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Brenda, 39

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About Me

I'm here. Ask me & I'll probably tell you. But... I believe you should never ask a question if you're not prepared to hear the answer.So... have to be honest here. You need to add 10 years to the age shown on my profile. Guess when I set this silly thing up I was either uncomfortable with my age or a bit tipsy. Whichever is was, I have gotten over it & tried to make an honest woman of myself but this damn site it soooo not cooperating.I am not looking for a one night stand. I want someone who's in it for the long haul. Life's too short to play games.I appreciate humor & respect in equal measures. I'm a very honest person - sometimes too much so I hear. I will tell it like it is. Sorry if that hurts your feelings. But once again... don't ask & I won't tell. Simple, huh? I am fiercely loyal & will always have your back (and maybe your front - depends). But I will be there!I am wicked witty & a total smartass. If you get me, that's good. If not, then you'll never know what you are missing - literally :)I sing in the shower. I sometimes use music to speak when I can't find the right words.I have a tendency to trip over my own insecurities & sometimes I'm my own worst enemy. But I eventually get over it :-)I am as comfortable in a dress & heels as I am in cutoffs & a tank top (or sweats & a hoodie).I like most music especially country, blues and old rock.I like to do anything outdoors as long as the temperature is not over 100. If it is then a body of water is required.I love thunderstorms, sitting around a campfire & staying in bed watching movies on a snowy Sunday afternoon.I read anything and everything including the back of cereal boxes and the place mats at IHOP. Most of the time I have 2 or 3 books going at the same time - I'm multi-talented that way.; facts that I have no problem slipping into conversations. Did you know... LMAO!I enjoy a lot of other things but too much to go into here.Hope y'all find what you're looking for. Everyone deserves someone. I believe life is what you make of it.; call me. I'll be right over.P.S. Not planning on moving anytime soon & don't feel like spending weekends commuting. Would prefer to skip straight to the 2nd date but if that's not possible then I'm fairly flexible. Dinner, drinks, coffee shop, ice cream - Its all good. Especially ice cream.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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