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So
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)
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Daphine
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I like sports, pets, theater, travel, and I\'m out to make a huge difference and leave my legacy in the world. I’d like to find someone who’ll believe in me and my dreams, support me.
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Lavonda
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
As most people, I love sex-want it often-but it's not my only focus. Id like a man who really enjoys it & revels in pleasing his partner like I enjoy touching & pleasing him. I have to click with someone physically, emotionally, & mentally to really click. If it's all you wanna talk about, we won't get anywhere. As for fun, adventure, & sports=I'm not into sports, but, I think sports are a healthy fun; mentally & physically. I'm more of a laid back person, as is my sense of adventure. I like time with family & friends, I watch TV & internet & enjoy getting out to do things. I like the arts, dances, music, art, etc. I'm not a drinker or partier. I'd like to visit places in my bucket list. We all have different interests, that's a good thing, we can still enjoy each others interests sometimes, too. I'm passionate, sexual, romantic, caring, sensitive, loving, loyal, sincere. I'm definitely more a middle of the road person. I'm not religious, nor an atheist, I like nature & the city, I like going to the park, having a picnic, or going to a symphony, or a concert, a ballet, or seeing street dancing. Please read my profile before messaging me. Please don't message me if you're not interested in a relationship. I'm not interested in a fling or f.b., I get too attached. I won't pursue, if you're interested, say so. One way to show you're interest is by showing who you are, getting to know each other. I want to get to know someone, so if you can't talk & open up, I'm not interested. I click better with someone who takes the time to be real, honest, conversational, a little time to get to know each other, connect, etc. No drunks, smokers, or illegal drugs. I like diverse cultures. I want someone who wants to give in a relationship, someone who'll communicate, not hide things, won't lie, is kind, caring, passionate, attentive, affectionate, sweet, romantic, a cuddler, etc., shares who he is, wants the physical & emotional aspects of a relationship, etc. I'm not saying *** love, but I'm looking for someone who's really interested in a relationship, who's really in. Almost all women give so much more than men, I'm tired of giving so much, I enjoy giving when I'm given to also. I've always given much more than I've gotten & I honestly deserve much better. I don't like prejudism, racism, belittling people, or cruelty, secrecy, lies, players, or someone who thinks flirting with others is harmless. I appreciate someone who doesn't have a temper. Someone who can agree to disagree. There's many sides to each person making them into the unique puzzle that they are & having a differences & commonalities that work well with each other - well, it's an absolute magic trick trying to find a good fit.- yeah, we all have our preferences or what normally works best, but there are times when none of that matters, it's all about finding the right fit. MOVIES & TV: comedy - romance - action - some suspense - some drama -- love educational tv -- hate horror -- MUSIC: soft rock - classic rock - *** country - jazz - happy blues - big band - chinese pop - indian - american indian -- hate hard/metal rock -- FOODS: Asian, Indian, American, Mexican, are favs in order listed -- I always regret answering IMs so I usually don't answer them. Eating, meeting for a drink, going to the park, seeing a movie, window shopping, doing something nice like go to an orchestra or something, doing some kind've activity or craft together, putt-putt, dancing (though I have no dancing skills), bowling, walking, etc. I like getting out & doing things & being at home, too.