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Gaila, 40

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About Me

****updated****Oh my!!! I just looked at my profile and it says I'm 40? What the heck? Last week I was just 39. Well I heard that 40 is the next 20. If so I am ready....:) Lets see.. where to begin. First off I am pretty shy when you first meet me but then watch out you won't get me to shut up. :) I have been divorced for 7 years. I am pretty easy going however my major requirement is NO drama. I just want to be able to go out or stay home and relax with that special someone. When I am in a relationship I give it my all. I'm not sure if that's good or bad. I have a full time job, I have my bachelors degree in Criminal Justice and am continuing my education. I have a 16 year old daughter who has more of a social life than I do. I also enjoy being outside and traveling. I love to have fun but at the same time I love just staying at home relaxing. I love to laugh and make others laugh as we'll. First dates are always awkward, so it has to be somewhere where we can relax and hang out. I am up for anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sidney

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a single mom of a active lil girl! I have her full time so my down time is small but will make time for the right guy! I was born and raised in a small town so Im friendly and easy to get to know .I have an established career as a Hairstylist. My job is rewarding and a bit challenging at times. I enjoy a quite nite at home and love going to the movies! I like scary movies. I enjoy listening to hip hop and R&B. I like to travel but haven't much lately! I enjoy reading a good book.I can't wait to attend a few county fairs.I would like to meet a gentleman within a 20 to 30 min.drive.I will not date someone who lives in another state or over 45min. away. Hey I may wanna run by steal a kiss & go home after a long day of work. I can't do that if we live an hour apart. I'd like a man who enjoys life but needs a lady to savor it with.Im upfront, direct , and sometimes brutely honest! Im also understanding & a sincerely loving person.I will always remember to make your birthday special and do a little something kind when you've had a bad day. I haven't had much luck on here yet but trying to stay posative and open to love. I appreciate the differences of different races and cultures if you can't please move on. I've unfortunatly met some men who are close minded even predjudice.I'm very close with my family & want a guy who will apreciate that about me . I wish to just enjoy lifes simple pleasures with a loving man .Im seaching for someone to cuddle on the porch with listen to the crickets or the rain!I own older home and value doing some of the repairs myself .It would be a plus to find a man who is handy who also enjoys the satifaction of a finished home project.I have my life in order and would like a man who does as well.Its absolute must that a guy I date have a job and a car. Its unbelieveable the number of grown men who don't. I'd like to have another child. if its possible. So my girl has a sibling to boss around & blame everthing on as I did my only sister. LOL! I would be blessed to meet a man to build a future and a family to love with. I would like to talk on the phone a few times and see if we have things in common before meet up. Im tired of guys who only wanna text 2 times and go out . I like hearing your voice. I guess a first meetin would be good over coffee or lunch! If all goes well the first real date would be a quite cozy dinner or even a drink & a really awful game of pool on my part!

  • Nahla

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Well it is ***so figured I'd give this online thing a try.I am divorced. I have one beautiful daughter that is away at college.I have a wonderful career and amazing friends but want something more.

  • Laurinda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    As of ***: Gentleman, advice to you all...if you meet someone & you tell that lady that you want to see them again....please mean what you say! Don't just *** for the next few days & then just hope that they get the hint that you actually DIDn'T want to see them again. I don't know why HONESTY is such a problem these days! Kinda thinking that single life might be where it's at because life as a couple just seems impossible these days. THAT SAID, IF YOU ALL YOU WANT IS TO BE A LIAR, LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!!!!!!!!! Caucasian, single mom, 38....looking for a gentleman to spend quality time with. I am hoping to find a man that is HONEST, respectful, responsible, mature, and someone that can be a positive male around my child. My child is the light of my life and I want to be able to ensure that someone who wants to spend time with me can be trusted around my child. & BTW, I might as well mention this right from the get go, I AM A BIBLE BELIEVING CHRISTIAN WOMAN! That said, it is going to be very important that any man I might consider spending time with be some that SHARES MY BELIEF IN THE BIBLE & THE VALUES & PRINCIPLES THAT COME WITH THIS!!!!!I am a non smoker, non drinker. I have never done drugs of any kind. I hope to find a man that also fits that category. I do not want someone that will smoke around me or in my home or car. I want a man that has his own and is not looking for handouts from me.I also love animals. I do not have any at this time, but expect that in the future I will probably add a cat and or dog to my home, therefore, I would be looking for a man that can also have a love for animals as well.I enjoy spending quiet time at home but would love to have someone that would like to spend time out as well....restaurants, movies, parks, bowling, theater, music....Honesty and respect are a must. I believe in telling the truth no matter who it hurts. I also hope to find someone that will also have a christian belief. My relationship with God is very important to me and anyone that I spend time with I would hope could share that belief as well. And it really would be great to have a man in my life that I can walk into church with who in turn enjoys spending time with me in our place of worship & prayer. This really is a missing piece in my life.I am 5' 4" and do fall into that plus size category...no skin and bones here. I have long, curly brown hair and brown eyes to match. I feel like I have pretty straight teeth and a nice smile. I feel I live a simple lifestyle...I am not high maintenance. I enjoy the simple things and what is important in life.If you think that you could match any of this...then I am looking to hear from you. I also feel like I should share what I find to be attractive/interesting in a man that I might spend time with.....I am generally interested in men that are hard working...how do I define this? Well, I value a man that works with his hands....construction, auto repair, home repair, warehouse, etc. I feel like men that use their hands to build, repair, create, design, they tend to be dependable & some one that you count on & lean on. My dad was someone that was always working in a garden, building something in a garage or basement & those were always traits that I admired. So, most likely if you are someone that tends to have these types of traits, then you are someone that I would most likely develop a fondness for....So again, if you think that you could match any of this, then I am looking to hear from you.Be blessed! On a first date, I prefer just not to go to a movie. I would rather meet some where that enables us to chat and look one another in the eye...chemistry often starts in the eyes. So, that could be out for a scoop of ice cream on a hot summer day, or maybe sitting down to large cup of hot chocolate with whip cream on a cold winters day, and maybe on an inbetween day, a walk through a botanical garden would be great too.

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