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Jess, 37

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About Me

I am in process of my dissolution. I have healed from that part of my life and ready to move on. There's no drama and jealousy as most would expect. We just were taking time to allow our daughter to adjust as her best interest is at heart. She now tells me I need a boyfriend. Lol. If she's ready....I'm ready!I am passionate and energetic. I like to have a healthy balance in my life, and put as much care into my relationships as I do my daughter. I am a positive person and always try to see the good in everything. I give my all in everything that I do, and I don't give up easily. I am very grounded and make decisions based on research and my ability to see the big picture.I have a conservative exterior, but that isn’t who I am. I like to get to know people before I open up, but I think of myself as warm, friendly and generous. And my friends say I’m tons of fun. Sometimes I lack a filter and say exactly what's on my mind, but it is more for comedic purposes. I love to try new things and am always up for an adventure. Bring on the surprises!I have a passion for music, and played in a punk band in college. You would probably never guess that I used to have bleach blonde, red, pink, and sometimes blue hair! I lead a full life, and have some really great and almost unbelievable stories. Many people say I should write a book. You'll just have to get to know me to hear some of my life events. I come from a large family (I’m the youngest of five children), and they are very important to me. My oldest sister is 15 years older than me and I love that because I was exposed to more than just what my generation had to offer. Without them, a relationship simply won’t work. It is important to me to build a foundation in my relationship based on trust, passion, understanding, and thoughtfulness. I am looking for a man who enjoys music, seeing live shows, hiking, nice dinners, laughter and good conversation. I enjoy learning new things, and hope to find someone who can teach me about his interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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