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Shirl, 38

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About Me

If i add you as a favorite, its because I'm interested.I'm very open and honest. If I like you, you will know. If I don't, you will know. I like to stay active and really anything can be fun with the right people. I listen to all types of music including country. I also love to go country dancing. Im witty and sarcastic I love to play and tease. I also have tattoos, if that is an issue keep moving.I don't have a specific type and I'm very personality driven. I don't date other ethnicities. Please don't take it personal. I don't need a man to "rescue" me financially or any other way. I'm independent and confident. My friends say I'm super responsible but I still know how to have fun. They call me when they need advice (or someone with a truck lol). I'm not looking for a hookup so move on if that's all you're about. No really, that doesn't mean try harder.I have two kids. My daughter is 18 and I have her full time. My son is 9 and I share custody with his dad. Well a first MEETING should be short, like meet for drinks to see if there is a connection. However if a connection is there, can definitely last longer.An actual DATE, should be longer with dinner or a mutual interest we have in common to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maryrose

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Whoa it is much harder than I thought....Looking for a fun , outgoing , confident gentleman.I'm old school born and raised in Europe , moved to the US 13 years ago /proud US citizen/... got my life in order personally and professionally .Kids are grown so it is time for me to find that special person I can be happy with. I love my job and a little bit of a workaholic , but will make time ..I work with dogs and I bring home every homeless animal and find good home for them. If you don't like animals its not going to work for me. I have class but I'm not a snob. I'm not high maintenance , I can be ready in 15 minutes or less.I'm looking for somebody who I can talk about anything ... rush home to and grow a deep bond , somebody who will put a big old smile on my face and gives me a bear hug after a hard day... someone who doesn't give up on things because they hard , takes risks and goes after his goals.I don't care what you do for a living as long as you take pride in your work... I don't care what kind of a car you drive or how much money you make...As long as you are a decent honest clean cut person I will give you a chance. I do not do drugs of any kind and can't tolerate them .I'm easy going , no drama , no baggage..but lots of energy ! I can be a handful and have bad days.. /sorry not perfect/ but nothing what a kind confident man can't handle .I have a semi sarcastic humor and a spark in my eyes and always looking for my next great adventure. I believe in the old world values , strong family ,respect , work ethic , manners , loyalty and kindness . I have many traveling plans and a long bucket list. Love to have fun , go places , experience things , meet people.I do not like to give out my phone number before we meet... please be understandingNo Games : don't lie on your profile , have a current picture , say what you mean , mean what you say ... my life is not a playground ...No Drama : usual symptom of unconfident overly sensitive people with trust issues ... can't deal with them....I don't mind if you have kids , I love kids ... but don't be a dead beat father...Its not easy to put ourselves out on the "meat market" but I'm putting serious effort to find someone...If I find someone interesting I'll delete my profile , if you just here to play around or to have options we not going to get along.I do believe man should make the first step... but I will show interest if I found your profile funny or you have a dog a car or anything interesting. Time is money so lets meet and get it out of the way .. don't really want to chat for weeks ...if we have a spark good if not we still can be friends. Bring a GOOD conversation , the place is not important.PS : If you want to talk about your ex for hours on our date please bring your check book as I will charge for the therapy session.

  • Decima

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Single yeld mare,looking for compatible stud....just joking! I love all things country. I Like being outdoors,but movies,popcorn and snuggle time are right up my alley too. Crisp clear moonlit nights with a sky full of stars and a fresh blanket of snow on the ground are calling for foot prints to be made.(prefferably atop or behind those of the four legged variety,bundled up in warm winter wear!) I like to travel,take in the sights and attractions while there. I love to operate farm machinery-something about long days in a combine or tractor soothes a person's sole.I find it gives a person a chance to sole search. I'm an independent,self sufficient,dedicated,charismatic,fun loving woman that takes life one day at a time,and feels life is too short so don't waste it. I'm not afraid of a little dirt under my nails,but enjoy being pampered too. I've had horses all my life but I'm not your typical light horse junky- I breed and raise big,bold&beautiful Belgian draft horses for my hobby,also add two light horses in the mix for trail riding. I have a very diverse taste in music from Nickle Back to Johnny Cash. I'm up for trying something new.

  • Earleen

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Seems like you always take a gamble on sites like this--the good is all mixed up with the bad and it's hard to tell which is which sometimes. I think it would be great if I was into hooking up with random strangers & manipulation or super superficial, but nah... I'll pass.So why am I still on here? Just call me the eternal optimist. I guess I figure there's gotta be SOMEONE decent out there--after all, I'M on this site, right? Surely there's gotta be at least one other lil' fishy trying hard not to be eaten by all the other carnivorous fishes swarming and trying to take a bite outta your tail. Didn't Noah welcome the animals into the ark two-by-two? So somewhere there must be another fish out there who swims a little differently like me.OK, all cuteness aside, let me talk straight. I am NOT here to "hook-up". If that's what your main agenda is, then click right on by. I'm still "stupid" enough to believe that a man & woman can enjoy each other's company without getting naked. I'm still hoping that I can find a true friend first, and a lover second. Someone who knows what it takes to have a successful relationship and teach me how to love and trust again.I'm far from perfect--and never will be. But I am a good person, and I have a lot to give to the man who can see the diamond through the coal and keep digging. I'm very loyal, and have never cheated in my life. I believe wholeheartedly in being honest and open--As for kids--I can't have them. And as for yours... well, I'll be honest & say I prefer you didn't have any as that means there is a "baby mama" to deal with, but I do like children and am open.Bottom line--I'd just like to find a good, honest, caring, compassionate, kind-hearted, responsible & intelligent man. Anyone out there?Oh yeah, one more thing I almost forgot: I prefer to be Vegetarian, so your tail is safe with me. :0) Creativity is always appreciated, as well as thoughtfulness. I like when people take the time and effort to find out what I enjoy or take the initiative to plan something special. But then, who doesn't. Basically, whatever gives us the opportunity to get to know a little more about each other. Second dates are more for just having fun.

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