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Lavonda, 39

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About Me

As most people, I love sex-want it often-but it's not my only focus. Id like a man who really enjoys it & revels in pleasing his partner like I enjoy touching & pleasing him. I have to click with someone physically, emotionally, & mentally to really click. If it's all you wanna talk about, we won't get anywhere. As for fun, adventure, & sports=I'm not into sports, but, I think sports are a healthy fun; mentally & physically. I'm more of a laid back person, as is my sense of adventure. I like time with family & friends, I watch TV & internet & enjoy getting out to do things. I like the arts, dances, music, art, etc. I'm not a drinker or partier. I'd like to visit places in my bucket list. We all have different interests, that's a good thing, we can still enjoy each others interests sometimes, too. I'm passionate, sexual, romantic, caring, sensitive, loving, loyal, sincere. I'm definitely more a middle of the road person. I'm not religious, nor an atheist, I like nature & the city, I like going to the park, having a picnic, or going to a symphony, or a concert, a ballet, or seeing street dancing. Please read my profile before messaging me. Please don't message me if you're not interested in a relationship. I'm not interested in a fling or f.b., I get too attached. I won't pursue, if you're interested, say so. One way to show you're interest is by showing who you are, getting to know each other. I want to get to know someone, so if you can't talk & open up, I'm not interested. I click better with someone who takes the time to be real, honest, conversational, a little time to get to know each other, connect, etc. No drunks, smokers, or illegal drugs. I like diverse cultures. I want someone who wants to give in a relationship, someone who'll communicate, not hide things, won't lie, is kind, caring, passionate, attentive, affectionate, sweet, romantic, a cuddler, etc., shares who he is, wants the physical & emotional aspects of a relationship, etc. I'm not saying *** love, but I'm looking for someone who's really interested in a relationship, who's really in. Almost all women give so much more than men, I'm tired of giving so much, I enjoy giving when I'm given to also. I've always given much more than I've gotten & I honestly deserve much better. I don't like prejudism, racism, belittling people, or cruelty, secrecy, lies, players, or someone who thinks flirting with others is harmless. I appreciate someone who doesn't have a temper. Someone who can agree to disagree. There's many sides to each person making them into the unique puzzle that they are & having a differences & commonalities that work well with each other - well, it's an absolute magic trick trying to find a good fit.- yeah, we all have our preferences or what normally works best, but there are times when none of that matters, it's all about finding the right fit. MOVIES & TV: comedy - romance - action - some suspense - some drama -- love educational tv -- hate horror -- MUSIC: soft rock - classic rock - *** country - jazz - happy blues - big band - chinese pop - indian - american indian -- hate hard/metal rock -- FOODS: Asian, Indian, American, Mexican, are favs in order listed -- I always regret answering IMs so I usually don't answer them. Eating, meeting for a drink, going to the park, seeing a movie, window shopping, doing something nice like go to an orchestra or something, doing some kind've activity or craft together, putt-putt, dancing (though I have no dancing skills), bowling, walking, etc. I like getting out & doing things & being at home, too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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