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Darlena, 38
United States, Georgia, Hartwell

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About Me

I am an open, loving, honest woman of integrity. I have an unstoppable spirit. Loving for me, is not about the physical body, but the content of your character first. If you are hung up on labeling people, butch, femme, gay, bi, straight, etc. we would probably not be a good fit. I am loyal and expect the same. I have been widowed for ***years, and have cultivated a zeal for living life to the fullest. I am in a healing cycle right now, and love to be active. Just ran my first 5k. I love to dance! I love my family and my friends. I am filled with gratitude for the gifts life has given me. I have children, which has taught me among other things, that we were all just little monkeys swinging from trees at one point in our youth... and that we are divine beings learning how to have a human experience. I have a great deal of compassion for us all... doing our best in this imperfect world.I love to laugh, to cook, to build things (from furniture to communities) to grow things (from children to gardens), to learn, to read, to play! I take pride in my surroundings, my work, my uniqueness- both strengths and weaknesses. I can see the beauty in most everyone.I have dabbled in farming, both animals and vegetables, dancing, transformational work, writing, pottery and teaching. I am currently at work on the creation of a community inside of which families can come together in the raising of our children, the care of our elders and in our evolution toward living in balance with the planet.I think all great relationships start with two people who are dating casually. No pressure please!Life is too short to make decisions about me before you've met me. If you're still reading this, we should meet! A pleasant environment, good food and/or drink, and a deep authentic conversation. Let's just begin to discover one another... see if there's any interest in more than just the pleasure of the moment at hand. Simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop German Greek
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