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So
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)
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Daphine
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I like sports, pets, theater, travel, and I\'m out to make a huge difference and leave my legacy in the world. I’d like to find someone who’ll believe in me and my dreams, support me.
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Shulamit
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Actions speak louder than words. It's not the things you say that are important, it's the things you do that prove everything.....(I truly believe that). I am a hardworking single mother of one, but I enjoy letting my hair down and having a good time with good people. Life isn't all about work! I'm fortunate to have them in my life, not to mention my legion of close friends. I'm comfortable enough in my own skin to have a strong sense of self, and I'm not afraid to expose my flaws. I love to stay up late on weekends -whether it's to party, have sex or read a good book, but I always sleep in on weekends. I'm looking for a man who not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and challenge one another. Could you be him? I'm not interested in playing games. I'm ready to stand still with someone. Truth is, I'm just a nice girl (most of the time), who is looking for a nice guy to have some adventures with. I have learned these things in life...You can't sweat the small stuff, literally. Not even worth it. What is going on in your life probably won't even matter in a year. It's better to understand than be understood. I'm not perfect, please don't expect me to be, and last but not least... The 49ers will tear your heart out, but it's fun to have something outside yourself to root for together, unless your a Bengal fan, then a little friendly rivalry is always fun!Now, the most important question is... what in the world are you waiting for?? My idea of a perfect date: It doesn’t involve a chain restaurant, a roller coaster or a movie. It may involve eating, excitement or entertainment. It definitely involves me, you and a long drawn-out moment where we don’t want to say goodnight.