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Benedicta, 31
United States, Georgia, Cordele

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I've been single for awhile now and am ready to change that. I believe in love at first sight, but find it can be easily confused with lust at first sight. And I'm not looking for lust. I want a loving, caring, passionate man that's affectionate, a great kisser, romantic, can carry a conversation, good listener and communicator, and most of all can make me laugh the rest of our days.I'm out going and love to laugh and have fun. I'm also very spontaneous. My friends wouldn't put it past me to go skinny dipping in the middle of the day or sneak into some private area just for the thrill and to see it with my own eyes. I'm looking for someone that shares my adventurous side but also likes to just chillax at home and caudle on the couch with a good movie. I'm a singer and I love all types of music... If there is music playing I am most likely humming of singing along.. It's not a must, but a man that can sing or play an *** so sexy to me. Not to mention that I love to go sing karaoke, and to have someone to share that fun with would be great...I'm a women that knows what she wants and what I don't... NUMBER ONE...don't lie to me...BE Blunt no mater how much you think it might hurt my feelings. Because chances are it won't hurt me. I am a strong women that has a very different out look on life that most women...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NO men with drama.. I'm a no drama type of girl that never gets jealous and I expect that from my man also... I'm looking for a secure man in himself and that can be secure in what ever relationship he is in.... I'm not into casual dating. I'm looking for a man that can't wait to see me every night and think about me when we aren't together, and vise versa..... I want to fall in love again, but I believe it should happen in a natural progression. Nothing should be rushed just a natural flow of growing feelings.I'm a very girly girl and love fashion... but I'm still a country girl at heart.... I love to camp fish, and sit around a fire late at night with a beer... mudding ,,, races,,, 4weelers... I just like to look good doing it.. They are just clothes. They will wash..LOL I am financially secure. I own my own home and car.. I'm very independent in that regards.... I do want a man that is also financially secure.. Not that I want my mans money, but it just shows that he has the same kind of value, responsibility, and since of hard work that I do....That is very attractive to me... I take pride in the fact that I have worked for every thing that I have and I would never take any hand outs or something that I haven't worked for when there are people out there that have nothing and no means of getting it...I don't have any kids of my own but I am a kid person. So if you have kids, that is a bonus for me. I miss the family life more then anything. Going to the basket ball games as a family or just heading to the park to play. I do have two step kids from my previous marriage that I raised for 9 years from the time they were 1 and 3 and still claim them as mine.. I like men not boys, and tend to date older for that reason. How ever I don't age discriminate. If you can prove you can treat a women with respect and dignity you might change my mind. But I won't chase a man. If you want to hangout just ask, but I believe a real man should make the plans, order the drinks and make the decisions . I think I come across as shy because I won't make the first move, but I am not. Just old fashioned in that aspect. I believe that romance and shivery still exist out there and I won't settle for less. So be persistent, step up to the challenge, and lets have some fun seeing where things lead I'm really up for anything fun.... And I can have fun doing just about anything... Dinner and a movie is great..but I also would enjoy just going for hike or fishing. But don't ask me what I want to do..Ask me out and make a plan. Then we will see how it goes. I'll plan the next date...LOL

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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