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At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cathi

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Not your average gal!Lots of fun, but not a goof off!Very smart.... not nerdyLady....Intetesting facts about me....I have ridden an ostrich, an elephant and a camel.I have bungee jumped upside down.I'm a Girl Scout Leader.I love to volunteer. I tutored Biology, English and Economics... but had to be tutored in math in college.Fed a giraffe from my mouth once.My two daughters love to dig worms as much as they love to play spa.I LOVE sitting by a fire outside on a chilly night!!!!I've been to all but one Magaritaville.I have been to many tropical destination.Just looking for a guy friend to catch a hockey game with or a movie and a bite to eat. I am not totally against a relationship at some point, but it isn't something I am searching for. :)The kind of guy I would be most likely to fall for.... A man with a strong moral compass and a firm Christian faith. A man who is attentive and affectionate, but not needy. A man who loves children and old people. I like a man that wil get my door from time to time, but will also let me pick up the tab. Turn offs.... Guys who post shirtless pictures or pictures with silly hand gestures (like holding up two fingers). Guys who add the disclaimer that "a friend signed me up", blank profiles, and smokers. I also think it is lame when men post pictures of their cars and houses. I am adventerous and open to suggestions.... NOT interested in IE or FWB!!!! Had. First date at Carrowinds once. That was great! Just dinner, mini golf, sky diving..... :)FYI... Cigarette smoke gives me a migraine. If you smoke even once a month, I would not be interested.

  • Adelice

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm very gifted in getting lost wherever I go so it leads to interesting afternoons of exploring. Life is an adventure at all times, so take lots of pictures and talk to anyone who will talk back. It's the best way to find the best places to see, eat and shop. This is the best time of year to go exploring in the mountains and finding a bonfire to drink hot chocolate by. The Ice Bears are getting ready to take the ice as well, so excited to be banging on the glass for one more season. It would be even more fun to have someone to go with.

  • Rachal

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm a single mom of 3 I am a caring & compassionate person almost to a fault; some would say that I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm the type of person who will put your needs above my own and far too many times which has caused me to be taken advantage of too many times in relationships. I am a simple person who enjoys the simple things in life, not high maintenance in the slightest bit. I like to have fun, joke & laugh, I'm rather sarcastic & slightly foul mouthed at times. I am an affectionate person & absolutely love to kiss and cuddle however I am also very strong independent and yes at times a little stubborn (I'm Irish/French, that's my excuse & I'm stickin to it lol). For those who see the BBW part of my info and get scared away I want to make clear that I am a smaller BBW and I carry my weight well, I am currently 204lbs and loosing :-)****IMPORTANT NEED TO KNOW INFORMATION BEFORE CONTACTING ME***********I was recently diagnosed with a Meningioma Brain Tumor. It is noncancerous however it is not just a blob in my skull that's just sitting there causing no harm to me so I'm not for the weak type. I need somebody up for the challenge to walk beside me not behind me. The road with my BT hasn't got bumpy yet but in time it will. I love music of all genres; preferably alternative, classic rock & modern rock/pop;; of course Zepplin. Movies I prefer horror/comedy/drama/suspense; favorites are The Notebook, Wizard of Oz, Seven. Favorite tv shows are The Walking Dead & Sons of Anarchy, favorite sports are WWE, Nascar, MMA (even though I don't follow it I enjoy watching it). When it comes to reading I like true crime or suspense. My kids are my everything, I'm all that they have had for a VERY long time so you must like kids! They are all teenagers & 1 is a special needs child due to ADHD/BIPOLAR/ODD so if you aren't a patient & understanding man please pass me by. I'm not a Xbox that was put on this earth to be played.........can somebody show me that sincere men aren't a myth? I have been cheated on physically & emotionally, I have been used financially as well as other ways, I have been pushed aside to see if the grass is greener on the other side and I am on the verge of giving up I can't stand to be lied to and anyone who can look you in the eyes and have no problems with their conscience at all then they would have no problems telling you a lie about anything, even cheating. I don't need that kind of bullshit. I don't expect perfection but I do want somebody who is willing to show & prove to me that he wants nobody else but me Dinner? A movie? Drinks? A walk? Coffee? It all Depends on the the person

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