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About Me

At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Charlotte

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm well educated.. goofy.. always smiling.(laugh lines, not wrinkles).. quick witted..tomboy but I clean up well... and brutally truthful.. have a bad habit of opening my own doors. I get along better with men and than women. And yes a woman can be friends with a man without sleeping with him..I know...most of you have a surprised look on your face.I don't have a "TYPE". With that said...ive looked at a lot of profiles on this site and have a few tips for you guys...1. Do NOT put pictures of your children on a dating website..if you're a dad..say it.. we'll believe u2. Do not take a picture of a picture!3. Bathroom pic?..Really?4..Don't put group pic on profile pic... truth?... Awkward when we are attracted to the guy in the middle and you're on the far left5. I'm 37... I've heard a lot.. at least attempt to be original6. I know I'm decent looking for my age, but if you are obsessed with physical attributes on a woman..you are destined to die alone.7. I try to be old school so if you see that I viewed your profile, message me...make the first move..I'm tired of wearing the pants!

  • Adriana

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    1ST OFF I THANK GOD DAILY AND GODLY WOMEN BUT NOT PERFECT! IM VERY FAMILY OREINTED ALSO! IM A GOOD WOMEN BUT NOT SLO OR STUPID SO DNT TRY TO PLAY ! I LOVE TO HAVE FUN AND BE WITH MY MAN AND FAMILY , I ENJOY LIFE N TRY TO DO RIGHT, IM LOYAL TYPE N LOVEING , LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT WILL B WORTH HAVEN N KEEPING I DNT WANT A FLING OR 1 NIGHT STAND OR WEEKEND FUN, IM NOT DOWN LIKE THT,BUT DO GET DOWN IN THE KITCHEN, im sassy sexy classy neva trashy, i enjoy wat god has blessed us with n life i like walks outdorrs flowers travel parks sports movies museums bowling swimming weight lifting aniamls kids family church gardening poetry potery friends cars rideing motorcycle n biking boating , love the water beaches n lakes i love music n movies RnB soulmusic gospel rap african safari music , im open minded dnt play games serious humorus fun make ppl laugh loveing careing loyal honest I DONT DATE WHITE MEN!!!!! AND DNT ATTRACT TO BALD MEN UNLESS U EXTREAMLY SEXY N HAVE VERY NICE EYES AND NO LUMPY BUMPY HEAD,LOL SORRY BUT HEY WE ALL LIKE WAT WE LIKE SO KEEP IT MOVEN IF U DNT LIKE WAT I SAY I JUST KEEP IT REAL, ALSO NOOOOOOO MARRIED MEN OR MEN N RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!! NO GAME PLAYA'S!!!!! I WANT A MNA WHO WILL DEVELOPE INTO SOMETHING MEANINFUL! AND SPECIAL ! 1st date ,go out 2 eat walk the mall go to movie take a stroll, hav a conversation n see wat were bout, nothing serious so dnt exspect nothing from me but a good time n learn who i am!! so dont ask 2 kick it for a weekend or night lol 94 cadi devil 4 sale ***mi new tires radiator fuel pump battery tires thermostat water heator heator core , has crack n windshield but driveable runs excellent I love it but im moveing ***obo

  • Machelle

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Update: I don't want a man with muscles bulging out every where. That's nice for some, just not me. I want a real man. If you have a beard, nice, if not I am still attracted to clean shaven. :-)**I need to make this perfectly clear. I am not looking for a hook up or a one night stand. So, if you are please move along. Thank you. **Wanted… Looking for a lover who is funny and smart, maybe even a big kid at heart… Someone to love me for me, even as hard as that can be. Someone who can be honest and true and sent from Above, a gift from God for me to love… If this sounds like you, all you will need to do is… Apply inside my heart. I am divorced and looking for an honest man who likes children and wants them. He should love to laugh and have fun. But also like to watch a movie at home. I have 2 boys ages 10 & 11. My boys enjoys sports like baseball, football, soccer and wrestling. Nothing like a Braves game or watching WWE for these boys. My boys are very important to me and come first. Whoever I am with should understand that. I am not looking to play games, either. I don't like games and I don't like to be played. So, if you are looking for a faithful woman who values family and her relationship let me know. I am not into liars. So let's talk and hang out, get to know each other and see what develops. Maybe bowling. No better way to get to know someone than being a little vulnerable and embarrassed. :) But we should decide together.

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