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Janel, 35

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About Me

I'm just me! Either you like me or you don't! I transposed the numbers in my birth year and it wont let me change it so I am really 45! I wouldn't want to mislead anyone.So apparently I need to talk about myself for a bit. I am someone that values intellect and conversation, if you are armed with wit bring it! I find I am never short on laughter because it is what fuels me. Life is too short for taking yourself too seriously.I enjoy many things that this world has to offer being angry and drama is not two of them. Ok I'd like to keep somethings for if I meet someone in person.This is me in the pictures and they are all recent. I wish you all good luck and happy fishing! Wow I'm just looking for someone normal who is who they say they are and doesn't play games. If I want a penpal I'll write a soldier he deserves the attention. Please do not send me picture of your private regions as I find this truly offensive. I am a nice gal who does not want hook-ups so if this is what you want I'm not it! Whatever something simple with lots of doors just in case......LOL

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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