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AislinOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
**just because my profile says I'm online- doesn't mean I'M online. I let a few friends use my profile for "browsing". Don't worry- they don't check my ***!***So, I will answer the top 3 questions I get in ***, just so we are on the same page:1.No, I don't date men that are more than a few years younger than me. ***is my limit....2. No, i'm not mormon and no, I don't date active Mormons. Been there, done that, got the tee shirt.....yea, done with that.3. Why am I still single? I'm picky, and I don't want to settle. I'm looking for something special that you can only find once. I don't care how long it takes.Also, if you are a guy who is near my age and your "range" of girls you want to date includes girls in their 20's- then i'm definitely not the girl for you. I I know the difference age/life experience makes, and if thats where you are at, we are in two different places in life.Whew! Glad that's done! Moving on.....I seriously LOVE MY LIFE! I am truly happy person, energetic (okay, maybe hyper is a better word) super independent and confident. You get what you get with me, I don't believe in pretending to be someone that i'm not. What I am NOT is a party girl, high maintenance or needy. I learned that I have to do everything myself if I want it to get done. Maybe the right person can help me change my way of thinking ;)?What I am looking for? Good question! I will know it when I find it! You never know who you might meet and how they might affect your life. I've been alone for a LONG time and I know that I'm at the point where I want to share things with someone else. I'm a busy and crazy active girl and I always have fun stuff going on that I want to share with someone else. But I also like a little old fashioned romance and I hate being the only one doing the "inviting", which seems to be the case after the first date. I like Men with confidence and who go after what they want. I appreciate a man who takes "control" and wants to be in charge, whatever the situation. I am type A in business, but I don't want to be the "pants" in a relationship. I like a MAN who is rough around the edges, likes to get dirty, can take me in the backcountry and "wow" me with his outdoor skills. (I do have a "type" that I tend to go for- rugged with the facial hair...looks hot in jeans and a tee shirt and baseball hat. But I've been wrong before! Maybe that's the problem?)I am a 2nd degree black belt in Taekwondo and in 1st degree in tactical self-defense. Im looking for a new school to train with right now...and I'mMissing training!!(No, I won't kick your ass, so don't even ask) and I also see a trainer 2 days a week. So that being said, being active and being in somewhat good shape is important to me. I need someone who can keep up or even better- challenge me to keep up with them!!I have a daughter and she is my priority and my heart. She is with me most of the time and we are always doing something to keep us entertained and busy (when we aren't at tkd that is). She is also a 2nd degree black belt and she trains with me. We are super close and frankly, she totally rocks! I think that kids are the best thing ever!I absolutely LOVE water- and if I could live on a boat, I probably would. I am an advanced scuba diver and I love to go on dive trips. I have been to some greats destinations, but there are so many more I need to see! Never dove before? Okay, yes, I will be patient and wait for you to get certified.Some of my favorite activities? I love concerts (especially outdoors), REAL games (I am a season ticket holder), movies, just playing around at the park, long drives, anything in the mountains (hiking, camping, bbq-ing,), snowmobiling, boating, scuba, four- First dates are always interesting- so whatever makes you comfortable! I don't like coffee though- so lets not make it a coffee date, please?I'm always looking for something new to try.....
