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Nia, 32

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About Me

About me: Enjoy great conversation about everything and anything, giving my all, spending time with friends and family (I mean, really, who doesn't), achieving my goals & being outdoors. I'm funny, witty, positive and upbeat and want to meet someone who is as well. When it comes to relationships- chemistry and that spark are very important so as much as we may hit it off through messages etc, there's got to be 'clickage' when we see each other. I'm looking for a person that knows how to take charge when necessary. Someone driven, confident, ambitious, open minded and easy going. I'm sarcastic at times so you have to be able to keep up. I'd like to meet someone who is honest, involved and supportive, who makes me laugh but knows when to be serious. I'm quite into music (all kinds from trance, house stuff to classical or country), spending time outdoors and believing that at the end of it all everything happens for a reason. I'm a NY sports fan- excuse to go to the bar and have a couple drinks and good times with friends. I live for road trips and love to drive. If and when I watch TV its usually the National Geographic, Animal Planet or the Discovery channel, though I do DVR a couple other shows here and there to watch on lazy Sunday mornings. I'm a runner... but no marathons for me, an occasional 5k here or there but nothing more than that- maybe one day. I am divorced- it was amicable, no drama... I honestly thought that 'sport' ended in elementary school at recess hehe, it's great fun and you meet great people. Def drinks or coffee.. It's easier to extend a 'short' date than it is to shorten a dinner date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marchelle

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    That being said...I'm a free-spirited, fun-loving girl that enjoys making people laugh. I believe that Laughter is the absolute, best medicine for any given situation. Hence the reason why I'm usually the comic relief of my group.I'm working as a Server/Bartender, and hoping to get back to school within the next year. Its been a long process, but I've almost got all my ducks in a row. Once I do, I'll be attending school to obtain my Bachelor's in Photography. I feel at home behind a camera. Definitely more at home behind the lens than in front of it. LOL! I want to be able to share beauty with the world. I want to take the ordinary, that we see every day, and translate it into something beautiful that makes people stop and take a second to reevaluate what they see when they look at it.I'm an eternal optimist. I can find the good in just about any situation. And I'm always looking for that silver lining, no matter how tattered it might be. I don't see the point in being pessimistic. Life's too short to not be able to take something good away from every encounter.I can't say that I'm necessarily looking for forever right now, but I'm not opposed to looking for a right now that could turn into forever. I just don't want to put any pressure on it to happen right away. I'm looking for someone that I can enjoy hanging out and spending time with while we get to know each other better. Working in a bar, I get to meet a lot of people, but if any of you have spent time in bars, you know that they're not really the place to go to find a "relationship". Just sayin.My match must love animals, kids, smiling, random conversations about whatever pops up, thunderstorms, roller coasters, and spontaneity. I'm usually a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl. Seems like every time I try to make plans, things go wrong or they fall through, so I've found that not making plans has a tendency to work out better.So, that's me...kinda. Its hard to put the ball of energy and light that I am into words. If you like what you've read and would like to know more, drop me a line. And one of my favorite quotes..."You have to embrace the chaos, if you do, life just might surprise you!"Disclaimer:I am a bi-sexual girl who is just looking for someone to treat me right. I've tried dating guys for the majority of my adult life and haven't found one that was truly worthwhile and worthy of me. Maybe its time that i stop looking for a man to share my life with and *** a girlfriend i can grow with. I came out to my parents at the age of 21, so my family knows and accepts it. I haven't dated a woman, but i'd like to find a friend that could end up as something amazing.I don't want any pretty lies. I'm over the games, I'm over the B.S. I offer straight-forward honesty and expect the same in return. So, if that's too much to ask, then please don't message me.If you do decide after all of this to send me a message, please be original. Send me something that's gonna set you apart from everyone else. Originality is a great thing, and deserves respect. It will be greatly appreciated from this end. :) I believe a first date is one in which you can at least hear each other talk without having to yell to be heard. Bars are great, because they're public, but if you can't hear the person you're trying to get to know, doesn't that kind of defeat the purpose? LOLSame with movies...I love going to see movies in the theater, but again, how are you supposed to get to know someone if you're sitting in a dark room where strangers will get mad if you keep talking? LOLI guess, for me, an ideal first date, would be a meal of some kind, whether its lunch, dinner, or coffee and a danish interspersed with intelligent conversation, and a joke or two...what can I say, I'm all about the laughter. Then maybe, if we hit it off we can decide together what to do after that.Like I said, I'm not really much of a planner. Surprise me!

  • Kelcey

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am one of those people who is completely honest about everything, sometimes to a fault. But it really weeds people out, most people don't like to hear the truth. Because of this, I don't have a lot of friends, but the ones I do have I would do anything for and they for me. So if you don't like the truth, you should probably just stop here!I guess that is the big thing about me that usually either attracts people to me, or drives them away. Other than that, I am pretty simple. I love sports, huge football fan. Horseback riding is my main sport, but when I have the time I also like to play golf, surf and hike. If any of this so far interests you, then feel free to ask more!

  • Cheryll

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I love to cook. And bake.. I also love to take pictures.. I have 2 children 9& 13. Daughter is 13 & son 9. I listens to mostly county music but I'm not picky. .I'm nothing fancy... I'm a plain jane kinda girl.. I wear light make up.. jeans and t-shirts.. I do love getting dressed up tho...I want to find a guy who will change my mind about relationships... Surprise me.. I'm up for ANYTHING. ..

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