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Benedicta, 31

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About Me

Im a single mother to a beautiful 7 year old little girl who is my world.. I am a very independant person im not looking to be supported just someone to love and love me in return..I am a hard working woman.. I enjoy sports very much i love hanging out ad having a drink while watching a good game on tv. I love to spend the day on the water fishing ! Im very laid back.. I do love my daughter very much and she comes first in life. Hanging out in a public place so we both feel comfortable then maybe to a movie or whatever the night brings

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Benedicta

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I've been single for awhile now and am ready to change that. I believe in love at first sight, but find it can be easily confused with lust at first sight. And I'm not looking for lust. I want a loving, caring, passionate man that's affectionate, a great kisser, romantic, can carry a conversation, good listener and communicator, and most of all can make me laugh the rest of our days.I'm out going and love to laugh and have fun. I'm also very spontaneous. My friends wouldn't put it past me to go skinny dipping in the middle of the day or sneak into some private area just for the thrill and to see it with my own eyes. I'm looking for someone that shares my adventurous side but also likes to just chillax at home and caudle on the couch with a good movie. I'm a singer and I love all types of music... If there is music playing I am most likely humming of singing along.. It's not a must, but a man that can sing or play an *** so sexy to me. Not to mention that I love to go sing karaoke, and to have someone to share that fun with would be great...I'm a women that knows what she wants and what I don't... NUMBER ONE...don't lie to me...BE Blunt no mater how much you think it might hurt my feelings. Because chances are it won't hurt me. I am a strong women that has a very different out look on life that most women...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NO men with drama.. I'm a no drama type of girl that never gets jealous and I expect that from my man also... I'm looking for a secure man in himself and that can be secure in what ever relationship he is in.... I'm not into casual dating. I'm looking for a man that can't wait to see me every night and think about me when we aren't together, and vise versa..... I want to fall in love again, but I believe it should happen in a natural progression. Nothing should be rushed just a natural flow of growing feelings.I'm a very girly girl and love fashion... but I'm still a country girl at heart.... I love to camp fish, and sit around a fire late at night with a beer... mudding ,,, races,,, 4weelers... I just like to look good doing it.. They are just clothes. They will wash..LOL I am financially secure. I own my own home and car.. I'm very independent in that regards.... I do want a man that is also financially secure.. Not that I want my mans money, but it just shows that he has the same kind of value, responsibility, and since of hard work that I do....That is very attractive to me... I take pride in the fact that I have worked for every thing that I have and I would never take any hand outs or something that I haven't worked for when there are people out there that have nothing and no means of getting it...I don't have any kids of my own but I am a kid person. So if you have kids, that is a bonus for me. I miss the family life more then anything. Going to the basket ball games as a family or just heading to the park to play. I do have two step kids from my previous marriage that I raised for 9 years from the time they were 1 and 3 and still claim them as mine.. I like men not boys, and tend to date older for that reason. How ever I don't age discriminate. If you can prove you can treat a women with respect and dignity you might change my mind. But I won't chase a man. If you want to hangout just ask, but I believe a real man should make the plans, order the drinks and make the decisions . I think I come across as shy because I won't make the first move, but I am not. Just old fashioned in that aspect. I believe that romance and shivery still exist out there and I won't settle for less. So be persistent, step up to the challenge, and lets have some fun seeing where things lead I'm really up for anything fun.... And I can have fun doing just about anything... Dinner and a movie is great..but I also would enjoy just going for hike or fishing. But don't ask me what I want to do..Ask me out and make a plan. Then we will see how it goes. I'll plan the next date...LOL

  • Joel

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am 35 years old….or like to say that I am 29 with experience…lol Most importantly I am mother of one awesome young man and I have to say that becoming a mother has been the GREATEST accomplishments in my life...I am a single mother in a one parent home so of course my son comes first as it should with any parent single or not! I recently graduated in May of this year. It's been a tough road and had its challenges but I am loving my new profession....it allows me to show off my true personality through compassion and empathy for my patients. I have found it to be very humbling but also very rewarding as well. Now I guess I will just get this out in the open...I have found on this site there is a lot of men looking for just one thing or a lot of cowardly men out there...I believe that attraction and along with that sex is important in a relationship but not everything....I am not just looking to hook up or have a "good" time...Seriously I am 35 years old with a son that is 13 years old so think I out grew all that many years ago! I want the whole package as I am the whole package in return. I am not perfect in any way and not expecting perfection in return just happiness! Relationships take time and effort! I have never been married and engaged once...I am a one man woman looking for a one woman man....a man that is responsible..Mature.. Respectful..caring..Affectionate...funny is always a good quality and etc. As for the question "What do you like to do for fun"...I am up for anything or at least trying it...going to school and working full time I enjoy spending my spare time with my son and/or that special someone. I am pretty much a home body but like to go out on occasion. Nothing better than cuddling up on the couch with that special someone whether it's to watch a movie, news or nothing at all! I have tried to make it a point to get together with my family at least once a week for a cookout on the weekends when it’s nice or meet for dinner. Speaking of cooking...I can cook and bake but with just the 2 of us it seems pointless sometimes....absolutely look to cook on the grill even when there is 2 feet of snow on the ground. I am also know for changing my hair color and style and can't see me changing so hopefully you don't mind. Looking to date with the hopes for long term relationship and yes that includes marriage at some point. If you’re crazy or act crazy controlling please don't message me or if you can't be honest even to yourself don't waste your time or mine! What ever happened to being straight up and honest with people...I have met some pathetic men on this site but know that not all men have this flaw so I am eager to find the exceptions !! BTW...I love football and baseball...Go Blue....Love the Cowboys but hate Romo.....but it sure does seem like that at times)....of course my ultimate favorite team is whatever team my son is on...smiles Seriously.....if u have a cigarette hanging out of your mouth in your profile pic..don't bother...don't have a problem with smokers just think it shouldn't be the focus point of your profile pic...what is up with the sunglasses and the bad Ass look on the face...everyone loves to see someone's eyes and a smile means you are happy...happy people make others happy...it’s contagious so smile....life is too short to live any other way but happy!!! Live life with no regrets and learn from your mistakes!!! DRAMA FREE PLEASE! Enough Enough already....want to know more guess you will have to send me a message!! Good luck to everyone in finding that special someone!!

  • Jacque

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm a recently widowed mother of 4 girls.. Looking for someone who knows the joys of parenthood.... I'm a cna and work hard, I like country music and enjoy hanging out with my friends who are my family as well... Like I said I'm recently widowed and just looking for someone who can talk with good manners and knowledge.. my kids are my life and if you can't handle this then look else where..************ IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR FWB OR A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER YOUR LOOKING AT THE WRONG PERSON.********

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