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Abegayle, 37

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About Me

So let me get some unpleasantries out of the way... If you send a note that says, hottie or how you doin... I'm probably hitting delete and keep it moving. And if your holding your catch or kill of the day I'm probably not the one for you I feel like I am ready to meet someone worth my time. I figure trying this is worth my time and if it brings me to meet new people so be it. I love to be busy but I am also a self professed couch potato...love photography-any kind and I volunteer in my sparetime. I wish I could sleep in more but it seems I am up at the slightest stir, lol I am a snuggler or a cuddler, with the right oneAnd one other request:Mess up my lipstick but not my mascara I need to update this to say I am looking for someone who can make me smile feel great and laugh. Be easy on my eyes and adore me as I do him. Chemistry is so very important. I will know it when I see it so I am not giving up. I have been lucky in love before and only deserve the best a man has to offer as that is what I am prepared for. So a first date will depend on all that first . Intuition is gods greatest gift and please do not be offended if I do not write back . I am looking for the right person for me and just won't settle,,,

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Alesha

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im an out goin person who loves the out doors i am the sweetest person u will ever meet and i have the biggest heart til ya gross me wrong

  • Rickie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I was a little hesitant to join this site, but a friend talked me into joining. I'm one of those people who always said they didn't have time to date. But I've come to realize I actually was. I was busy being a parent. Not that I'm done being a parent, because you never really are, but I am finally to try dating again. I would like to eventually find someone for the long haul. Please don't let that scare you. It must start off as friends first, and if it goes somewhere, then great! I love to see live music. Occasionally I'll still go out to see a band in bar or club. My music taste is all over the place. I pretty much listen to everything. My i- Everything but rap - I just can't get into it. I have recently gone back to school to get a Paralegal degree, and will be finished in May. YAY!And yes, I know this section is vague but if you get to know me you'll realize how great I am! :) Honestly, it's been so long since I've had a first date, I don't even know. I think it should be somewhere where we can talk. Doesn't have to be dinner. Definitely not a movie. Somewhere we both mutually agree on.

  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Why write these yourself when your friends know you the best? After all, I can say all I want about myself to dress this (awesome) package up, but it's what others notice that is the key... Here's a few lines a great - and objective - friend fired off:"Urban achiever who enjoys cooking and immature adult cartoons seeks funny laid-back drinking buddy with a full-time job."I took slight offense at the "achiever" part, because - I don't see myself as one; I'm not particularly ambitious, but I do enjoy the life I have made for myself. Another, variation on the theme:"Laid-"A bit closer. Though, I'm noting a theme with "drinking." Oh, and add to that "enjoys bowling" (I'm in a Sunday night league with my dad).One more effort:"East coast transplant seeks funny man to enjoy the city, sports, and #" (She means The Flying Saucer.)Again, what with the drinking thing? Regarding the 'east coast' thing... My soul is still there, as is a good deal of my personality. I do miss it.Do I like music? Yes, but I'm no audiophile. I listen mostly for the mood, when the mood strikes, and often don't catch on to lyrics until many years later, making a fool of myself in the meantime. Why am I unique? (See how I'm answering all the questions? Such a good girl..) I'm unique because I have no kids, am damn sexy, and don't feel the need to be something other than who I am. I don't know yet exactly what I want, but I know that I am NOT looking to jump into a long-term relationship straight off. I want to figure it out as I go, knowing that when it's right, it's right. When it's not? Well, maybe we can be friends. If not, that's okay too.If I haven't completely put you off, feel free to shoot me a line, if only to hang out and see what happens. A first date should neither feel like a job interview, nor should it reek of desperation. Let's just meet. Go to coffee, or a casual dinner. Sure, I like to get gussied up every now and then, but that's not how people - at least not me - live every day. It's important to show who you really are, not hide behind some idea of what a perfect impression is. Everyone has their faults, and everyone is super-critical of themselves. Just meet, and have fun. No pressure.

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