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ShalaOnline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Ultimately, what you should get out of this is that just be kind. To me, to anyone you meet in all parts of your life, whether it's in a professional or personal setting. Don't be hurtful. Keep your promises. Honor your commitments.. Don't lie. Accept rejection gracefully.I generally don't have many set requirements for my date, but you need to be over your freaking ex. I'm tired of being the rebound girl and watching you pining over the girl that dumped you months ago... if you're just separated, and I don't care for how long, please don't waste our time. Please also have time to date. That's awesome that your work keeps you busy, but if dates are once every two or three weeks, no. You don't have time to date. I can be pretty patient but that's a bit much. Also - communication is awesome. Turns out you can't read someone else's mind and lack of it happens to kill relationships.What I've gathered from most of the profiles out there: You're down to earth, you want the same in a chick, you love life and live it to the fullest, you're active and want someone the same (read: no fat chicks... or even average... because, you know, you're perfect), you want someone without drama. And somehow you all have midwestern values. WTF is that, really? Decent guys come from everywhere. :) You're sarcastic, you love hiking, you are all chivalrous (uh, opening the door is just good manners, whether it's for a girl or anyone else), and you think you're the best thing since sliced bread but no one gives you a chance or a second look. You're honest and you don't play games (HA!!); you work hard to play hard, you love to travel, you're not here for a hookup.I tell it like it is but I won't be hurtful (intentionally). Sarcasm is my buddy. If I say "wow look at that! I wish I had one!" That is in no way a hint that I think you should get it for me. Apparently there are chicks that think this? Really? I'm not here for your money, I'm here for a partner to hold my hand and help me face the world. *I have a foul mouth but I can behave like a lady when necessary.*The strawberries are mine. You can move along now.*I love to bake. I would not be a good choice if you require a gluten-free diet.*Here's the cliche "I love to smile" but dammit, I really do.**;Flag". The "staff" is silent. *Hiking isn't all that bad when it isn't warmer than 80 degrees... which leaves maybe a month every year that hiking is acceptable.*I sometimes laugh too loudly*I love to wear heels but haven't had much of a chance lately.*I love cats (have three, shorthair) and dogs are pretty cool, too. I'll supply the claritin or zyrtec if need be.*I will support your causes if you support mine. I'm a great cheerleader, minus the outfit.*I am loyal*I am generous*I will do anything (legal!) for the one I love.*I rarely wear makeup*I have the worst memory*I'm politically incorrect*I've given up on stellar grammar as a requirement, now it's more or less that I'm fine with passable grammar/spelling.*I love country dancing (don't worry, I have a partner so I won't be dragging you with me)*I have two boys, ages 13 and 16. The older one lives with me, the other with his dad. There is no need for a sitter so this will not affect my ability to date.*I go to the gym ***days a week. Just started though, so I'm waiting for some results...*I am a skeptic. If you're gonna quote stats and shit, you better have the sources.*I have a lot of things in my interests sections - Just because it's there doesn't mean I'm an expert on the matter or even good at it. They're just things I enjoy.*Just because I say I like tattoos and piercings, it does not mean that you have to have any.*Religious apologists... theists... I'm sorry, but no.Oh, and - sunglasses on your forehead look dumb. Seriously, don't do it. Top of your head, fine. Literally right above your eyes, just don't even *** also find it rather lame that a lot of guys are shaving a few years ***is not a few!) off their actual age so that they can get around POF's age/contact rule. Makes you seem kinda pervy, really. DUDE. A 22 yr old chick doesn't wanna date your 50 year old ass unless you've got lots of money! In my experience, most of you don't...WOW y'all are nuts. OK OK, not all of you. But geez, if I send a "thanks but no thanks" ***, replying "Whatever" or "I wasn't interested in you anyway" isn't bowing out gracefully. These were from guys that said they're not like the others... So if you're "not like the other guys" and it turns out I'm not interested, keep it classy. One final thing: You can justify almost anything just so long as you say "for science!" Trust me. It works. I enjoy hiking, and thankfully it is finally hiking weather. Mini-golf may seem like more of a teenagers' date, but seriously. It's a heck of a lot of fun. I'm terrible. I swear at the ball. I swear at the course. I swear at my golf partner. Sometimes I even swear at myself. BUT. I don't cheat. If it takes me 14 attempts, I write down 14. Maybe in your column, but whatever... Movies, as long as there is ample time for talk afterwards, is actually just fine. I want to see my date's sense of humor. Food is always good... especially burgers, as long as they're not from some fast food joint (that's second date). Maybe even a walk in the park.
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CarylOnline
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I am fun and caring. I enjoying doing all kinds of things. I am a huge sports fan and Sunday's I can be found on the couch watching football! Looking for someone that knows how to be faithful and doesn't lie. I am not looking for games or drama. I am independent and want a man that is the same. BOTTOMLINE....if your looking for sex or to cheat on someone that you are with, move on and keep looking! Enjoying some wings and beer!