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Lou, 38

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About Me

I am a girl who used to thirve on constant change. I have ejoyed moving around the U.S. with my job. However, in contrast I also enjoy certain aspects of life staying the same. I still enjoy driving my car I bought when graduating from college (yes that was man, many years ago!). My family and friends are very important to me. I have moved back to MI twice to be closer to family. I am thankful for the flexibility my career has offered me.On first meeting I tend to be the more quiet and serious type. Once someone gets to know me it becomes obvious I am surely not opposed to having fun.I have been having an Awesome Summer with family and friends. But being the stand out single party is not always the bright spot of any adventure. So I am going out on a limb and trying the challenge of online dating again. How does one sound unique and interesting here? Hmm... Truly just getting toegether for a cup of coffee or a drink and having a chance to talk would be great. If conversation is interesting and flows easily to continue on to dinner could be an option.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Genevive

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    This is something new to me- I haven't been single in a good while but I am not going to sit around and wait anymore. I don't want to go in to great detail about my last relationship but it was nearly a decade of comfort and I am definitely stepping OUT of my comfort zone here. With that being said, I want to be with someone who is ready to just enjoy nice things in life. I like doing things that adults my age should enjoy doing-working a full-time job, spending time with my child, having dinner as a family, going to the movies, going on vacation, going to church when I can- you know, nothing too crazy. I don't mind going to have a drink every once in a while but I am not going to do the bar scene- I refuse! I do realize that no one is perfect and that just because you are on a dating website doesn't mean you are damaged or have baggage but let's face it, we all have a past of some sort and if you have come to terms with yours, are ready to be a decent human being in a committed relationship and do not want to play the field for the rest of your life- send me a message. My life is at a point right now that I think it could only be enhanced by sharing it with someone else. I don't want to fix anyone or financially support anyone so just understand that please. Now, the good stuff!! I am a very confident and independent woman with a great sense of humor. I like to hold hands and just hang out with my man. I am ok being by myself for a night or two if you want to hang out with your buddies. I am not a needy girl- I am also not stupid so don't take my kindness for weakness! I am after-all, a natural red-head and as much as I would like to say I don't have the temper that comes along with it, I do to some extent, have a temper. I will NOT chase you around town looking for your car if you won't answer your phone so, if you want drama- you need to look elsewhere. Bottom-line, do what you say you're going to do if it's within your power. Being in a relationship is a choice you make every single day- if one day you wake up and choose to move on then have the decency to tell me and move on-OK? I am starting to feel like I am preaching so I will stop- I am just a realist who wants the same. Have a wonderful day and happy dating!! I would prefer to go somewhere to get to know the person. It does not have to include a meal but it should not be a movie or somewhere that you cannot talk. I like to go for walks or even go grab a drink (not necessarily alcoholic) to just keep the pressure off and if you would rather not invest any more time than that- you are both free to go.

  • Abigayle

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    my main priority in life is raising my daughter.I have been single for a while now it is time for me to find other happiness too.I need a man that can show both of us he can love us and show us how a real man can be. not like the dogs i have had in the past. I want her to know there are real men out there.Besides my 14 year old daughter i am raising my 2 year old neice that i have had since she was 6 weeks old.I am also raising my 5 year old neice.They are my life and they will always come first and if you can't handle that then just move on and don't even start a conversation I don't have time to play games.I am not the woman to take care of a man if your looking for a second mama look else where.I feel the only way to start out is getting everything out in the open.I am not a cheater or a liar so if you are don't even message me.I am not looking for anyone that does drugs either or makes it your profession to sell them.I want my girls raised right and not subjected to the bad things in life.

  • Delma

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a happy person with two great kids ages 7 and 8 who keep me on my toes. I am passionate about life and baking and express creativity through sweets. Although I may have a drink once or twice a year, I prefer pie. I have been known to cut a rug in the grocery store if the muzak so moves me.My awesome friends keep me laughing and give me an audience for my latest culinary endeavors.I am awesome. You better be too. I don't want a daddy for my kids. They have one of those already and he does just fine. Maybe not what I would do, but just fine nonetheless. You aren't going to meet them. I am dating for me, not for them.What I do want is someone to be interested in me. Ask me questions. Remember my favorite song. Bring me flowers. Take me to dinner. Tell me I'm pretty. Smile when you see me. Hold my hand. Touch my face. Call just because you want to hear my voice. Tell me secrets and snuggle with me under a blanket. Kiss me. Kiss me. Kiss me. Dance with me in the grocery store. Ask to lick the spoon when I make cookies. Laugh with me. Did I mention kiss me?I want to feel not so alone. That's on me, not you. I don't want to be your mom. I don't want to be your sister. I want to be a lover and a friend. I'm exceptional at both.

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