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Abegayle, 40

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About Me

I am looking for an old fashioned romance. I want an actual relationship, that starts out with actual DATES, going out, spending time getting to know each other (and they don't have to cost anything/a lot.Spending time with each other and actually TALK to each other, Let's not get into the intimate details too soon. Sure it can be casual (no sex) at first, while we get to know each other, but ultimately I am looking for a Long Term, Monogamous relationship. If that is not something you are looking for, it would probably be best if you moved along to the next person. It's not that I am anti-sex or a prude. I just want a relationship that is NOT based on sex. Because once your done with sex what is there? I want someone who I can talk about anything with, and who I know wants to be with ME, and not just for the physical aspects. I am shy at first but I talk A LOT once I get to know someone.I fully believe that intimacy and sex are a VERY important part of a healthy relationship. But I ALSO believe that the best foundation is a FRIENDSHIP,I'm looking long term here. I don't believe in that "; fairy tale :) but hey the Serf's can be so much more fun ;).My tastes in me tend to vary. But I tend to go for what my girlfriends back home call "tall, skinny, corn fed white boys" , another friend described my exes as "string beans" I love a guy with a good sense of humor, sarcasm is my second language, so if you can get that and deal We will be good :D. As you may see in my pictures I am a Fatchick. The main photo is my most recent, so it is the most honest view of me.;; Hardey look when out with my guy (joke) I know that for many that it is a turn off, I know for some it is a fetish (ummm I don't want to KNOW if it's a fetish) I am looking for someone who is comfortable with in himself that it doesnt' matter. I am working on changing it, but with my age and medical issues, its not that easy. I am working with a doctor in regards to it. A guy who likes to motivate and help with work outs would be a Bonus LOL . So I consider myself a B'more girl(although not a fan of seafood, however Md Blue Crabs steamed in Old Bay are a awesome treat) . (I bleed purple ; I pretty much listen to everything, (although the "Death Metal" and Hardcore Rap are not included in that, and we can scratch off the Polka music too. I am definitely an 80's hair band fan along with the R& Lets not forget the Celtic/meditation music. :D I am pretty easy going, but am pretty particular on who I date/go out with. I don't want anyone who is older than me or more than 10 yrs younger than me. Body type in guys..........Eminem small and "thin" or Dwayne *** the park or walking around. Talking and getting to know each other. I like to take things really slow, and HAVE to be friends with someone before I can even consider something more serious. I am not a "beach" gal but I do love camping (although I haven't tried it in Fl, kind of not wanting to with all the sand and fire ants) I actually camp in a tent. (but there has to be plumbing near by LOL) I like to attend sporting events (baseball and football)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for good conversation, good looks, warm heart, someone who is real and who values friendship and family, and should be á great kisser too! I don't know how much to say on my profile about myself because most men don't read it anyway- not on here. I am very motivated, have tried many things, enjoy spontaneity and love learning most of all. Right now I'm an RN and I work as an application analyst for the computer system used by nurses and doctors- the bedside wasnt for me anymore. Before I became a nurse, I got my Masters in Education and taught elementary school. Today I know quite a lot of ***If you're still reading this, and not bored or throwing up, you should message me! Not really sure what else to say here. I've read profiles that are short and others that are like novels, but in both cases it is really about getting to know someone from chatting and finding out if we have common interests. I love to have engaging conversation, I'm easy to get along with, have no interest in drama and am mostly looking for someone who can keep me engaged in friendly banter without feeling the need to ask for nondiscreet photos. If you feel like chatting, let's get started. :-)

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Sense of humor that will keep you on your toes and laughing. Don't need a man I want one who will take control of possible first date and plan something. We could 12 pack to a fishing hole or chop down a tree or stay in and cook while watching a movie. I say **** the cliche and look past the layers we have and get to know the center that makes you. I'm very out going and approachable love to meet new people in social settings. I have a great love for animals and work with them everyday. I'm a woman and pure tomboy and proud to be. I don't wear skimpy little outfits that teenagers shouldn't even wear. I act my age most of the time but I have no more responsiblities than an 18 year old. Want a man and beard is perfered but not deal breaker. I don't want a perfect man I want a man perfect for me. Bring on the one who could be so predictable to wear favorite shirt 3 days in a row. I want life long friend and partner who wonders what I'm doing when were not together. And I want a man who takes his woman camping and doesn't forget the beer. Are u out there??? Make it fun. Plan something wether it is 12 pack and baiting my hook even though I can or chopping down a tree. Play pool and I suck at it but always have fun. Road trip to anywhere out of city. Don't think a fancy dinner will do it. That's just too easy and actually boring. Let's go throw rocks and put lawnchairs in sand. Anything just take charge and plan something don't ask well what would you like to do. Say I have great idea let's go pick a spot and ice up a 12 pack one on one. I don't wear high heels ever and don't care that I'm into the simple things life has to offer that are never ending. Hope that sums it up for first date and makes someone out there smile.

  • Cressida

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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