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About Me

At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Corie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am an independent, divorced woman with 5 kids. (yes, by the same man) I enjoy good music, good food and good company.My life is chaotic and crazy, but I wouldn't trade it for all the money in the world. Well, maybe ;) that would be a lot of money to turn down. No, but seriously I believe money is the root of most evil and honestly couldn't care less about it. I just want enough to live modestly and that is what I have. You can't put a dollar sign on happiness, if you do... You'll never really be happy. At least that's my thoughts on it. ****I no longer believe money is the root of evil, I believe it to be human greediness. I like money. Money likes me! Did you see what I did right there? I've been reading up on quantum physics (the philosophical side) Like attracts like! Update: I DO have drama with the ex. I am human and have lots of battle wounds. I am completely confident in my actions with my ex. I have full custody and absolutely no more time for losers. If you are an alcoholic or a drug user.. Stay away. Lets not waste eithers time.I have always worked and will continue to do so. I don't need nor want a sugar daddy. I can support myself and my children and I am not looking for a replacement father. I have done very well raising them as one parent. They are brilliant, well behaved and have huge hearts! I will only make time for someone who gives me as much respect as I deserve! I have been overweight and have lost a lot of it recently. So, it could happen again. I don't really care. I am who I am and my weight is my weight and if you like super skinny girls... Move the heck on! On a positive note... I've finally learned to not take others misguided, self righteous, narccisstic words and attitudes to heart.. That's progress! And yes.. I am bitter.. I'm not going to pretend I'm not. That would be fake..I'm over everyone's false representation of themselves! And I'm working on the bitterness :***. Again, phylisophical quantum physics. I do not understand the mechanics, I just like the idea that I have power over my mind and I controll my life. I think, therefore I am. The energy I give off attracts the same.. So, I'm positive, calm, HAPPY!! Dream it, do it! Just believe (or fake it till you make it! :) I know this is a long profile, but it's just me brainstorming for my future book. Don't much care for them, but you have to get through it to get to the 2nd date. I know, I'm a charmer aren't I?

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-52

    Hi! My name is Sherrymusk. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Guyton, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Clarity

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I was married for 14 years and divorced for the past 5 years. I have 3 beautiful children who are my world. I am not looking for a man to take care of me. I have a good job and my own everything. I am also not looking to take care of a man. I enjoy reading, movies, music, camping, swimming, bowling and being outdoors when it is nice out. I love spending time with my kids. I don't go out to bars or clubs. If I am not at work, I am at home. I have very good morals and values and I guess you could call me "old fashioned" when it comes to love. I believe in the little things that you do in relationships to show you care. I am very romantic and like to let who I am with know what they mean to me. I think a lot of that is lost now days with technology and the fast paced life. Society makes everything disposable these days. I don't want a disposable relationship. I want true and honest. I don't need a man to buy me everything or try to impress me with money. That usually has the opposite effect for me than what I think they are trying to obtain. I would rather be with a poor man who loves me with pure true love than be with a man who is rich and buys me everything but doesn't have that true love. That to me is a no brainer. I don't fit in with today's single women, I am finding, like I said I am old fashioned compared to what I see. I will not settle until I find that man who treats me the way I want to treat him and makes my heart flutter and give me Butterflies....until then, I am content. Go out to dinner, talk and get to know each other. I love walks......holding hands,walking and talking...oh yeah and the more romantic the better...:)

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