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Benjamina, 39

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About Me

Been on my own over 15 yrs now, kids are older, I now have more of "me" time (One graduated University, other doing ***semester victory lap at high school)Thinking men are more drama than women.....hmmmmmLooking for someone to complement my life not complicate it!!!! Can get the drama from TV...Look great in that little black dress..but the jeans fit just as nice!!!I have two handsome boys that will always be the special "men" in my life. Time flies, one recent University grad and one in high schoolI enjoy working out, my partner needs not to be in to fitness, must understand and appreciate my passion for it. Like to do anything outdoors in the warm (no lets say hot) weather. Prefer the warmer weather, however, more excuses to cuddle in the cold....Enjoy nights out on the town, can also appreciate the quiet nights at home with a glass of red wine (sometimes turns into a bottle or two...only with good company) oh and this girl can appreciate a nice cold beer.. Thoroughly enjoy a good sense of humor, laughter and communication. What you see is what you get king of gal.....My motto...."Go with the flow". I don't sweat the small things, very easy going....(not a drama queen, I think that is what she's called)Looking for someone who has goals and values and knows what they want in life and ready to tackle with a strong, humorous, independent woman.(Laughter and friendship are key to surviving the roller coaster of a relationship).Love to watch all sports, playing is better...GO STEELERS!Enjoy walks (never boring can talk about anything) and being in the kitchen...we can swap secret family recipes........always up to learn something new...only have to be shown once.......yep....I am willing to lie about how we met!....Sorry, I won't respond if you don't have photos (you can always send some along with your message if you don't like to post them up.)Great quote: Everyone you meet comes with baggage, find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack! We can decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Autumn

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    1. 2. I'm very passionate over anyone I care about friend or family. I do have a sense of humor and I love to laugh and I don't even mind if its at my expense sometime because I can make fun of myself just to make someone laugh.3. But I have no problems calling you on your bs because that is something I don't stand for in life or in general I don't care who you are or who you think you are.4. I don't want to play games and i do have the energy for them im looking for something real because I'm too old and anything less than real its just not acceptable Whether it be friendship or something romantic.5. I know what I like and what I don't, trust me I can have an opinion for the both of us with that being said I need someone strong enough to handle me and put me in my place when I need it and someone just to let me get my way when it's called for I don't want someone that is a pushover because I will eat you for lunch I have a strong personality and I need someone that can handle that and still be a loving caring person. 6. I know there are guys out there that think they look good and all I have to say this because I'm putting it all out there I am very picky and I know it's not all about looks but you have to be attracted to someone in order to want to know more so please just because you think I may be cute or funny or whatever the cases don't expect me to respond or talk to you just because you send me a message you just may not be my type and I'm not going to get your hopes up or waste my time.7. And finally remember guys what's good for the goose is good for the gander tit for tat and all that and if this was a guy saying all the stuff you would be patting him on the back saying yeah tell her like it is, well if you're that guy we wouldn't get along anyways because I believe in equality have a great day.

  • Joanne

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I don't really know where to start, since this is my first time on a dating site. My friends describe me as loving, caring funny and just someone who loves to laugh. However, I am a bit shy and quiet at first, but once I'm comfortable with you, I'm very outgoing and fun! I am an extremely honest person who expects no less in return. If you have issues with being truthful and forthcoming, I'm probably not the girl for you. I love to dance, read, go to the movies (but must have popcorn with extra butter) and sit at home and snuggle in front of the tv. I love my friends but don't have a whole lot of them . I have a few close friends that mean the world to me. I'm not one for needing a lot of acquaintances and phone numbers. My family is my top priority. I have four children that are my life and I need someone that is comfortable with that, and willing to be part of our little group :) I am still good friends with my ex husband. There is nothing more there than just friendship, if there was, I wouldn't be divorced. So the man that is with me, needs to be comfortable with himself to not make it a big thing. I don't have time for drama, crazy ex's and secrets. I understand everyone has baggage, and if your honest about your past and baggage, we will ok. Thank you for reading my profile :)

  • Luanna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I have a great group of friends that I adore and a family I value very much. One of things I am missing in my life is a partner to share it with. I am looking for someone who is genuine, trustworthy, hard-working, likes to have fun, and doesn't take himself too seriously. I am actively looking for someone to date and not just text or chat online.I am a very driven person in all aspects of my life. Running is a strong passion of mine. That doesn't mean you have to run too. I hope that there is something you enjoy doing and that I can support you in your passions just as you support me in mine. It is important to have goals in life and continually work to accomplish them, but it is just as important to have fun. Something casual like a quick dinner or drink after work. Mexican food or happy hours tend to work well for first meetings. I try to stay away from coffee dates since they always end up feeling like business meetings.

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