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At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    If you know what Proverbs 31 is all about....that will help you know exactly what I mean about QUALITY! I know who I am and what I want in life. I am a woman of substance, grace, vision & passion. I can adapt to my surroundings very easily, but yet never compromise my value, worth & spirituality.I can say that I am looking to find the "one" that I was created to be with "rib cage" I belong to. However, I am not going to settle just to have someone in my life. I am a very honest person and desire that people are the same with me. I love sports Basketball, Football, Boxing etc...I am the type of woman that can be confident and comfortable in throwing up the pony tail, putting on the sneakers and schooling you on the Basketball Court :) and turn around and put on the heels, dress/skirt and hold your arm as we head out. I am a woman of God and that is something that is absolutely IMPORTANT to my foundation and make up. I was married 6 years and have been single now for over 2 years. I am ready for LOVE but not in a rush to push for something to just be. Friendship and Communication is valuable to me.

  • Amparo

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a 36 year old woman. I am independent, sometimes to a fault. I love the beach, music, going to concerts and the outdoors. music is a HUGE part of my life; I can't live without it. I love laughter. I am very family oriented. I am a single parent of 2 teenagers. I am into country and rock music. I am what you might call a prissy tomboy or a classy redneck. If you want to know more just send me a message. Hope to hear from you soon!Photography is my passion so be on your toes at all times cuz you never know when I might be *** shot or two. I got to do it for a living for a short time but unfortunately I had to let it go for now but it's still very much a part of my life.My favorite quote: "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell do NOT deserve me at my best!" ~~~~~~This quote has definitely come into play many times over in my life.Additional note: I am not looking to relocate. My kids are very happy in their schools and I won't take that away from that. If you message from a far distance then I am going to assume you relocating may be a possibility down the road some time :)Update: I now have 7 tattoos, if you don't like women with tattoos then you won't like me. we shall figure that one out together.

  • Wilfreda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I would like to find someone to go out and have a good time with. I do not like someone who is all caught up in drama, I feel everyone has enough crap in our lives why would we want to add to it. Some people just do, Im just sayin!Im very easy to get along with as long as you aren't someone who lies. Lying is the one thing I can not or will not tolerate, been there done it and dont appreciate it.I work hard and have very definate goals in life, I expect for someone I go out with to work also. I dont work hard to support an immature guy.I have one child and it is her world, I just live in it.lolI am very active and spontaneous, like to travel or be on the go alot, I enjoy the outdoors and love summer and the beach.I am very honest... or blunt. I love to have fun and have a great sense of humor, although sometimes sarcastic. Eat, go for a drive, go for a hike.

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