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Nanci, 39

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About Me

I'm just me. A dedicated and loving mother, Christan, aunty, sister, daughter, and friend. I'm usually found running a kid somewhere or hanging out with some of my favorite kiddos. I have one child of my own but typically have a stray or two. I am heavily involved and committed to children's and youth ministry. They are my babies. Hobbies? Well, I love to read, hang with friends some, play cards (spades mainly), take care of my son and my home. Kinda take it as it comes. Goals/Aspirations... I'm in more of a "planning" phase now. I have reached several of my goals I set early in life and am at that "wonderful" age where you get to start checking the next box on all those surveys that officially makes you MIDDLE AGED. So... not sure what this next phase will bring. Careerwise, I'm pleased with where I am and am developing a plan for the future. I guess my goals at this point are more centered around relationships - settling down - ultimately marriage. As for what makes me unique, I'll let you be the judge of that. Since I know myself pretty well, I think it's all pretty standard - but you may be mesmerized! Music - YES. I love all types (well, not opera and the newer hiphop garbage). My preference is probably 70's/80's R&B or some soft pop. Developing an appreciation for blues and jazz. Music is an escape to me - But that's a whole other story in itself.... I'll leave you with this for now. If you want to know more, give me a shout.Oh.. You may be wondering what it is I'm looking for. Well, I have a pretty good idea but I've learned not to mail order requests to God. In a perfect world, He would give me a checklist to craft my ultimate perfect vision. But, since we live on earth, that's not the case. I CAN tell you that whoever is my intended man loves God with a passion and strives to be like Jesus. Not someone who went to church a couple times as a kid.... But a TRUE follower of Christ. I strongly believe it is the mans 'duty' to be the spiritual foundation of his family. Since I am marriage minded (not tomorrow or next week mind you) it would be silly to date outside my expectations for an eventual husband. Been there. Done that. Not worth it.Beyond the spiritual piece, he is loving, kind, affectionate, a father figure and role model, intelligent, and gorgeous to my eyes. Still reading? Let's chat..... First date? Hmmm.... I like to keep it light. The first meetings are the most crucial so good conversation is a MUST which means no noisy pubs, quite movies, etc. Probably a nice dinner somewhere where you can hear each other and maybe a stroll afterwards if the conversation is still going well. I'm not too demanding in this area - I'm certainly not high-maintenance so I'm sure whatever you're planning will be great :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ember

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am amused by the small things in life. Humor is key.......I like a witty/slighty sarcastic sense of humor. I love life and want to experience it all. I like art and paint abstracts as a hobby. I am a geek at heart in a cute girl's body. Love nature and just being outside. I'm a pretty open book, so anything you wanna know, just ask:)*******I do currently smoke but it is not something that I am proud of and I do want to quit. I have tried different things and I am not going to give up until I quit. *******

  • Genevive

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    This is something new to me- I haven't been single in a good while but I am not going to sit around and wait anymore. I don't want to go in to great detail about my last relationship but it was nearly a decade of comfort and I am definitely stepping OUT of my comfort zone here. With that being said, I want to be with someone who is ready to just enjoy nice things in life. I like doing things that adults my age should enjoy doing-working a full-time job, spending time with my child, having dinner as a family, going to the movies, going on vacation, going to church when I can- you know, nothing too crazy. I don't mind going to have a drink every once in a while but I am not going to do the bar scene- I refuse! I do realize that no one is perfect and that just because you are on a dating website doesn't mean you are damaged or have baggage but let's face it, we all have a past of some sort and if you have come to terms with yours, are ready to be a decent human being in a committed relationship and do not want to play the field for the rest of your life- send me a message. My life is at a point right now that I think it could only be enhanced by sharing it with someone else. I don't want to fix anyone or financially support anyone so just understand that please. Now, the good stuff!! I am a very confident and independent woman with a great sense of humor. I like to hold hands and just hang out with my man. I am ok being by myself for a night or two if you want to hang out with your buddies. I am not a needy girl- I am also not stupid so don't take my kindness for weakness! I am after-all, a natural red-head and as much as I would like to say I don't have the temper that comes along with it, I do to some extent, have a temper. I will NOT chase you around town looking for your car if you won't answer your phone so, if you want drama- you need to look elsewhere. Bottom-line, do what you say you're going to do if it's within your power. Being in a relationship is a choice you make every single day- if one day you wake up and choose to move on then have the decency to tell me and move on-OK? I am starting to feel like I am preaching so I will stop- I am just a realist who wants the same. Have a wonderful day and happy dating!! I would prefer to go somewhere to get to know the person. It does not have to include a meal but it should not be a movie or somewhere that you cannot talk. I like to go for walks or even go grab a drink (not necessarily alcoholic) to just keep the pressure off and if you would rather not invest any more time than that- you are both free to go.

  • Mollie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am not really into pouring my heart out or putting my life's history here. I feel if someone is interested in getting to know things about you they will ask. I do not date out of my race by choice. Don't want to seem rude but I will not reply. If you are married ... Keep fishing. Anything with the exception of dinner and a movie. I've never really been able to understand, why on the first few dates you'd want to sit in silence together for two hours.

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