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Elsy, 40

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About Me

Like everyone, I work a lot of hours which makes it difficult to meet someone. I'm in retail and if you're not familiar, it's not a 9 to 5, M-F job. My hours and days off vary. In my spare time, I meet friends for dinner or a day out at a local park, beach or outdoor venue. I like to try new things, love to travel and enjoy live music of all kinds. I'm looking for someone with a great sense of humor, fun and adventurous, caring and compassionate, still loves to dream and has hope for themselves and humanity, someone who can leave the past in the past - grow from it and move on. He's a communicator, listener, understands that I don't need him to solve my problems, pay my bills or all of his time. What I do need is his attention, communication, affection - to feel important and wanted. I'm not looking for perfect - just perfect for me. I accept flaws and expect them just as he should from me. My heart is huge and I have a lot of love to give. My life's complex and is a rollercoaster ride, but I choose to raise my arms up high and enjoy the ride. If you're married, please go home to your wife. If you're only interested in a one night stand, go downtown - around 2:30am easy pickins! If you're in your 20s, find yourself a nice girl YOUR age and enjoy! :oPApparently in my pics, I look bitc*y. I had braces for years, so I don't smile a ton. I'm like an m n m - hard on the outside, sugar sweet on the inside. LMAO!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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