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Ula, 40

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About Me

When I was a kid breakfast was usually puffed wheat. Growing up in a household of six, puffed wheat was purchased in bulk. On shopping day my Mom would have to bungee-cord the bags of puffed wheat that were as big as beanbag chairs to the top of the old Volkswagon Beetle and then drive home carefully.… occasionally we could talk my Mom into buying the little sample variety packs of cereal and there was nothing better than those days when we could get up early on a Saturday morning, watch cartoons together and open up all the little boxes of cereal (you were supposed to be able to cut them open and use them as a bowl… but that never worked out well.) We’d have six types of cereal all mixed together…I'm essentially happy with the balance of life. I have family, good friends, stay healthy, practice a regular fitness routine and have assorted hobbies and enough time off for whatever adventure or project I feel like tackling. I feel fortunate to have a job that I really enjoy, and I feel generally lucky in life. I'm looking for someone interested in dating with the goal of developing a long term relationship... Staying curious, and learning more, creativity, health, fitness and living a balanced life with a balanced cheque book are important to me. I’m generally an at-home piscivore, occasional social-carnivore. Regarding drink, I can't say that I drink socially, or that I don't drink at all.-two alcoholic drinks a month.I hope to find a conversant partner who also believes that physical attraction is important, but mental stimulation, consideration, kindness, responsibility and thoughtfulness are also essential components of enduring mutual attraction. I feel it is as important to give back and volunteer in the community as it is to have time to do one’s own thing and to try new things. I prefer to figure things out and fix things rather than to throw them out.What are you doing this week? Would we ever run into each other and talk? This weekend I'll be at a farmers market, a youth theatre production, having tea with a friend to talk about her science-based art project, cooking food (fresh from the farmers market,) fitting in a workout and a swim at the beach or two, perhaps a few chores, and going to a family gathering. I'll be catching up on some reading in the evenings to wind down. Things that might make you run away: I’ll be wearing braces for about another ***months, and that makes me feel pretty amusingly-awkward at times, especially for first meetings... also: I have some pretty geeky hobbies. I’m not a minimalist. I enjoy dressing up for the occasional creative public event. I think gummy candies are a fun postmodern treat. My flaws include: indulging in puns and sarcasm, not being perfect, too many freckles, and treating my little car like it’s a wheelbarrow as I'm often getting things for the garden. For me the point of being on this dating site is to meet people who, like me, are comfortable in their own sense of character, and to try to find that elusive connection with someone... and actually meeting in person to see if there is that common ground and spark. So, if you’re genuine and intrigued, and think that you might be ‘my cup of tea’ and I might be yours, then please send me a message. First meeting: casual.Coffee, tea, or meet at a farmers' market ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Christiana

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I have decided to rewrite my profile information based on failed attempts with some of the people that I have met on this site. I am looking for a man that isn't afraid of commitment. Someone that understands that in order to gain love and respect, one must give it in return. It's really unfortunate that people choose to mislead and speak false prophecies to others just to get a foot in the door. I try and be as specific as possible in my profile to avoid being contacted by people that simply do not fit what I am looking for in a match, so I will be sure to be as specific as possible. I am an independent, proud mother of 2 boys, both of which I am very proud of. I play a very active role in their lives because I brought them into this world. My job is to provide and take care of them and do so with a kind, loving and giving heart. My hope is that the man that would chose to respond to my profile, would want to take an active role in their lives as well. I am looking for someone that wants to be involved, not only in my life, but theirs as well. I am self sufficient and can provide all that we need, however, I am looking for someone to share my life with. I also feel the need to state that my children are bi-racial. This may not be important to most, but some may have a problem with it. If so, please keep moving-I do not see color and I do not discriminate-I date men that love me and care for me, regardless of the color of their skin! It gets lonely, just keeping it real-I want a best friend, someone that wants the same. I believe in romance, holding hands in public, and kisses that say a thousand words without saying a word at all. I realize that many men are out there looking for someone to spend time with, but with no intention of commitment-I am NOT the one for you! Please do not waste my time if you are wanting to date around and play the field. I have faith in God and I believe that one day I will find the man of my dreams-I hope, however, that he finds me first.I am a huge sports fan-love love love FOOTBALL!! I also enjoy basketball as well. I love to have fun: this can be accomplished in many ways-nights at home hanging out, or even going out dancing-I just love to enjoy life with the ones I am with! First dates are important because it's the first impression. Conversation is very important so somewhere that feels natural and normal. If the chemistry is there, then the next date could be left up to us to decide.

  • Chia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Well, let's see...I'm a laid back girl who likes a night out in the city or a sunday afternoon in a sports bar with friends but I'm just as content sitting home with a glass of wine and good company. My friends and family are a big part of my life and I'm always smiling when theyre around. I'm pretty open minded and am always up for a new adventure. I try not to let the little things in life bother me, which lets face it, is not always easy. I can be serious at times and silly at times. You have to be able to poke fun at yourself. I hope you feel the same. a not too crowded bar or lounge for a drink and if things seem to be going well, maybe a bite to eat.

  • Armanda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm funny, driven, witty, and a wee bit sassy- all in one adorable package. I live to travel and it would be so much more fun with the right travel companion. I enjoy going to plays and movies, being near almost any body of water, feeding ducks, swimming, and just watching TV after a long day at work. Almost every Sunday in the fall I watch the NFL and would like the right man beside me and my dog. Looking for someone who loves to laugh, loves to learn, and wants to enjoy the journey of every day. Meet for coffee or dinner, take a walk along the water, and laugh.

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