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JesusOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Women are like apples the best ones are at the top of the trees. The Men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. ***, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think there is something wrong with them, when, in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree... I've been blessed with a good life, but my search for someone to share it with has lasted far too long! I enjoy doing so many things, but everything is better when you do them with someone you like. I live in southern IN, in the country, this is where I will most likely stay due to my career & the school systems. I'm not looking to be taken care of, I've done a fine job on my own...I just want someone on the same page to share life with. If you are more than an hour away, it's probably not going to work... I believe on a first date it should be somewhere quite enough to talk. Maybe dinner & and a walk.
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ShalaOnline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Ultimately, what you should get out of this is that just be kind. To me, to anyone you meet in all parts of your life, whether it's in a professional or personal setting. Don't be hurtful. Keep your promises. Honor your commitments.. Don't lie. Accept rejection gracefully.I generally don't have many set requirements for my date, but you need to be over your freaking ex. I'm tired of being the rebound girl and watching you pining over the girl that dumped you months ago... if you're just separated, and I don't care for how long, please don't waste our time. Please also have time to date. That's awesome that your work keeps you busy, but if dates are once every two or three weeks, no. You don't have time to date. I can be pretty patient but that's a bit much. Also - communication is awesome. Turns out you can't read someone else's mind and lack of it happens to kill relationships.What I've gathered from most of the profiles out there: You're down to earth, you want the same in a chick, you love life and live it to the fullest, you're active and want someone the same (read: no fat chicks... or even average... because, you know, you're perfect), you want someone without drama. And somehow you all have midwestern values. WTF is that, really? Decent guys come from everywhere. :) You're sarcastic, you love hiking, you are all chivalrous (uh, opening the door is just good manners, whether it's for a girl or anyone else), and you think you're the best thing since sliced bread but no one gives you a chance or a second look. You're honest and you don't play games (HA!!); you work hard to play hard, you love to travel, you're not here for a hookup.I tell it like it is but I won't be hurtful (intentionally). Sarcasm is my buddy. If I say "wow look at that! I wish I had one!" That is in no way a hint that I think you should get it for me. Apparently there are chicks that think this? Really? I'm not here for your money, I'm here for a partner to hold my hand and help me face the world. *I have a foul mouth but I can behave like a lady when necessary.*The strawberries are mine. You can move along now.*I love to bake. I would not be a good choice if you require a gluten-free diet.*Here's the cliche "I love to smile" but dammit, I really do.**;Flag". The "staff" is silent. *Hiking isn't all that bad when it isn't warmer than 80 degrees... which leaves maybe a month every year that hiking is acceptable.*I sometimes laugh too loudly*I love to wear heels but haven't had much of a chance lately.*I love cats (have three, shorthair) and dogs are pretty cool, too. I'll supply the claritin or zyrtec if need be.*I will support your causes if you support mine. I'm a great cheerleader, minus the outfit.*I am loyal*I am generous*I will do anything (legal!) for the one I love.*I rarely wear makeup*I have the worst memory*I'm politically incorrect*I've given up on stellar grammar as a requirement, now it's more or less that I'm fine with passable grammar/spelling.*I love country dancing (don't worry, I have a partner so I won't be dragging you with me)*I have two boys, ages 13 and 16. The older one lives with me, the other with his dad. There is no need for a sitter so this will not affect my ability to date.*I go to the gym ***days a week. Just started though, so I'm waiting for some results...*I am a skeptic. If you're gonna quote stats and shit, you better have the sources.*I have a lot of things in my interests sections - Just because it's there doesn't mean I'm an expert on the matter or even good at it. They're just things I enjoy.*Just because I say I like tattoos and piercings, it does not mean that you have to have any.*Religious apologists... theists... I'm sorry, but no.Oh, and - sunglasses on your forehead look dumb. Seriously, don't do it. Top of your head, fine. Literally right above your eyes, just don't even *** also find it rather lame that a lot of guys are shaving a few years ***is not a few!) off their actual age so that they can get around POF's age/contact rule. Makes you seem kinda pervy, really. DUDE. A 22 yr old chick doesn't wanna date your 50 year old ass unless you've got lots of money! In my experience, most of you don't...WOW y'all are nuts. OK OK, not all of you. But geez, if I send a "thanks but no thanks" ***, replying "Whatever" or "I wasn't interested in you anyway" isn't bowing out gracefully. These were from guys that said they're not like the others... So if you're "not like the other guys" and it turns out I'm not interested, keep it classy. One final thing: You can justify almost anything just so long as you say "for science!" Trust me. It works. I enjoy hiking, and thankfully it is finally hiking weather. Mini-golf may seem like more of a teenagers' date, but seriously. It's a heck of a lot of fun. I'm terrible. I swear at the ball. I swear at the course. I swear at my golf partner. Sometimes I even swear at myself. BUT. I don't cheat. If it takes me 14 attempts, I write down 14. Maybe in your column, but whatever... Movies, as long as there is ample time for talk afterwards, is actually just fine. I want to see my date's sense of humor. Food is always good... especially burgers, as long as they're not from some fast food joint (that's second date). Maybe even a walk in the park.
