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Shakira, 37

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About Me

I'm not sure how this works and I haven't e-dated in years (so go easy on me, guys)...What I'm looking for:An artist, a musician, a writer, or one who at least has an appreciation for any of the afformentioned. When asked what your best physical quality is, you probably reply "eyes" or "smile," but it's your intelligence, sense of humor and zest for life that superceeds the physical. You enjoy the subtle contrasts of life and where that road may take you. You recognize the need to listen as much as you speak, you're as serious as you are silly, you work as hard as you play and give as much as you get. You delight in balanced relationships (you put in your one-half of that whole ***thing), and know every good relationship starts off as a good friendship first and develops from there. You don't claim to be perfect... but you are, however, perfect in your imperfections. Who I am:+ An ambitious artist+ An award-winning designer+ A music lover/aficionado+ A connoisseur of old movies (and other things rich in tradition and/or kitsch)+ As much retro as I am modern+ Eager to travel and have new experiences+ Playful, fun and passionate+ Hysterical+ Allergic to shellfish and drama+ Cute as all get-out+ And so many more things...I'd like to think I possess all of the above qualities that I am seeking... and so much more. But that part requires reciprocated interest.Things that are very important to me:Outside of obvious physical attraction, I am attracted to Personality, Depth, and Truth a thousand times more. I'd like to meet someone I can do things with, ie, someone who has some shared interests with me (but also someone who is independent to do things on their own). Travel, concerts, theater events, gallery shows, or just hanging out and having great conversation are just a few things that I enjoy. And someone who appreciates the power of romance is a big plus in my book as I'm definitely NOT looking for a slacker in that department! :-) Oh, I wouldn't think this needs to be said, but I'm also NOT into guys who are currently married and/or separated. Something a little non-traditional, interesting and, above all, FUN! I'm not a big fan of the coffee date - how much in-depth conversation can one possibly have in 30 minutes? - or the old standby of dinner and a movie. Nothing bores me more than a lack of imagination. REAL experiences/connections drive me. I don't really care what we do, but let's smile and laugh and enjoy each other's company!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a very comfortable with my life but would like to find someone with like interests to enjoy it with. A friend, possibly more. I am looking for someone who is secure in who they are and their life.

  • Lavada

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a knitting fanatic. I enjoy showing my creative side in a relationship. I hope to find someone who is a down to earth kind of man who still knows how to have fun. I enjoy the simple things in life like long walks and long talks. Enjoying someone else's company is the real treat. I want someone who will be interested in me and spending time together. Accepting each other with any and all flaws, chips or pieces of ourselves that may feel damaged in anyway will help us to find out how we can become stonger together. I have a multitude of interests and I am usually willing to try things at least once. If I sound interesting, let's give it a whirl! Enjoying each other's company and getting to talk while we learn more about our past, present and what we wish for in the future is the ideal date for me. No distractions, just walking together and talking.

  • Lacy

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    edit: PLEASE do not contact me if you are not interested in pursuing a REAL, mature relationship. I hate to feel it necessary to say this, but apparently what's obvious to me isn't always obvious to someone else. I'm getting very frustrated with men who don't know what they want, or change their mind midstream. I also am not on here to chat. This may sound cold, but I don't get on here for long, and would rather spend that time learning about someone that is looking for the same thing, rather than someone who just wants to pass the time. If you think I will want a private pic of you undressed, please don't contact me~end edit~First, let me apologize for the photos. I perform at renaissance festivals, and as a wrestling manager (yes, like the minor leagues for WWE) so it's really the only time I'm in front of the camera... I assure you, I'm quite normal... and have a normal job. Secondly, my profile will come across to some of you (this means the "nice" guys) as harsh... I apologize. Unfortunately, there are more men out there that seem to need things spelled out for them. I hope you understand.A Little about me: I'm brutally honest, a little goofy, & proud geek. I am a lady-who likes a few unlady like things. I'm a single mother, happy in my own skin, proud of my "battle scars" in life, eager to learn more, & always ready for a waterfight. I'm a tomboy, a priss, like scary movies, but scream when I see a spider. I'm rational & analytical, yet cry over Hallmark commercials at Christmas. I love: football, baseball, hockey, Nascar, camping, movies including sci-fi & action, sunday bar-b-ques, & house projects, and wrestling. I get dirty working on the car & wear a dress & heels for those special nights out. I'm very affectionate, love to laugh, & can enjoy any environment with the right company. Lazy Sundays curled up with a good book and good company is wonderful, so is a weekend at the races with my daughter, or performing at a Renaissance Festival, or Wrestling event.What I'm NOT looking for: I'm not looking for a "hook-up", no matter how hot you think you are! I don't "need" something to do, my life is plenty busy. I'm not looking for someone to "hang out" with... I have friends for that already. I'm not interested in "seeing where it goes", I know where I'm going. What I AM looking for: I'm looking for someone who is wanting and "ready" to be in a relationship, someone who's ready to think beyond this week or this year. No, I don't expect it to happen today... but if it's not the goal going in... it's probably not going to be (refer to the old cow/getting milk free saying). I'm very easy going and laid back, and not into drama or games. I'm an affectionate, romantic person who wants the same in return. A sense of humor is a must, so is accepting that I am raising a child on my own. We are a package deal, so please don't expect me to ship her off to a sitter all the time... I rather enjoy her company. I have a "normal" job monday through friday, but I also am a performer at renaissance festivals. It does take a good deal of time, so I'm hoping to find someone who at the very least respects this passion of mine... though I would love it if he had an appreciation for it and wanted to be involved. He should function primarily with the cerebral head and not the carnal one... let me spell that one out for some of you... if you need to mention sex before we ever meet.... we won't meet. Finally, he should have some class and manners (which would eliminate me ever having to mention the previous requirement). I am a woman, not a tramp, I will be treated with respect. I prefer a first date to be relaxed. Dinner at a locally owned restaurant (one of those perfect hole in the wall's that only the locals know about) is a great way to spend time talking, relaxing and getting to know each other. I prefer the casual/laid back environment where I can get to learn about a person, rather than putting on airs at a fancy restaurant and trying to keep up appearances. I would rather meet YOU, not the person you present to the general public.

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