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Lourdes, 39

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About Me

Profile 2.0Please make sure you read the very last paragraph! I honestly want something with substance. Something more than what is on the surface. Sex is great, sex is fun but it certainly isn't everything. I appreciate someone that has the ability to hold a conversation with coherent thoughts and opinions. If you can catch my attention with with your intelligence you have accomplished something! I work a lot, more than I should... I average ***hours a week at work. I know that is something that can be very difficult to understand & deal with but it is my job. I am good at what I do, I love what I do & when it's time to go home I am still on call. If there is a connection I will make time as long as there is an understanding that at times my job WILL get in the way. It could be a phone call or I may have to jump up & go in for an hour or sometimes longer. I was married for 18 years, divorced for 3 years now. I learned you just can't fix some things no matter how long or how hard you try.I do not have children and I no longer have the capability of having children. Cancer sucks but survival rocks! First.... I do not drink coffee!! Otherwise i'm open to something different. Maybe the zoo? **** Do not message me if......You list yourself as married or available. I don't share, ever! Also Poly really freaks me out! Trust me, if you are not actually single yet list yourself as single I will not lie to your girlfriend or wife if we start talking and she calls or texts me. I will not cover up for you. Nothing pisses me off more than finding out you have been lying to me!!! I realize that makes me sound like a b*tch but it is what it is.I would also like to point out that I do not respond well to messages indicating the only thing you want is sex. You will not like what I have to say about that. If all I wanted was sex I could find that anywhere anytime I wanted, trust me on that. I'm not saying that I don't like sex because I am the extreme opposite of that! In a committed relationship the more sex there is the better. I just don't understand why men think a woman will fall all over them for sex, my self esteem is way higher than that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Astra

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    First off, with all respect, if you don't have a pic then please don't message me. I don't like being at a disadvantage. Physical attraction is huge. I'm sure you didn't message me based on my glowing personality. If you're looking for a stick figure then I am not the girl for you. I prefer tall men, especially since I enjoy wearing heels. A warped sense of humour is also very attractive. I like dirty jokes, and I'm not easily offended. I love this game. I think it reveals a lot about who I am...New Who over Old Who (Doctor Who, of course)Pubs over coffeeDogs over catsTarantino over Spielberg Star Wars over Star TrekJolie over AnistonPS3 over XBox (but SNES over both) Pie over cakeNinjas over piratesBeatles over the Rolling StonesBoxers over briefs (but boxer-briefs over both - commando is acceptable in some *** over the mallMint chocolate chip over all other ice cream (peanut butter cup is also acceptable)Horror over chick flicks I love a good pub but I'm always up for an adventure!

  • Dotty

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm not sure what to say here, and lets face it who even reads these things? Well, here goes nothing...I believe that laughter really is the best medicine, I love love love to laugh! I love sports, especially if the Oilers or Riders are playing! Spontaneity is key in any relationship. My friends and family are a huge part of my life, and I'm not sure what I'd do without them. I've got two great kids that will soon be young adults. something casual.

  • Jeneva

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Just a little disclaimer... I have been on meetville for a few months now and I am learning that a lot of men are all about games. I prefer to get to know you a bit here before exchanging numbers. I am not going to be sending you anymore pictures of myself... what you see here is what you get. With that said... HI! I have been single for almost 2 years now and I am interested in expanding my horizons and meeting new people. Definitely friends first. I am a TALL woman and I love to wear heels when I go out, so take that into consideration! I do prefer someone I can look up to without my heels though. I am a very friendly, social and outgoing person who will talk to just about anyone, so you can't be a very jealous type because people will come and talk to me no matter where I am. I am very easygoing and I don't care to be judgmental. Everyone's situation is different and usually always difficult, so I don't feel I have the right to judge. My body type does not define me and neither does yours. I am interested more in personality and someone I can communicate with openly. I don't smoke or do any drugs and am looking for someone the like. I do like to have a few drinks every now and then, but only socially. I never drink alone, although sometimes I want to! I have been trying to rediscover myself lately (New Year/New ME), which isn't an easy thing I am finding out! I definitely wear my heart on my sleeve, which has not always proven to work well for me but I can't change who I am! I definitely love music... pretty much all genres. I have actually even started listening to some country music. I like to sing in the car as if I can and I'll jump on the dance floor when I hear something I like. I like to read and learn new things. I am up for trying new things. Some things you should know about me before you even message me: (I hope these don't make me seem mean... I am just being real) *I am NOT looking for a hook-up or a one-night stand. *I am not sending you any more pictures of myself and I don't want to see any of you that you can't post on meetville! *If I am not interested or you can't form a complete sentence... I am probably not going to respond to your messages.*My children are very important to me and take up a lot of my time, however, I can make time available. *.. which means if you are interested in seeing me, you should be open to traveling to the city or nearby. *I am currently in the middle of my divorce, however, the relationship was over 2 years before the process even started over a year ago. *Post CURRENT pictures of yourself please.. it's only fair to those of looking. When we meet you, we don't want to wonder if you are the same person we've been looking at on meetville. *Don't waste my time. If you are fake... don't even bother! I don't like games! And I can usually tell right away. I am a very caring and loving woman and need someone worthy of my affection. I am looking for a man to give me as much as I am willing to give. There are going to be times that I am tough and those are the times that I probably just need a hug and to be told that everything is going to be OK. I want to feel protected. I want to know that you are thinking about me at random times throughout the day. I am actually a hopeless romantic and want to be swept off my feet. Please do not confuse my personality with my attitude... because my personality depends on me, and my attitude depends on you. When I asked my friends if they could describe me, this is what I received: "Loving...good friend...honest...good-hearted..you are truly one of a kind!"; " A loving person, a great friend, loyal person, a daring person(lol), a great mom!!! U deserve the best!!!"; "Loyal , loving and the kinda friend that will always be there for u. To back u up in anything!!" I love quotes and life lessons... This one really spoke to me: "Life is precious; As unwanted as you may feel, one day you will mean everything to someone. Maybe today, maybe tomorrow, maybe in years. Maybe you already do and you just don't know it yet, but I promise it will happen. You may feel like the ugliest f/ck up in this world, but I promise one day someone will love you, and you will love them. There are laughs to have, amazing people to meet, places to see, and there is someone out there who is perfect for you. As worthless and empty as you may feel, there are great things ahead of you. Moments that will take your breath away, moments that will change everything. There are good times and there are bad times ahead of you, but I promise that even a life filled with hardship is better than being six feet under the ground rotting away. Replace self-hating thoughts with positivity. Eat as much as you want. Smile. Talk. Say the wrong thing. Break rules. Make mistakes. Fall in love. Laugh. Breathe. Live. Because this life is precious and this life is beautiful." So... if that isn't too much to handle... say hello! :) An ideal first date would just be a chance to sit down with someone over dinner or drinks and just get to know each other.

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