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Nanci, 39

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About Me

I'm just me. A dedicated and loving mother, Christan, aunty, sister, daughter, and friend. I'm usually found running a kid somewhere or hanging out with some of my favorite kiddos. I have one child of my own but typically have a stray or two. I am heavily involved and committed to children's and youth ministry. They are my babies. Hobbies? Well, I love to read, hang with friends some, play cards (spades mainly), take care of my son and my home. Kinda take it as it comes. Goals/Aspirations... I'm in more of a "planning" phase now. I have reached several of my goals I set early in life and am at that "wonderful" age where you get to start checking the next box on all those surveys that officially makes you MIDDLE AGED. So... not sure what this next phase will bring. Careerwise, I'm pleased with where I am and am developing a plan for the future. I guess my goals at this point are more centered around relationships - settling down - ultimately marriage. As for what makes me unique, I'll let you be the judge of that. Since I know myself pretty well, I think it's all pretty standard - but you may be mesmerized! Music - YES. I love all types (well, not opera and the newer hiphop garbage). My preference is probably 70's/80's R&B or some soft pop. Developing an appreciation for blues and jazz. Music is an escape to me - But that's a whole other story in itself.... I'll leave you with this for now. If you want to know more, give me a shout.Oh.. You may be wondering what it is I'm looking for. Well, I have a pretty good idea but I've learned not to mail order requests to God. In a perfect world, He would give me a checklist to craft my ultimate perfect vision. But, since we live on earth, that's not the case. I CAN tell you that whoever is my intended man loves God with a passion and strives to be like Jesus. Not someone who went to church a couple times as a kid.... But a TRUE follower of Christ. I strongly believe it is the mans 'duty' to be the spiritual foundation of his family. Since I am marriage minded (not tomorrow or next week mind you) it would be silly to date outside my expectations for an eventual husband. Been there. Done that. Not worth it.Beyond the spiritual piece, he is loving, kind, affectionate, a father figure and role model, intelligent, and gorgeous to my eyes. Still reading? Let's chat..... First date? Hmmm.... I like to keep it light. The first meetings are the most crucial so good conversation is a MUST which means no noisy pubs, quite movies, etc. Probably a nice dinner somewhere where you can hear each other and maybe a stroll afterwards if the conversation is still going well. I'm not too demanding in this area - I'm certainly not high-maintenance so I'm sure whatever you're planning will be great :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sariyah

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm new to this. Just seeing what this site is about. I'm just me and that's all I can be. I work and come home not an exciting life lol. So if you want to know more just ask. I'm very blunt so if you ask I will answer as long as you don't ask anything crazy or disrespectful.

  • Kolour

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First of all... If you are looking for casual dating, no commitment, no strings attached, friends with benefits, a roll in the hay or whatever it's called, DO NOT message me! It's clear why I'm here. Our mentalities will not mesh if you are just wanting some fun on a physical level so get off my page. Having said that, here is a little more about me...I'm a girl who enjoys friends and family. I love to hang out and am game for just about anything. I'm a strong-willed, stubborn woman who has a hard outer shell, quite tough to crack ...but if you do, you will find a soft, sweet person underneath. My children are my animals. I have 3 English mastiffs. I'm not real sure if I have a desired type of man that I am looking for. However, I do know he will be a polite and respectful person. I love to laugh and joke. I'm a daughter of two retired military parents and I don't tolerate rudeness. I'm easy going and enjoy all sorts of activities. I'm a stage actress by hobby. Some of my pics consist of me as some of my characters. Can u guess which ones???. ;).. I'm down to earth. I'm clumsy, assertive, and occassionally outspoken. However, never rude or disrespectful. I'm very big on communication. I believe it's one of the key elements to a solid relationship foundation. I'm a kid at heart. I love cartoons and cried when Mufasa died. (How many of you know who that was?) ;)) I sometimes have endless energy, which can probably get on your nerves. I am a major animal lover. I love to cook and hate to dust. I love playing ping pong and I'm pretty competitive at skeeball. I can come off quite intimidating, but that's part of of my barrier. I'm actually not too bad once you get to know me. Oh, and a word of advice, a picture can say alot, but so can the absence of one. Having said that, you probably would pass my profile up alot quicker if I didnt have any photos on it. Perhaps thats what is happening to those of you who havent loaded a pic on yours. ;) I like spending time with people. If you travel due to your job, thats going to be a challenging task to accomplish. Make it count when you are in town and communicate when you are not. You will suprized how far that little bit will go and what an impact it will have. Im not looking for a perfect package, as I know im not, and it probably doesnt exist. But, I am a pretty understanding person if I know whats going on. If you keep me in the dark, then I have no clue and assumptions can arise. Just be open and honest, because I know we all have flaws. :) There's nothing that cant be worked through. I like to give you all my negatives first and if you're still around after that, then you have earned the positives. Because if you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best. ;) A very relaxed and low key evening. A drink or two to loosen us up and then I overtake you in darts, pool, bowling, or skeeball. LOL...Just kidding, I really suck at all those, I just enjoy playing them! :0

  • Melva

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    My daughter is the most important person in my life. Having said that, I have spent most of my adult life taking care of others and making sure their needs, wants and happiness were satisfied. I think it is now time for mine....I just want to have fun and spend time with someone that can and will appreciate and respect me. I am not looking for someone to take care of me or my daughter, I can do that. I have a good relationship with the Ex, so typically no drama....A few extra facts to know:#1 I am not racist but I DO NOT date outside of my race.#2 If you do not know how to wear a baseball cap (curved / moulded brim) do not message me.#3 If you don't have all of your teeth, keep looking.#4 If you don't look like your pics or don't have any pics, don't waste our time.#5 If you only have or post pics of yourself in a bathroom or in the gym flexing, don't bother...I could careless.#6 I am not perfect, a beauty queen or better than anyone else but I do know what I like & want out of life & I don't plan on wasting my time or anyone else's. #7 I am a southern country girl, I love the outdoors but I c dress up too...#8 If you can not see your feet when you stand up then YOU ARE NOT average....don't kid yourself or others.#9 If you are anything other than divorced or single without papers to prove...don't bother!!!!!

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