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Constance, 40

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Just curious... why do all the men on here find it necessary to have a picture with their shirt off? Leave a little to the imagination. Please. Look, I am a COOL girl and have alot to offer the right person (come on a girl who loves sports that is cute?) but am not open to games. Been there, done that.I am outgoing, spontaneous, athletic (both playing sports--working, sincere, loveable, family oriented and I love trying new things (at least once!). I have a dog, who is the love of my life, so if you don't like dogs- STOP reading-do not waste your time :). I am very open and honest and am pretty sarcastic (but I know how to be serious too). I love all types of music, especially if its live in a dive bar some where on the beach! I love to volunteer (spent alot of time with Make A Wish and local animal shelters in LA) All and all, I am happy with who I am and where my life is heading-all that is missing my "perfect" someone! What I DO firmly believe in though is getting to know someone first from the inside out-of course physical attraction is essential, but I think ones inner beauty goes alot farther! I LOVE to laugh...and smile... so, anyone who can accomplish that is one step closer to grasping the key to my heart! I am looking for someone who has their life together(for the most part) and knows what it is they want out of life. I want someone who is athletic (you DO NOT have to be super athlete, just enjoy being outdoors!), family oriented, good looking (to me), sincere, kind, humerous, honest, hardworking and wants me :) I want what my parents have***years of a wonderful marriage! On a first date? I think the best first dates are ones that start out casually (drinks) and the chemistry is there, so you continue to hang out and get to know one another. The better the conversation, the better the date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am looking for an old fashioned romance. I want an actual relationship, that starts out with actual DATES, going out, spending time getting to know each other (and they don't have to cost anything/a lot.Spending time with each other and actually TALK to each other, Let's not get into the intimate details too soon. Sure it can be casual (no sex) at first, while we get to know each other, but ultimately I am looking for a Long Term, Monogamous relationship. If that is not something you are looking for, it would probably be best if you moved along to the next person. It's not that I am anti-sex or a prude. I just want a relationship that is NOT based on sex. Because once your done with sex what is there? I want someone who I can talk about anything with, and who I know wants to be with ME, and not just for the physical aspects. I am shy at first but I talk A LOT once I get to know someone.I fully believe that intimacy and sex are a VERY important part of a healthy relationship. But I ALSO believe that the best foundation is a FRIENDSHIP,I'm looking long term here. I don't believe in that "; fairy tale :) but hey the Serf's can be so much more fun ;).My tastes in me tend to vary. But I tend to go for what my girlfriends back home call "tall, skinny, corn fed white boys" , another friend described my exes as "string beans" I love a guy with a good sense of humor, sarcasm is my second language, so if you can get that and deal We will be good :D. As you may see in my pictures I am a Fatchick. The main photo is my most recent, so it is the most honest view of me.;; Hardey look when out with my guy (joke) I know that for many that it is a turn off, I know for some it is a fetish (ummm I don't want to KNOW if it's a fetish) I am looking for someone who is comfortable with in himself that it doesnt' matter. I am working on changing it, but with my age and medical issues, its not that easy. I am working with a doctor in regards to it. A guy who likes to motivate and help with work outs would be a Bonus LOL . So I consider myself a B'more girl(although not a fan of seafood, however Md Blue Crabs steamed in Old Bay are a awesome treat) . (I bleed purple ; I pretty much listen to everything, (although the "Death Metal" and Hardcore Rap are not included in that, and we can scratch off the Polka music too. I am definitely an 80's hair band fan along with the R& Lets not forget the Celtic/meditation music. :D I am pretty easy going, but am pretty particular on who I date/go out with. I don't want anyone who is older than me or more than 10 yrs younger than me. Body type in guys..........Eminem small and "thin" or Dwayne *** the park or walking around. Talking and getting to know each other. I like to take things really slow, and HAVE to be friends with someone before I can even consider something more serious. I am not a "beach" gal but I do love camping (although I haven't tried it in Fl, kind of not wanting to with all the sand and fire ants) I actually camp in a tent. (but there has to be plumbing near by LOL) I like to attend sporting events (baseball and football)

  • Cressida

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I live in the city but would love to live in the country. I like to do alot of things from, lake trips, float trips, working out, mini golf, bowling, hiking, horse back riding, playing pool, tennis, cards, poker, camping, movies, dinner theater, comedy clubs, bonfires. The only thing I'm not really into is dancing. Right now I am trying to enjoy life. I am happy with myself but would like to find my best friend, to grow old with. I like to have something to look forward to in life whether it be a family gathering, someones birthday or a weekend to relax with nothing planned. I enjoy hanging out with friends and just picking up and taking off on a road trip to see what we find out there together. I am a total romantic and I love surprises. Send me a quick note and maybe we can start chatting..... I like to do crafts but dont always have time for that. On music, its mostly country for me. I have 2 great kids. I would like to find someone fun, interesting, and romantic. I am on here just trying to meet new people to hang out with and get to know and then see what happens next.... I'm not looking for someone to take care of me, I can do that. I am looking for someone to take care of my heart..... Still thinking about this one. Some where quiet were we can talk and get to know each other more. Maybe get some ice cream or frozen yogurt and take a walk. Around a lake would also me nice.

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