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Bethel, 40

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About Me

I'm a counselor, corporate trainer, poet, artist, hypnotherapist, dream analyst, life coach, substance abuse professional, and a dear friend to many, many people - I guess I know enough to be DANGEROUS I suppose. Don't we all???? Truth be told, aren't we all a little crazy?? There's a fine line between genuis and insanity. LOL. Lots of EXCITING things happening in my life right now, but I still find time to date somehow. I'm a prolific reader and writer. Working on getting two books published before the end of the year. First one is coming out in October probably - called "Get Busy Living: The Art of Getting Unstuck" . Also publishing my poetry collection (over ***written) before the end of the year - It is called "Persephone Rising" (my mythological hero) and I'm just picking out the best ones for publication. Don't be fooled though or intimated -- I don't know a stranger and can talk to anyone about anything and everything. People always tell me how comfortable they feel around me and relaxed. That's the counselor in me I suppose - but I'd like to think it's just the intentional act of being kind and decent to other human beings who are not that different from me really. I'm a secure and busy woman who can STILL find time to spend with people who are important to me. I am looking for someone who can hold a good conversation and is stable and kind. I really enjoy lengthy conversations over a glass of wine or some coffee. Every ONE of us has a STORY, and I would love to hear YOURS! Reciprocation is nice in relationships and I would like to find that. I am looking for a good friendship to start because I think that's the foundation of anything that's worth having. I'd be happy to make some new friends even if not interested in something more. Either way, I will be honest with you. I promise you that. I've learned that happiness in life sometimes looks very different from the way we imagined or planned it out, and it can be even better than the plans we laid out. Kind of ironic. I prefer to meet people face to face sooner vs. later. If you can't have a good conversation in person, what's the point really. Send me a note . . . we'll talk more.Have a nice day :-- don't even need a destination, I just follow my intuitive map...get in the car and drive - sometimes I end up in the next town and sometimes in another state - Central and Rock. Haven't been there with a guy yet - that's usually my girls night out (grin)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jacqulyn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am looking for a man with whom I can share an open and honest relationship with. I am extremely loyal and I do not cheat. I expect the same in return. I believe that good communication and the ability to compromise is key to a long lasting relationship.I'm very independent and I am drama free. I'm currently taking my prerequisites to attend nursing school while maintaining a full time job. With that said, my free time is valuable and I will not spend it arguing with my partner. I refuse to let anyone or anything cause any added stress to my life. I am not looking for a hook up. I do not do "friends with benefits". I find it repulsive and demeaning. Don't even waste your time messaging me if that is what you are seeking. I can not stress that enough!

  • Tessa

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Okay... I never thought I'd be back on this site. lol...Funny how life works sometimes. Anyways, here I am- Take It or Leave It! :)Hmmm.... about me. Well I'm a genetic hybrid of half Italian & half red-neck. ( Soooo...Don't make me mad, or you'll be in trouble! -Just Joking). Anyways, I love to make people laugh & I try to have fun no matter where I'm at. ...And I'm irresistibly cute if you haven't noticed. ;) I'm also completely spastically hyper in a good way! I obviously love to talk too, so if you're looking for a Quiet girl... please move along now. Lmao. BTW....I'm extremely Affectionate & should come with a Warning Label! Rarrrrr! ;***word to honestly describe my personality is FIRECRACKER cuz I'm like Boom Boom Pow! Sooooo, if I've not scared you off yet & you're into explosives... please read on... :)What am I doing with my life??? Well... I'm a successful Benefit Investment Consultant for a nationally chartered trust company. I implement investment portfolios for mostly mid-sized to large company ***k) & ***b) retirement plans. I make sure the plans operate smoothly & are compliant with ERISA & DOL regulations...Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Are ya still awake??? lol. I like to think I'm NERD HOT! ;) I love my job. But life is not all about work. I like to play too! Speaking of playing... I am a classical musician & play cello. I have all kinds of talents!! ;) I am also currently "Workin' on My Fitness", and would love to meet someone who shared the same goals for a healthier lifestyle & bringing Sexy back...;)First things people notice about me... That I can't shut up! lol. Joking kinda... Anyways---Well I guess Appearance wise,...; pretty long brown hair. (I also have other attributes I can't mention... I'm blessed! lol).. Personality wise: I am Craaaazzzzy and love to joke around. I am both witty & sarcastic.You should message me as long as you are a Normal, Non-Creepy guy with a job..... Oh, one more thing....... Please, do not waste my time. LolTtyl. ;) I'm up for anything... Dinner is always nice ... But I'll leave this one up to you to plan! ;)

  • Emogene

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Fun loving energetic woman looking to meet a decent man. I work hard and play harder. Don't do drama not even for a minute. I know where I am going and have learned from where I have been. If you have been trampled on by woman of the past and have yet to work past it I'm not the gal for you. We all have our own life stories so don't judge me until you have read my book I love country music and Classic Rock. Hanging out with friends and enjoying all life has to offer. Life is only what you make it and it am making the best of mine. So if you are looking for someone real message me and let's talk. Let's play it by ear

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