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Gweneth, 40
United States, Georgia, Ellijay

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So here it goes. I hate talking about myself unless I really get to know someone then I talk all the time. Well a little about me. I am a single mom of two kids a boy age 18 and a girl age 13. I been divorced for 13 years. I would like to find that person that is just for me. I am down to earth, loyal, stubborn, logical, independent and stressed most of the time. I wouldn't think that it would be this hard to find a relationship at my age, but finding out it is. So I'm going to go into a bit more detail here to let you guys know about me. I am not currently working due to some health problems. So NO as of right now I am not financially secure. NO I am not looking for someone to take care of me financially. YES I would like to find someone who would care about me and my children enough to help out if need be. Due to the health problems and financial struggles I tend to not go many places. I feel that if I can't take my children out for a night on the town then I don't deserve one either. It's not that I don't like to go out or take the kids out for a fun filled day of bowling, food, the lake, roller skating, the movies etc. sometimes (most of the time) there just isn't enough funds to do so after we take care of the bills and groceries. I know this mentality is strange to some, but would much rather have my children be able to go to the movies with their friends, participate in sports, and all that other stuff that kids like to do. I don't expect anyone to take care of me. I have done ok up to now and will be fine again. Of course if I would happen to find the right person I wouldn't mind sharing our struggles and accomplishments together. Working, helping, sharing, loving, and just overall caring for one another is what is important. I just turned 40 and I am looking at it as if this will be the best decade yet. I have decided to go back to school to get my Bachelors degree and I am currently in the process of completing that. I am looking for someone honest, mature, and would like to expand their family to include us. I have played mom and dad for 13 years and I would like to find the one man that would include all of us, not just one of us. If this sounds like something that you are interested in please message me back, I would like to get to know you. I currently don't have a cell phone so all communication will have to be through messages and eventually by phone.Going into any relationship I just didn't want you all to think that is all I want from you because that is the furthest from my mind, I am looking for a man that wants to be with me for me, not for what either one of us has. Who cares what we have, money and possessions - none of that is important it's nice but you don't need to have that to be happy. I could be the poorest person on earth and it doesn't matter because Love in your life is more important than gold or silver.In short, I take care of what I need to, care about my family and friends and will help them out. I think that the basis for any relationship is truth, honesty, caring about the other, and being loyal. Communication and just spending time together is good for me. I don't need anything fancy sure I have my dreams and continue to reach for them and maybe one day they will come true but for right now all is good, I am just looking for that special guy that will love me and my children to take care of me on my bad days and will help me enjoy the good days. I want someone who will be active in our lives. I understand that work comes first but I just want someone that would love to go to my kids games, have fun with the family and just has a HUGE LOVING heart.Questions go ahead and ask I will be honest from the start. If I sound interesting drop me an *** like first dates that we can get together talk and just get to know each other. Nothing fancy, just not a fancy type of person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Rock American English Indian Irish Sport War Snowboarding
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