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Elsy, 40

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About Me

Like everyone, I work a lot of hours which makes it difficult to meet someone. I'm in retail and if you're not familiar, it's not a 9 to 5, M-F job. My hours and days off vary. In my spare time, I meet friends for dinner or a day out at a local park, beach or outdoor venue. I like to try new things, love to travel and enjoy live music of all kinds. I'm looking for someone with a great sense of humor, fun and adventurous, caring and compassionate, still loves to dream and has hope for themselves and humanity, someone who can leave the past in the past - grow from it and move on. He's a communicator, listener, understands that I don't need him to solve my problems, pay my bills or all of his time. What I do need is his attention, communication, affection - to feel important and wanted. I'm not looking for perfect - just perfect for me. I accept flaws and expect them just as he should from me. My heart is huge and I have a lot of love to give. My life's complex and is a rollercoaster ride, but I choose to raise my arms up high and enjoy the ride. If you're married, please go home to your wife. If you're only interested in a one night stand, go downtown - around 2:30am easy pickins! If you're in your 20s, find yourself a nice girl YOUR age and enjoy! :oPApparently in my pics, I look bitc*y. I had braces for years, so I don't smile a ton. I'm like an m n m - hard on the outside, sugar sweet on the inside. LMAO!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dwana

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I have met a few "characters" on here, so please understand that I do not want to date or talk with you if you choose to be a liar, cheater, don't have a job, or tend to hide details about your life. I don't want a friend with benefits. I have more respect for myself than that. I am open and honest, direct and expect the same. I expect you to be able to communicate your present, past and future. Without communication there is only assumption and we know what that begins with ;)Some days I just want to sit at home and watch movies with that special someone and cuddle. I love to travel especially to new countries and take unexpected road trips. I am a very open person that is always open to new things. I don't want to disclose everything about myself here, then we wouldn't have anything left to talk about :)I am looking for someone who can be my one and only, partner in adventures, and my best friend. I want someone who can make me laugh, that is passionate in their work and life. Like anyone else, I want to have full trust and faith in someone. I am hopeful that is still possible.I may not have the perfect body right now, but I am working on it. Maybe we can work out together.I am currently separated, but not fully divorced YET, so if that is an issue with you, then please don't waste my time or yours. With that said, I am 40 years old and I have 2 wonderful children. I love to be outside a lot! I like to go out socially with my friends and yes have a few drinks, but not clubs. Again, if that is an issue with you or you have jealousy issues, don't waste my time or yours. I would love to do something fun on the first date or we can just go to dinner. As long as we can smile, laugh and talk.

  • Lea

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm looking for someone who likes to have fun. I enjoy cookouts, camping, going for walks, playing cards, going mudding, swimming, and being outside when the sun is shinning. When it's cold I like to watch movies, snuggle up on the couch, play board games, put together puzzles, and get into projects. I am a Steelers fan. I like road trips to wherever and being spontaneous. There's a lot I haven't done, so I'm always open to trying something new. Work, family, and friends are very important to me. I'm a casual person, pretty laid back. I also like to stay busy. I have a positive attitude, and I try to find the best in everything. I have goals for the future. I would love to visit every state at least once. I'm not perfect but I'm happy with who I am. I am very shy at first, I'm pretty outgoing once I get to know you. I'm honest and will always say it like it is, no matter what. I like all kinds of music but listen to current music and country the most. I am looking for a man with similar interests who wants to date and get to know one another. If all goes well I would like a long term relationship.I have my own house and car. I don't live with my parents. I have my life under control. I'm looking for a relationship not for someone to support me! Just thought I would add that. A first date is a chance to get to know one another to see if there's any connection, so it should be just the two of us. Something casual and comfortable. Maybe coffee?

  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I have 2 teenage boys who keep me very active. I enjoy their sports and our camping and fishing trips. I love to travel, and I'm always looking for a new adventure. I prefer to be outdoors hiking, canoeing or caving but I also love museums, car shows and old plantations. I don't mind getting dirty but I can be a girly girl also. I just want to find someone who is adventurous and energetic and not afraid to share some laughter and good times.

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