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Benjamina, 39

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About Me

Been on my own over 15 yrs now, kids are older, I now have more of "me" time (One graduated University, other doing ***semester victory lap at high school)Thinking men are more drama than women.....hmmmmmLooking for someone to complement my life not complicate it!!!! Can get the drama from TV...Look great in that little black dress..but the jeans fit just as nice!!!I have two handsome boys that will always be the special "men" in my life. Time flies, one recent University grad and one in high schoolI enjoy working out, my partner needs not to be in to fitness, must understand and appreciate my passion for it. Like to do anything outdoors in the warm (no lets say hot) weather. Prefer the warmer weather, however, more excuses to cuddle in the cold....Enjoy nights out on the town, can also appreciate the quiet nights at home with a glass of red wine (sometimes turns into a bottle or two...only with good company) oh and this girl can appreciate a nice cold beer.. Thoroughly enjoy a good sense of humor, laughter and communication. What you see is what you get king of gal.....My motto...."Go with the flow". I don't sweat the small things, very easy going....(not a drama queen, I think that is what she's called)Looking for someone who has goals and values and knows what they want in life and ready to tackle with a strong, humorous, independent woman.(Laughter and friendship are key to surviving the roller coaster of a relationship).Love to watch all sports, playing is better...GO STEELERS!Enjoy walks (never boring can talk about anything) and being in the kitchen...we can swap secret family recipes........always up to learn something new...only have to be shown once.......yep....I am willing to lie about how we met!....Sorry, I won't respond if you don't have photos (you can always send some along with your message if you don't like to post them up.)Great quote: Everyone you meet comes with baggage, find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack! We can decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Euna

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Ugh. I think I've given up!1.) If you understand what i mean, then you know how difficult dating can be. I always thought I had a good sense about myself and what I want out of life...but dating at this age seems to make one second guess their "list".2.) What????? You bought me a drink, an appetizer, let me sit on your couch, or NONE of the above... But, you think I should put out that same night??? Go F**k Yourself! LITERALLY!!!!Despite that, I have decided to try again and stick to believing in myself because, if you don't like me as I am now... You won't in two months either---And it's an inevitable thing. If you choose to *** signs in the beginning, it's no one else's fault-but yours, so be an adult and date properly! Be upfront, real, honest, and open to new ideas...you never know what opportunities you might miss out on! Laughing---So, So, So Important! Laugh at yourself, Laugh with others, heck....laugh AT others! I can't think of a better feeling than pure belly-aching laughs. (No need to be smart and try to come back with what ya'll are thinking about saying after that last statement....we all have dirty minds, but try to refrain.)I am up for adventure, but also like my "me time". With that said, you can't be the type to get butt-hurt when I actually say, go party without me. YES, I said PARTY WITHOUT ME!! I'm confident enough to say, "Dude, I need some space...so go get stupid with your boys!" Lol! How else will we ever know how to trust someone, if we don't give them the rope? I just see things differently than most... And I'm rather fond of those ways. No one loves a stage ten clinger, anyhow! Be just as confident and we will get along great!I am sarcastic, witty, and intelligent. My job is extremely relevant to these qualities and it's what feeds my bank. You will be needed for intellectual stimulation, because conversations are very much a part of the pie.Consider this as well; I'm here to meet people... Which means I'm dating. I can not possibly date every day- nor would I want to. Have some patience people... I like to take my time getting to know someone. I don't like to make a habit of ***, so I always try my best to respond... But, if you're gonna get pissy about it- use your strength to find someone else. We clearly aren't a match!More than anything, I want a friend to workout with and go riding when it isn't freezing! If you want to know more, then use the little button at the bottom that says, "send message". If you're rude, expect the same. If you're awesome, expect the same.

  • Macie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I have a lot to say, but I would prefer tell you.

  • Irmalinda

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm looking for my best friend, that person that I want to be around often, think about when they're not near and want to share myself with. I'm not in a rush to find this man and friends made along the way are great but that is my ultimate goal and I'm not willing to settle. I am an independent, responsible, creative single mother of 1 daughter. She is very important, of course, and is a main focal point in my life. I know how to balance my grownup time with family time and I hope you do too. I am very honest and reliable and am looking for the same in a man. Knowing what direction your life is going, goals and the drive to fulfill them is very attractive. I am a pretty serious person but love to have fun. Dancing, day-trips, camping, live bands, movies, shopping, anything that will get me out of the house and having fun, laughing and spending time with those I enjoy most. I love surprises (the good kind) and me not having to make all the decisions and plans makes me feel apart of something *** the ring leader. I have tattoos and I like tattoos. My tattoos are my designs and are for me only; they are only visible if I want them to be. I am an artist but I don't have much time to work at it anymore...hopeful for the future though. I love to read, my Kindle is always nearby. I love all music, just depends on my mood. 80's are my favorite; Def Leppard, Blonde...but anything from heavy metal to country can get me singing, probably off key too. He actually asks questions and makes comment contributing to the conversation. Genuinely is interested in my responses. Has a great sense of humor and laughs freely. Is open, creative, responsive and fun and/or romantic. Let's the date unfold naturally *** forcing, rushing or pressuring.

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