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Elfleda, 31
United States, Georgia, Commerce

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About Me

I have an inbox full of "hi, wanna chat?" messages; please come up with something unique and enticing if you would like a response. Thank you :)Now on to the good stuff :) Who I am:I'm a defense litigation paralegal and a devoted mother to my 22 month old daughter. She is the light of my life!My career is fast paced, but I love that I have a good work-life balance.My parents *** me great morals so I definitely know the difference between right and wrong and I'm a good girl.I'm honest, sometimes to a fault and I'm not afraid to make and/or admit to my mistakes.I think I'm pretty funny :) I'm optimistic, affectionate and romantic, realistic, level-headed, independent, responsible, intelligent; and not just book smart, I have common sense too lolI also have enough wit to banter with the boys, but in all honesty, I'm not a HUGE sports fanatic. Don't get me wrong, I like sports and I'd be happy to go to a baseball game once and a while, but I don't want to spend all day Sunday watching football and golf.What I'm looking for in a man:Well-spoken and intelligent; someone that can challenge me intellectually, but can also make me laugh.You must know the difference between your and you're, also their, there, and they're. Grammar and punctuation are not difficult. Take the time to use them. A solid career is a must and it should make you happy, not be something you dread doing everyday just to pay the bills.Financial responsibility is also huge for me. I'm not asking for a sugar daddy, nor do I want one, but you do need to be able to take care of you without a woman directing you on how to do so. I need a grown man.A nice gentleman who believes in chivalry would be a plus, but it seems to be hard to find these days.Honesty; say how you feel and mean what you say. Please don't play games to try to manipulate the situation.You must be family oriented because my family is my world!What my "relationship needs" are:I need someone who is independent so that we do not lose our own identities as individuals by becoming indentifed only as a "couple." I need someone who is honest and upfront.I need someone who is energetic, enthusiastic and has a high self-image.I need someone who will support and/or participate in my personal and professional interests.I need someone who is NOT looking to be taken care of, but who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and happy relationship.I need someone who will take the time to find a resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for a temporary "I'll say what I think you want to hear to end this discussion" agreement.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi I'm Kay I am 33 years old, I am sweet, loving, romantic and sensual. I love life and I know how to make you feel awesome. I am ready to settle down and find the guy of my dreams. I love cooking, walking, reading and swimming. I enjoy classic rock, rap and r and b. I have worked as a cosmetologist since I was 19 but I felt it was time for a change. So I started truck-driving school and I will be finished very soon. I am very excited to start my new career. It would also be the perfect time to start a new relationship. I am not specific when it comes to looks I believe most attractiveness comes from within. However please do not contact me if you drink everyday or do drugs I'm not interested. If you are a social drinker or ***friendly that is fine with me. I look forward to hearing from you! It would depend on the person but if we felt comfortable enough to be at my place or yours I would love to shop for and then make dinner together. Then if it was during the warm time of year we could take a nice long walk and get to know one another. Of coarse dinner out is always lovely as well, and there is nothing wrong with a sweet little picnic as long as the weather is appropriate. These are some ideas but I am very open and I love new mini adventures.

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Ok… so let’s start:I thought I would throw some keywords that would describe what I like to do. If you recognize yourself in some of them, I think it might be worth taking the time to keep on reading my profile. If you don’t keep on reading, well - you probably don't meet my standards either. :)Artistic, surprises, music, dancing, books, last minute plans, open mind, dog-lover, creative, zoo, spontaneity, going out (and also staying in), sharing, kid-friendly, simplicity, respect, flip flops (yes, the sandals), down to earth, casual, movies, work ethic, sense of humor about yourself, awareness. A short list of things that I’m not really fond of:- Gaming Addicts (the first step is admitting you have a problem)- Self-centered people (but, hey… have you heard anybody saying “yes, yes, I am definitely self-centered?" So this one doesn’t really count!)- Rude Drivers (No, red lights are not just a suggestion and turn signals are not optional features)- Excessively working out (Ain't no body got time for that!!)- Superficial people (but same problem as #2…)In addition, if you happen to voice the following sentences regularly, we’re definitely increasing the chance of a good match here:“Ok let’s give it a try”“To be honest, I don’t know”“I respect that”“You're right and I'm wrong" (ok, if you can try saying this one, then so can I)And lastly (I promise), I am silly, stubborn, creative and my mom says I'm kind of a big deal!

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