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Theodora, 40

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About Me

I am a hard working ,caring mom who has lots of love for life and all it has to offer. I love children, however not having any more. I enjoy all music. I like having bonfires in our backyard, camping, outdoors and getting dirty. Willing to try almost anything . Love Italian and seafood . I am more of a captain and coke girl but a beer works too. Never been a wine girl but discovered moscato... Like sweet things :) prefer non smokers but respect me if you do, you won't in my truck or house.My children are my number one focus. Mom needs time too but I will always be a mom to my kids, please understand their feelings are a huge part of dating. I would rather be alone with my kids than with the wrong man just to have one around. I think I am pretty handy at fixing things. Looking for a man to laugh with. One that will appreciate all the good I have to offer. I am very open, please ask anything.I like to work out, started it up again. Life kind of got crazy and took over work out time.. One more thing I must add... I have a special needs daughter. That is a deal breaker for some..others that have met her say it isn't obvious. She is awesome...just felt like I better share now... First date I think is nice to be able to be somewhere not too loud so you can talk and hear each other. Don't think a movie either because then you have two hours of watching something and wastIng time of getting to know someone. Maybe a coffee or a drink just a quick meet and greet to see if there is an attraction for a second get to know you better. There should be a physical attraction and a personal attraction based on their ability to communicate, laugh, hold a conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Moll

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am into fitness, fine dining, the beach, boating, local events, football, hockey and I love to travel! Sometimes just a cup of coffee on the couch with a good movie on a rainy day is perfect as well!A proper first date would be a cup of coffee, lunch, dinner, a glass of wine. Please DO NOT contact me if you are eligible for AARP, looking for a "friend" while you are in town for the week, if you look down and cant see your toes without bending over or if you are just looking for casual dating. What am I looking for? Someone who is confident in themselves and loves what they do and who they are.Someone who prides themselves in the way that they look (not perfection, but not overweight) and takes care of themselves. A man, not someone who is trying to "Find themselves" in the world. Someone that opens up the car door for me, the door of a restaurant, possibly pull out my chair. A gentleman please. Someone that is completely detached (yes, divorce final, over it and done) from any past relationships. I am looking for a long term relationship with the right person, but that can only be determined after time together, conversation and getting that right feeling. I am traditional and would hope for a nice drink somewhere that we can talk. That would be a great way to start.

  • Afrikah

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    And im looking for a tall, handsome, Christian man.Having similar belief systems is important to me, so if you consider yourself to be "non religious" then we are not going to be compatible.Here we go, this is the moment, tonight is the night, so we put our hands up like the ceiling can't hold us Coffee and conversation

  • Ula

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    When I was a kid breakfast was usually puffed wheat. Growing up in a household of six, puffed wheat was purchased in bulk. On shopping day my Mom would have to bungee-cord the bags of puffed wheat that were as big as beanbag chairs to the top of the old Volkswagon Beetle and then drive home carefully.… occasionally we could talk my Mom into buying the little sample variety packs of cereal and there was nothing better than those days when we could get up early on a Saturday morning, watch cartoons together and open up all the little boxes of cereal (you were supposed to be able to cut them open and use them as a bowl… but that never worked out well.) We’d have six types of cereal all mixed together…I'm essentially happy with the balance of life. I have family, good friends, stay healthy, practice a regular fitness routine and have assorted hobbies and enough time off for whatever adventure or project I feel like tackling. I feel fortunate to have a job that I really enjoy, and I feel generally lucky in life. I'm looking for someone interested in dating with the goal of developing a long term relationship... Staying curious, and learning more, creativity, health, fitness and living a balanced life with a balanced cheque book are important to me. I’m generally an at-home piscivore, occasional social-carnivore. Regarding drink, I can't say that I drink socially, or that I don't drink at all.-two alcoholic drinks a month.I hope to find a conversant partner who also believes that physical attraction is important, but mental stimulation, consideration, kindness, responsibility and thoughtfulness are also essential components of enduring mutual attraction. I feel it is as important to give back and volunteer in the community as it is to have time to do one’s own thing and to try new things. I prefer to figure things out and fix things rather than to throw them out.What are you doing this week? Would we ever run into each other and talk? This weekend I'll be at a farmers market, a youth theatre production, having tea with a friend to talk about her science-based art project, cooking food (fresh from the farmers market,) fitting in a workout and a swim at the beach or two, perhaps a few chores, and going to a family gathering. I'll be catching up on some reading in the evenings to wind down. Things that might make you run away: I’ll be wearing braces for about another ***months, and that makes me feel pretty amusingly-awkward at times, especially for first meetings... also: I have some pretty geeky hobbies. I’m not a minimalist. I enjoy dressing up for the occasional creative public event. I think gummy candies are a fun postmodern treat. My flaws include: indulging in puns and sarcasm, not being perfect, too many freckles, and treating my little car like it’s a wheelbarrow as I'm often getting things for the garden. For me the point of being on this dating site is to meet people who, like me, are comfortable in their own sense of character, and to try to find that elusive connection with someone... and actually meeting in person to see if there is that common ground and spark. So, if you’re genuine and intrigued, and think that you might be ‘my cup of tea’ and I might be yours, then please send me a message. First meeting: casual.Coffee, tea, or meet at a farmers' market ...

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