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Tessa, 39

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About Me

My friends would describe me as very caring, giving, down to earth and sincere and I am definitely a nurturer at heart. I am pretty simple and little things make me happy. Things I enjoy: cooking, travel, grabbing a bite or drink with friends or seeing a show, or I'm just as happy staying in and curling up. Nothing wrong with good food, opening a bottle of vino and getting lost in conversation :) I am definitely outgoing and a people person, and tend to have more of a dry sarcastic sense of humor. Granted, you have to be able to laugh at yourself and definitely be silly at times. Hmmmm...what else? I really don't photograph well and have been told I look better in person so take that for what its worth. My pictures are all recent and I hope yours are too :). There will also be no misleading here so please know I am 3 years older and only changed it for search purposes only so I hopefully end up with younger matches contacting me. I look younger, act younger but am having a CRAZY influx of people in their late 50s/60s contacting me for some reason...lol! In all honesty, age is just a number, but if there is that much of a gap we are probably looking for different things. Looking for my best friend that I am wildly attracted to! Would love to meet a great guy. Someone nice, honest, trustworthy and easy to be with. A little old school is nice too. :) I don't want to sterotype or just list qualities out. Physical, mental, emotional, etc... Communication is key. Build a solid friendship and have mutual respect, and you're off to a good start :)PS While I truly appreciate the notes from far away burbs, I live and work in the heart of the city and do not have a car. Something simple, such as a drink or coffee.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Treena

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hello, Thank you for taking the time to check out my profile. I do appreciate your time and hope you will find something about my profile interesting.I am a single mom with a daughter that I take pride in being a good role model for her. Please understand I am a lady and please treat me that way. Any inappropriate questions or comments will not be answered. Have some class and I don’t tolerate that behavior from someone I don’t know.I work a lot, please don’t tell anyone, I work too much because it keeps my mind off not having someone to share the free time I would have.I am a very giving, honest, caring, patient, and sensual person…everyone has their limits though. I don’t like selfish or self centered people in my life, had that in my life and that did not work.My daughter and I have been through a lot in the past 2 years. I had a horrible medical situation and went blind. Miracles do happen and after 5 surgeries, I am almost good as new. It was an impressive process to be in a research and experimental program that is now saving the sight of children. I owe my life to God and the surgeon that took a chance to give me my life back. Through this process, I found out what my family and some friends were about. It was extremely sad. And very sad to say good bye to those people during that trying time. (Again, not into selfish and self centered people).My daughter and I do a lot of traveling, gardening, pool in the summer, and of course maintaining our animals. We have built a very full life..I am just missing that one piece…someone for me to spend time with.Hope it may be you!Please understand that I am a woman of God and I am on here for dating purposes and to hopefully find some new friends...maybe more.I am not looking for someone to text, no ***, no games.Only connect if you are interested to get to know one another!Hopefully we can meet soon!

  • Keelan

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    PLEASE READ ALL BEFORE U RESPOND!I absolutely love summertime activities! I enjoy the water wether it be at the beach or on a boat. There is something about laying in the sun, getting a real tan (sorry, I don't fake & bake) then jumping in the water to cool off! I like bbq's, bon fires, rollerblading, riding horses, frisbee in the park...I love to dance, slow being my favorite but also like line dances and would luv to learn faster paced such as west coast swing. My music choices vary from country to rock & roll to hip hop. I enjoy live bands and acoustic performers. I stay away from any heavy metal, rap, opera.I like cooking meals together, family dinners, sit down restaurants, candle light dinners.Im not a city girl so any drive in traffic will be done by you! LOLThis woman is not perfect! I don't have a perfect body, perfect upbringing, perfect teeth, I am not Barbie! SO, if you think your Ken, move on!Hoping to go back to school one day although I'm unsure of what I really want to do in the end. Presently I work in the health care field and love the patients I work with. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND, A PLAY DATE, SEX ONLY, ETC!I am compassionate, loving, faithful, bold, spontaneous, fun.In the past I've had pleasure of meeting a lot of people. As critical as it sounds I know what kind of person I am compatible with so if you don't meet the criteria, please don't waste your time or mine.I am looking for a man that is over 5'10, ***lbs+ (no more than 30 lbs overweight, I like big guys, caucasian, stay away skinny guys!), If u can't give me a piggy back ride then move on. I really like teddy bear kinda guy cause I luv to cuddle, somewhere around my age (no more than 10 years older),, if you have hair, great, if not, fine.. but please guys, don't try to hang on to what little u have or try combing it over. No hippies, long hair, etc. Men should look like men & not have to wonder from behind. That shows major self confidence issues and I'm no therapist so I can't fix U.***! & I don't want to hear your radio thumping down the street), doesn't have anger issues, no family drama, no lingering women waiting on the sidelines, has no commitment issues (doesn't play games), likes to cuddle and cook dinners together, has confidence & values, kissable, is sexual and isn't afraid to be affectionate in public. Say what you mean and mean what you say! OH, and u must be a good kisser!I understand that there are few men in this category and I'm sorry that I am a bit critical but I'm just trying to weed out those I know I will not be able to tolerate and I know whom Im attracted too and not.I am looking for friendship, a lover, a companion. My mate will be respectful of my children and able to do family activities on occasion but also want adult time.I do not want to communicate via endless ***, text messages, etc.Im hoping to meet someone that will give me reason to delete this profile. (I had my profile hidden for a little while, was getting too many unwanted responses and thought I met someone that had potential, so now I am UN-hiding it with hopes of better luck this time around) Please don't get offended if u send me mail and I don't respond, this simply means that I see no physical attraction or I have no interest. Thank you, and have a great day and good luck in ur search! Our first meeting would involve conversation getting to know each other. We could stroll in a park or talk over a dinner. Either way, there has to be some communication!

  • Denisha

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a 40 year old woman enjoying life and I'm looking for the right person to enjoy it with me- but I'm in no hurry. I have a son and a grandson, great friends and family. I enjoy camping, boating, fishing, swimming, nature, sporting events, hiking, grilling out, concerts, the beach and traveling to anywhere warm. A night out on the town once in a while is always a good time. I love taking off for the day or weekend to anywhere. I would also like to experience new things, any ideas? I do like motorcycles and would like to try that out sometime! Go Blue! I have an established career and have worked for the same employer for 20 years. I want to laugh, live life and be in love with my best friend. I'm a bit shy at first but that doesn't last too long! I have nice legs and beautiful blue eyes. I'm strong willed and independent but I'm a sweetheart and when I love someone I give them my all.

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