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Joel, 35

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About Me

I am 35 years old….or like to say that I am 29 with experience…lol Most importantly I am mother of one awesome young man and I have to say that becoming a mother has been the GREATEST accomplishments in my life...I am a single mother in a one parent home so of course my son comes first as it should with any parent single or not! I recently graduated in May of this year. It's been a tough road and had its challenges but I am loving my new profession....it allows me to show off my true personality through compassion and empathy for my patients. I have found it to be very humbling but also very rewarding as well. Now I guess I will just get this out in the open...I have found on this site there is a lot of men looking for just one thing or a lot of cowardly men out there...I believe that attraction and along with that sex is important in a relationship but not everything....I am not just looking to hook up or have a "good" time...Seriously I am 35 years old with a son that is 13 years old so think I out grew all that many years ago! I want the whole package as I am the whole package in return. I am not perfect in any way and not expecting perfection in return just happiness! Relationships take time and effort! I have never been married and engaged once...I am a one man woman looking for a one woman man....a man that is responsible..Mature.. Respectful..caring..Affectionate...funny is always a good quality and etc. As for the question "What do you like to do for fun"...I am up for anything or at least trying it...going to school and working full time I enjoy spending my spare time with my son and/or that special someone. I am pretty much a home body but like to go out on occasion. Nothing better than cuddling up on the couch with that special someone whether it's to watch a movie, news or nothing at all! I have tried to make it a point to get together with my family at least once a week for a cookout on the weekends when it’s nice or meet for dinner. Speaking of cooking...I can cook and bake but with just the 2 of us it seems pointless sometimes....absolutely look to cook on the grill even when there is 2 feet of snow on the ground. I am also know for changing my hair color and style and can't see me changing so hopefully you don't mind. Looking to date with the hopes for long term relationship and yes that includes marriage at some point. If you’re crazy or act crazy controlling please don't message me or if you can't be honest even to yourself don't waste your time or mine! What ever happened to being straight up and honest with people...I have met some pathetic men on this site but know that not all men have this flaw so I am eager to find the exceptions !! BTW...I love football and baseball...Go Blue....Love the Cowboys but hate Romo.....but it sure does seem like that at times)....of course my ultimate favorite team is whatever team my son is on...smiles Seriously.....if u have a cigarette hanging out of your mouth in your profile pic..don't bother...don't have a problem with smokers just think it shouldn't be the focus point of your profile pic...what is up with the sunglasses and the bad Ass look on the face...everyone loves to see someone's eyes and a smile means you are happy...happy people make others happy...it’s contagious so smile....life is too short to live any other way but happy!!! Live life with no regrets and learn from your mistakes!!! DRAMA FREE PLEASE! Enough Enough already....want to know more guess you will have to send me a message!! Good luck to everyone in finding that special someone!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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