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Carmelia, 40

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About Me

If you can't handle a girl that can be the biggest redneck around, get dirty (mud that is), work on her own car (yes i get help sometimes), admits her faults, sweet and funny as the day is long...yet can be a bear if you make me mad, and be as elegant as a princess....then I'm not for you. If you are still reading this and up for a challenge...contact me. I live life to the fullest. I work hard and play harder. Im easy going and love to laugh. I have my kids at home with me so if you aren't worthy of being around kids then don't bother talking to me. They always have and always will be 1st in my life. Im looking for someone to make me happy. Im a simple person but do love to have fun. Im a very busy person but do make time for the right person. I absolutely hate "drama". I dont trust people too easy, so dont take offense if I question you. Anything else? Just ask... surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Irmalinda

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm looking for my best friend, that person that I want to be around often, think about when they're not near and want to share myself with. I'm not in a rush to find this man and friends made along the way are great but that is my ultimate goal and I'm not willing to settle. I am an independent, responsible, creative single mother of 1 daughter. She is very important, of course, and is a main focal point in my life. I know how to balance my grownup time with family time and I hope you do too. I am very honest and reliable and am looking for the same in a man. Knowing what direction your life is going, goals and the drive to fulfill them is very attractive. I am a pretty serious person but love to have fun. Dancing, day-trips, camping, live bands, movies, shopping, anything that will get me out of the house and having fun, laughing and spending time with those I enjoy most. I love surprises (the good kind) and me not having to make all the decisions and plans makes me feel apart of something *** the ring leader. I have tattoos and I like tattoos. My tattoos are my designs and are for me only; they are only visible if I want them to be. I am an artist but I don't have much time to work at it anymore...hopeful for the future though. I love to read, my Kindle is always nearby. I love all music, just depends on my mood. 80's are my favorite; Def Leppard, Blonde...but anything from heavy metal to country can get me singing, probably off key too. He actually asks questions and makes comment contributing to the conversation. Genuinely is interested in my responses. Has a great sense of humor and laughs freely. Is open, creative, responsive and fun and/or romantic. Let's the date unfold naturally *** forcing, rushing or pressuring.

  • Akiko

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have a career, goals, and a good direction on life. I'm a busy person, but I can make time to date, if you can't please don't waste my time. Also, know what you want and be honest about that. I don't have drama, and am not looking to deal with any either. Now, with that being said, I like to have fun-joke around alot, have a bit of a sarcastic wit, and don't take things too seriously. I have a wide range of interests, and am up for trying new things. If you would like to know more, send me a message. something casual and low-key, keep it simple with conversation

  • Bethel

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a counselor, corporate trainer, poet, artist, hypnotherapist, dream analyst, life coach, substance abuse professional, and a dear friend to many, many people - I guess I know enough to be DANGEROUS I suppose. Don't we all???? Truth be told, aren't we all a little crazy?? There's a fine line between genuis and insanity. LOL. Lots of EXCITING things happening in my life right now, but I still find time to date somehow. I'm a prolific reader and writer. Working on getting two books published before the end of the year. First one is coming out in October probably - called "Get Busy Living: The Art of Getting Unstuck" . Also publishing my poetry collection (over ***written) before the end of the year - It is called "Persephone Rising" (my mythological hero) and I'm just picking out the best ones for publication. Don't be fooled though or intimated -- I don't know a stranger and can talk to anyone about anything and everything. People always tell me how comfortable they feel around me and relaxed. That's the counselor in me I suppose - but I'd like to think it's just the intentional act of being kind and decent to other human beings who are not that different from me really. I'm a secure and busy woman who can STILL find time to spend with people who are important to me. I am looking for someone who can hold a good conversation and is stable and kind. I really enjoy lengthy conversations over a glass of wine or some coffee. Every ONE of us has a STORY, and I would love to hear YOURS! Reciprocation is nice in relationships and I would like to find that. I am looking for a good friendship to start because I think that's the foundation of anything that's worth having. I'd be happy to make some new friends even if not interested in something more. Either way, I will be honest with you. I promise you that. I've learned that happiness in life sometimes looks very different from the way we imagined or planned it out, and it can be even better than the plans we laid out. Kind of ironic. I prefer to meet people face to face sooner vs. later. If you can't have a good conversation in person, what's the point really. Send me a note . . . we'll talk more.Have a nice day :-- don't even need a destination, I just follow my intuitive map...get in the car and drive - sometimes I end up in the next town and sometimes in another state - Central and Rock. Haven't been there with a guy yet - that's usually my girls night out (grin)

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