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Elfleda, 31
United States, Georgia, Commerce

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About Me

I have an inbox full of "hi, wanna chat?" messages; please come up with something unique and enticing if you would like a response. Thank you :)Now on to the good stuff :) Who I am:I'm a defense litigation paralegal and a devoted mother to my 22 month old daughter. She is the light of my life!My career is fast paced, but I love that I have a good work-life balance.My parents *** me great morals so I definitely know the difference between right and wrong and I'm a good girl.I'm honest, sometimes to a fault and I'm not afraid to make and/or admit to my mistakes.I think I'm pretty funny :) I'm optimistic, affectionate and romantic, realistic, level-headed, independent, responsible, intelligent; and not just book smart, I have common sense too lolI also have enough wit to banter with the boys, but in all honesty, I'm not a HUGE sports fanatic. Don't get me wrong, I like sports and I'd be happy to go to a baseball game once and a while, but I don't want to spend all day Sunday watching football and golf.What I'm looking for in a man:Well-spoken and intelligent; someone that can challenge me intellectually, but can also make me laugh.You must know the difference between your and you're, also their, there, and they're. Grammar and punctuation are not difficult. Take the time to use them. A solid career is a must and it should make you happy, not be something you dread doing everyday just to pay the bills.Financial responsibility is also huge for me. I'm not asking for a sugar daddy, nor do I want one, but you do need to be able to take care of you without a woman directing you on how to do so. I need a grown man.A nice gentleman who believes in chivalry would be a plus, but it seems to be hard to find these days.Honesty; say how you feel and mean what you say. Please don't play games to try to manipulate the situation.You must be family oriented because my family is my world!What my "relationship needs" are:I need someone who is independent so that we do not lose our own identities as individuals by becoming indentifed only as a "couple." I need someone who is honest and upfront.I need someone who is energetic, enthusiastic and has a high self-image.I need someone who will support and/or participate in my personal and professional interests.I need someone who is NOT looking to be taken care of, but who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and happy relationship.I need someone who will take the time to find a resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for a temporary "I'll say what I think you want to hear to end this discussion" agreement.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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