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Cathey, 39

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About Me

I have a happy life with family who love me and friends who would do anything for me. I like to stay busy and am almost never bored. I love to laugh and do it as often as possible. The single life has not been at all bad, but recently I have found myself craving something more. I wish for someone special to be with me trekking new territories, sharing history and making life an all-out blast! I joined this site with the hopes of finding my someone special. While I do love to travel, see and do new things, explore and absorb as much as the world may have to offer, I am not a party girl, bar hopper, or stay-out-all-night-raising-hell kind of girl. From time to time, I may join friends in watching a mutual friend's band play at a local pub. I'm not a complete stick in the mud, and I love letting my hair down, but I don't go to these type places in search of my next date. I'm hoping this site has more to offer than the local pub. I truly do want to meet someone who is interested in being in a committed relationship when the time is right. I am not looking for a pen pal, text buddy, or *** you contact me, please have intentions of eventually calling and meeting face to face. I'm a snuggling, cuddling, come get a little closer while watching tv kind of girl... A hand holding, whispering in your ear, sneaking a kiss in public type of girl... I am affectionate and I encourage the same. I am not, however, a space invader, and know when it is or isn't an appropriate time for such actions ...so guys, you can now let out that breath you've been holding since you started reading this paragraph ;) I am a devoted mother, but an empty nester. My eighteen year old daughter moved in with her dad two years ago. While we have an unconditional love for each other, there just seems to be so many more things higher on the list than hanging with her parents these days (go figure!). Needless to say, I have had A LOT of idle time on my hands. I returned to school (almost finished! yippee!) while working a full time job, took up a few new hobbies, redesigned parts of my house, and then realized I STILL have a lot of time on my hands. Sooooo.... let's go find something to get into!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elsy

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Like everyone, I work a lot of hours which makes it difficult to meet someone. I'm in retail and if you're not familiar, it's not a 9 to 5, M-F job. My hours and days off vary. In my spare time, I meet friends for dinner or a day out at a local park, beach or outdoor venue. I like to try new things, love to travel and enjoy live music of all kinds. I'm looking for someone with a great sense of humor, fun and adventurous, caring and compassionate, still loves to dream and has hope for themselves and humanity, someone who can leave the past in the past - grow from it and move on. He's a communicator, listener, understands that I don't need him to solve my problems, pay my bills or all of his time. What I do need is his attention, communication, affection - to feel important and wanted. I'm not looking for perfect - just perfect for me. I accept flaws and expect them just as he should from me. My heart is huge and I have a lot of love to give. My life's complex and is a rollercoaster ride, but I choose to raise my arms up high and enjoy the ride. If you're married, please go home to your wife. If you're only interested in a one night stand, go downtown - around 2:30am easy pickins! If you're in your 20s, find yourself a nice girl YOUR age and enjoy! :oPApparently in my pics, I look bitc*y. I had braces for years, so I don't smile a ton. I'm like an m n m - hard on the outside, sugar sweet on the inside. LMAO!

  • Hertha

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Looking for someone to spend time with. Lets get to know each other, become friends, see what happens. I would love to find that special someone eventually, but I'm in no rush. Must be very open-minded. If you don't figure out the reason on your own, you will be enlightened.....eventually. I love learning about new things: cultures, places, history, food. Music is a big factor in my life and I attend many concerts and shows throughout the year. Heavier metal and rock appeal to me the most but I don't limit myself to that. However, I dislike country and rap (and all its genres with a passion) I don't have any hobbies but I do love to read. I would really like to meet someone that will introduce me to doing and learning new things.Just as a side note, I do not date, nor am I interested in African American men. Its just my preference. P.S. Bald, tattoos, foreign accent, anyone that works in law enforcement, all plusses. This is random stuff I like all meant in fun (although true) but definitely not requirements.Pet peeves: people that don't take the time to read profiles, posting pics of 1. you with some sort of dead animal, 2.your dog,3. your car,4. your house, 5. your kids. Starting conversations with some sort of inappropriate comment, using your *** you're, grammar and spelling errors, not using punctuation.Ok, these are must haves:Your own place to live, Mom & Dad's house does not countCar, don't even bother if you don't have your own vehicle or can't drive, I don't care what the reason isJob, as in employed, you receive a paycheckNo criminal record, once again I don't care what the reason is/was or how long agoI know everyone says this, men included, but don't bring your drama and I won't bring mineMaybe my standards are too high, but I know what I want and what I don't. I know what works for me. Also, if you don't like slightly larger women please pass me by. I put up all these preferences so we don't waste each others time, so really I'm doing us both a favor. Nothing irritates me more than talking with someone for weeks, finally meeting, and then never hearing from them again. I wish you all good luck in whatever it is you're looking for. Dinner and a nice place to talk? Maybe you're more creative and interesting than me, I look forward to meeting you.

  • Thelma

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hello, I'm Amy Shedeed. I'm the type of woman, who likes too cook, camping, traveling, being outdoors, animals, motorcycles being around people and making them laugh. I'm very caring, outgoing, have a good personality with a good since of humor. I am not the type of person who likes fancy things, I would just rather go to a movie and eat a burger & fry.

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