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PearlineOnline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone." ~Audrey HepburnWant to feel butterflies again...I am looking to meet friends first and if a relationship develops even better. I believe a relationship is like many things and you get out of it, what you're willing to put into it. We reap what we sow... Without proper care and feeding, failure is inevitable. I am very calm, easy going and laid back. I get along well with just about everyone. I'm the mother of two, wonderful sons. They live with their father but spend holidays and part of the summer with me. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for bad boys but only from an image perspective. He must be successful in his chosen career, responsible, and open to a committed relationship if it reaches that point. I am not interested in hooking up or flings. I'm serious about finding someone charming, fun, witty, with a great sense of humor to share life with. If you aren't on the same page, keep looking... & Good luck to you. :) I enjoy going places and trying new things. Life is too short to waste time not living it. I enjoy reading, traveling, cooking, dining out, live music, going to the beach, walks in the park and spending time outdoors when the weather is nice. I like to have fun, period and that is more about who you are with than what you're doing usually. :) Aspirations: like to own/ride a Harley & Ha!Thank you for taking time to read my profile if you are interested in getting to know me.... Please let me know. If my profile offends you then you don't get me at all.., it says more about my sense of humor than anything. ;) p.s. I'm kind of a stickler for spelling and grammar. If you need an editor, I'm your woman. Ha. If you can't spell your profession, same thing... I know spell check doesn't catch it if you spell manager m-a-n-g-e-r so check it twice! :) Manger is what baby Jesus slept in. I know, I'm hardcore, right? Ha. My mom says don't correct people, it's rude & they hate it but I just can't help myself... These things jump off the page and scream at me. I corrected my English teacher in college! p.s.s. if you have shirt off, bathroom pics... It could be a deal breaker. Definitely don't want to see certain things in the background. Ha. If you're showing off tattoos or muscles... I'm not impressed... I'm more impressed with what you have to say, how well you entertain me, & whether you can make me laugh, keep me laughing and are willing to do what it takes to make me happy. If you are the one, no other woman will love you more or treat you better than I will. That is a promise... p.s.s.s. if you are discussing what you and others did or are doing or creating a caption for a pic of you and others... Here's the thing about whether it's I or me... Forget about the others and say the sentence without them. (i.e. This is a picture of my sons and I. Is this grammatically correct? NO! Why? ...because without them in the picture... This is a picture of me. NOT - "This is a picture of I.") If you totally get what I'm saying and think I'm an angel for it... You could be the one! Ha. One last tip, I before E except after C and in words like sleigh, weigh, height, freight... See the pattern here? "eigh." Don't get all defensive and feel the urge to curse me out in a message that contains all kind of errors either. If you don't see the humor in this or get it then we would not hit it off... I'm sorry. I won't really check all your messages. Haha. Don't be surprised if I make mistakes sometimes too... I'm human. ;) I'm speaking in generalities here. ;) I'm open to anything really... Coffee, drinks, walk in the park or downtown. It would be nice if it is a relatively quiet place so we can chat. I do enjoy being taken out for dinner! Jack Fry's is my favorite restaurant but I also like trying new places too. Comedy clubs & live music are great too!