wary of the spank material troll. Even the sending of innocuous pictures may result in the use of said photos for nefarious purposes and the subsequent disappearance of the gentleman in question. I am almost impressed! So I am not going to drop pics on you upon immediate request. Let's talk a little first. Further, if you think I am fat...and yes, I am, congratulations on your two working eyes...don't message me. I am not desperate. Even big girls can get attention when men can't. So sad you are striking out, but try being polite, it's amazing how far it will take you. :D Pretty much anything public. I am a safety girl but I am open to a nice time getting to know a prospective candidate.

  • Laurinda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    As of ***: Gentleman, advice to you all...if you meet someone & you tell that lady that you want to see them again....please mean what you say! Don't just *** for the next few days & then just hope that they get the hint that you actually DIDn'T want to see them again. I don't know why HONESTY is such a problem these days! Kinda thinking that single life might be where it's at because life as a couple just seems impossible these days. THAT SAID, IF YOU ALL YOU WANT IS TO BE A LIAR, LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!!!!!!!!! Caucasian, single mom, 38....looking for a gentleman to spend quality time with. I am hoping to find a man that is HONEST, respectful, responsible, mature, and someone that can be a positive male around my child. My child is the light of my life and I want to be able to ensure that someone who wants to spend time with me can be trusted around my child. & BTW, I might as well mention this right from the get go, I AM A BIBLE BELIEVING CHRISTIAN WOMAN! That said, it is going to be very important that any man I might consider spending time with be some that SHARES MY BELIEF IN THE BIBLE & THE VALUES & PRINCIPLES THAT COME WITH THIS!!!!!I am a non smoker, non drinker. I have never done drugs of any kind. I hope to find a man that also fits that category. I do not want someone that will smoke around me or in my home or car. I want a man that has his own and is not looking for handouts from me.I also love animals. I do not have any at this time, but expect that in the future I will probably add a cat and or dog to my home, therefore, I would be looking for a man that can also have a love for animals as well.I enjoy spending quiet time at home but would love to have someone that would like to spend time out as well....restaurants, movies, parks, bowling, theater, music....Honesty and respect are a must. I believe in telling the truth no matter who it hurts. I also hope to find someone that will also have a christian belief. My relationship with God is very important to me and anyone that I spend time with I would hope could share that belief as well. And it really would be great to have a man in my life that I can walk into church with who in turn enjoys spending time with me in our place of worship & prayer. This really is a missing piece in my life.I am 5' 4" and do fall into that plus size category...no skin and bones here. I have long, curly brown hair and brown eyes to match. I feel like I have pretty straight teeth and a nice smile. I feel I live a simple lifestyle...I am not high maintenance. I enjoy the simple things and what is important in life.If you think that you could match any of this...then I am looking to hear from you. I also feel like I should share what I find to be attractive/interesting in a man that I might spend time with.....I am generally interested in men that are hard working...how do I define this? Well, I value a man that works with his hands....construction, auto repair, home repair, warehouse, etc. I feel like men that use their hands to build, repair, create, design, they tend to be dependable & some one that you count on & lean on. My dad was someone that was always working in a garden, building something in a garage or basement & those were always traits that I admired. So, most likely if you are someone that tends to have these types of traits, then you are someone that I would most likely develop a fondness for....So again, if you think that you could match any of this, then I am looking to hear from you.Be blessed! On a first date, I prefer just not to go to a movie. I would rather meet some where that enables us to chat and look one another in the eye...chemistry often starts in the eyes. So, that could be out for a scoop of ice cream on a hot summer day, or maybe sitting down to large cup of hot chocolate with whip cream on a cold winters day, and maybe on an inbetween day, a walk through a botanical garden would be great too.

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