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At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm looking for a man who is honest, educated, family-oriented, and, oh yeah, must love dogs! I have five of them, and they are my babies! I have one very small tattoo. I like to read, watch TV (reality shows are my guilty pleasure), and spend time with my family and dogs. Finally, this may sound pretty shallow, but I would appreciate anyone who can spell basic words. Even my 4th graders can do it! Anything else you'd like to know, I'll be glad to tell you as we get to know each other. First date? Something casual. It's a time just to get to know each other and see if we want to go on a second date!

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    WANTED: A man who will like and love me for who I am.I like to make people laugh. I like to go out with friends and have a good time and dance. I volunteer my extra time with the Special Olympics. I love to help out the people who are less fortunate than I am. It makes me feel good about myself to know that I may make a difference to them by just being there to support them. I am a current college student and work full time too.I want a man who knows how to treat a lady right and knows what he wants. I am over being lied to and cheated on. I want to be friends first and then take it from there. If this might sound like you, please feel free to send me a message. ***If you are looking for a one night stand or a booty call, then you need to look elsewhere.***UPDATE: If you are separated or have a girlfriend, then pass me over! I am not up for that crap! Go somewhere that we can talk and get to know each other.

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