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At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shayla

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a single mom who's looking for MrRight to grow old with.. I love many outdoor activities including camping...swimming...hi king... I love to travel and the beach... I love photography and I also teach zumba a few days a week... Open

  • Luise

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I have been on this sight for almost 2 years now, on and off. It seems as if most of the people on here are all about drama and games. What happen to people being honest? This is my last time trying this. If it works, great, and if not, oh well. I know exactly the type of man I am looking for. I can tell you this, I am not looking for someone under the ages of 35 and over the age of 45. I am looking for the whole package. A man who is not afraid to show his compassionate side. I am a homebody. I work 2 jobs, plus starting school full time soon, so I don't have a lot of free time. I do not and not looking to date someone who does. In the end I am just looking for the same as everyone else, the perfect person. The first date would be something decided by both of us. I am not picky but would like some place not as busy so we could talk.

  • Rowanne

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm not good when it comes to talking about myself.I'm an honest and loyal person who will treat you with respect as long as you do the same towards me.I have never been married and have no kids by choice. I'm self employed and have my own home and vehicle. I am also very capable of taking care of myself so I am not looking for a sugar daddy. I have a niece and nephew that I help take care of sometimes and I'm totally involved in their lives. I also volunteer for several non profit agencies in town.Please have a current picture available. If we were to meet you should look like your pictures you have posted in here or send to me. No need to lie about the way you look. Please feel free to ask me anything you would like to know. All my pictures are current!! A place to talk and see if there is a mutual interest between us.

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