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Clare, 37

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About Me

I hate writing about myself. The basics are that I am a car salesperson and I have a 3yr old. She is not adopted, just a crazy beautiful mix. I am looking to find that special someone to treat me the way I treat them. I just got out of a 7yr relationship with a person who does not know who they are and wants to revisit their 20's. I loved my 20's, but I am also loving my 30's!!! Being an adult with responsibilities and showing a child how to be the same is an amazing journey. It's also a blessing to live each day to its fullest and create a future worth being in.My life is currently very busy. I am not always the easiest person to love, but I am worth it. I prefer snuggling on the couch to running around town at night. Don't get me wrong, I like going out even if it's a drive to nowhere. I am very curious about the world and why people are the way they are and do what they do. I just work a lot of hours and don't want to miss time with my daughter anymore than I have to. She is my world and first priority always.I like trying all sorts of food. I love cooking when I have time, but I can never make the exact same thing twice. I have been accused of over seasoning things, but usually it all works great.Music is open to mood. Everything except opera. Country that makes you want to sing or drive fast, rock that gets you pumped, obscure things like Consolodated (points if you've ever heard one of their songs and can tell me why it's awesome), Ska, pop, etc.Movies are Reality Bites, Mary Poppins, Much Ado About Nothing, Puff The Magic Dragon, Broke Down Palace (makes me cry everytime), and The Secret Garden.Tv show choices are goofy that allow me to stop my brain for a minute or so.My perfect match is someone true to themselves and to others. I need someone with a strong personality as I can be a bit bullheaded. I know who I am and I am still a work in progress to become the best me possible. I am in search of someone who wants to walk and laugh with me at all the silliness in the world and has the discipline to move forward with grace and dignity.Update: I have been on dating sites for about 2 months now and I'm finding that very few understand. I am not looking for play toys, those are easy. I need to be able to have a conversation with you about anything and everything. You have to be in the same place in life that I am. Meaning your own place, a job, and your own vehicle. I don't want someone to "complete me" or take care of me, so I have no intention of the reverse. I am a big girl. I have a grape head on a watermelon body but I don't have to shop at specially stores!! I like heels so I don't want to tower over you.So many out there are looking for the super model who won't use or abuse them. NOT happening!!! I have never been the girl you see and want, I am always the girl you get to know and eventually want. I like cuddly guys who can keep up with me mentally and allow me to feel protected even though I can handle anything life throws at me. I am very smart and capable when it come to anything except directions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am independent. I own my house,own car and a decent job.I don't need a man,I want a man. I am looking for someone who is fun, loving caring and respectful.if you are looking for a one night stand keep it moving....you are going to have to be something special to sweep me off my feet and actions speak louder than words. Please don't ask me to chill or meet at a bar on the first date. ................................................................................................................................

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am 39 yrs old and have spent the last several years focusing on my career and my children. I think I am now ready to find that special someone to share my life with. I am a big family person and spend alot of my time doing things with the kids but since they are all getting older now I have more free time to focus on a relationship. I have a 19 yr old boy who just moved out on his own and I have 2 girls 16 and 13. I am looking for someone who is honest, faithful and ready for a relationship.

  • Denyse

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Sometimes I wonder if people actually read my profile to the end....Ok... So I'm a bit selective and even after meeting a few "not mr. right", I have not lost my faith in humanity! Life has funny ways to bring people together that are compatible and/or "meant to be". I have many great qualities, I know I'm not perfect and have much to learn, but I'm willing to try. I don't want to waste my time or anyone else's time either. If I have added you as a favorite and did not send a message, it's because I wasn't able to and would like to get to know you. If not possible to chat here you can add my Id on yahoo messenger.It’s hard to talk about yourself on the internet, but here we go... Friendship is a good place to start and build from there…A good friend of mine told me this...everybody has defects, nobody is perfect... you have to find the person that you are able to live with their defects...everybody comes in a package, in various shapes, colors and sizes...And if you are able to accept that person the way that they are... then you will have the perfect person for you...I'm a city girl that loves the country life. I love the outdoors, enjoy nature and everything it has to offer. As you can see above I have many hobbies, interests and things I enjoy doing or would like to try and explore. It does not mean that I’m good at most of them, but I do enjoy doing activities or would like to learn more about them and try it.Although I enjoy going out, doing things and keeping busy, I am a laid back easy going person and enjoy staying in and relaxing at times. I'm a big hearted, caring and affectionate person and I like to make people laugh. Smiles are contagious. Treat others how you want to be treated. I've learned to appreciate life and people for the little things. I hope to find someone to grow old with, but I'm not in a hurry. It might be here or somewhere else… you never know… Love happens when you are least expecting. I also have old fashioned values and appreciate chivalry. I am a Christian and I'm not looking for a religious fanatic, but someone that makes time for the Lord in their lives . And talking about church… I am involved in volunteering and participating in church activities. It would be nice to have someone that would enjoy participating in activities with me, and not just someonhat is sitting next to me warming up the. seat, but is there because it’s what they also believe inFamily values are very important to me. Although I don’t have kids of my own, I love them. Spending time with family and friends is also very important, not just mine, but yours and ours. I am who I am, and believe I should not change for anybody. There is so much more to me than what I can express in this profile.… lol something must have caught your attention. If any of this sounds good to you, or you have any questions and would like to chat sometime and see where it goes, don’t be scared … I don’t bite very hard… lol Thanks for reading and have a great day! Good luck everybody! Meet for a cup of coffee somewhere quiet to talk and get the awkwardness out of the way. Then if things go well, we can decide together what to do next!

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